Hips are in the way

Trying to fist and I have all the stretch that I need but my hip bones are in the way of the fist going through. We’ve tried all different directions and angles. Has anyone struggled with this? I’d really love to know how to work around this.

Without being there to give you a hand... I’d suggest forgetting ‘fisting’. Instead think of ‘handing’ and move your or you partner’s hand away from a fist shape to a goose head. The fingers form a wedge to spread you and you can tuck the thumb in out of the way. This will reduce the size of the hand to its minimum.

If you’ve practiced with dildos with a greater circumference that your hand in this shape, you should be able to ease your hand in and then open it up and ball it into a fist once it’s well inside.

Also look at lube, basically use loads more than with a toy when you start. The skin on the hand can quickly disperse many lubes and give you more friction than with smooth surfaced toys.

Let us know how you get on.

Don't underestimate the necessity of a good, very slippery lube. You must have a very slippery lubricant since the ability to slide when getting into the anus/rectum is as important as the anus being able to stretch. More people get a bloody anus from using an inferior lube causing the hand to have drag on the anal skin as from over-stretching it.

Good advise already given- but the size of the hand may just be the factor that is limiting you.

If you can work their hand in the goose beak method/shape with a lotta lube. you'll be in but that doesn't mean you can start hammering away. I can fit my hand in as a goose it is 9 3/4" around that way --but the real tough part is easing the knuckles as then press heavily on the bone structure to each side- it takes a wriggle and twisting motions to get into the rectum covered in tons of lube on the hand and inside your ass.

Anatomy can get in the way. good luck with it

I’ve never done that. I think that a well-lubed penis, is preferable to a fist. I give top priority to the woman’s comfort. I don’t want to contribute to anything unpleasant or harmful.

For many that enjoy fisting, it's not unpleasant or harmful! The pleasure for them is in the stretch.

For me (when receiving), it's the stretch and feeling the movement of the giver's hand, once inside. It's creepy, freaky and sexy all at the same time. Plus it's kinky as hell.