Catheter Insertion Preferences
As a giver or receiver, what are your preferences for inserting a catheter and why?
For Example:
Do you like to go slow, or quick?
For male genitalia, do you perfer erect or flaccid?
Do you perfer to have a full bladder/urgency?
Lube: Injected into the urethra prior to insertion or globbed at urethral meatus? Also, do you perfer an anesthetic lube?
Do you perfer the receiver be bound, free, or a more clinical setting?
Please share me any other preferences you have.
I have been catheterized three times and the insertion has been the same for all three. After telling my Mistress that I was curious about what a catheter felt like, she offered to put one in me. We ordered everything necessary. When the time came, I was bound spread eagle, and I had a hard on that only got stronger with each step of the process. (I was surprised when she started swabbing the head and especially the meatus with Betadine and I got even more aroused.) She lubed the catheter, and put a glob at the urethral meatus. She had one hand wrapped around my penis, and the other gripping the catheter. She looked up at me and asked, "are you ready?" She looked like she was going to jam it down my urethra, so I asked her to go slow. She said, "you are not going to like the way this feels, so it is best to go quick and get it over with." I told her I wanted to go slow because I wanted to feel it. She said, "I always do it quick for patients, but if you want, I will go slow." I felt a slight burning sensation, that was mixed with pleasure as she slowly penetrated my urethra. It felt really good as the catheter passed through my prostate, and then a bit intense as she penetrated into my bladder, and the slow relief as my full bladder drained into the bag
I have been curious what it feels like to have her treat me like her patients, and do it her way and with a flaccid penis. However, I do not want to exchange a rare opportunity for urethral pleasure for potential pain, and I don't think I can stay flaccid.
I would love to hear your preferences and reasoning, and if you think I should let her do it her way?