"Too tight" for speculum

I wish.

This has never been an issue for me as I was experimenting with putting things in my vagina for years.

I have a friend named Bri. She had never had anything in her vagina. She couldn’t wear tampons because it hurt too much to get one in. She didn’t see the gyno until her mid twenties and she only went because I kept telling her she needed to go even if she wasn’t sexually active.

The faithful day finally came and she was nice enough to share the intimate details with me over lunch.

“The doctor told me she used the pediatric speculum. And it still hurt. I cried. The whole time. She told me I would bless some because my hyman has torn. That made me cry more. “

Me- “Oh no I’m sorry to hear that”

“On the plus side she told me there are no issues with my anatomy. It’s all just small”

Me- “Well that’s good.”

“I also can’t believe she fingered me. The first person to finger me was a girl”

Me-“Shut up. It’s not even close to the same thing as foreplay”

“And why didn’t you tell me about the butt part?”

Me- “what do you mean?”

“She put her finger in my butt”

My eyes got big. It got the juices flowing. “Well not all doctors do that I don’t think”

“Does yours do it?”

Me- “Yeah. Usually. It’s certainly not the most fun part of that day”

“She surprised me. I thought it was done. I was going to go home and cry while I showered. Then the doctor was all like ‘I’m going to do a quick rectal to make sure everything is ok’. And then in it went. I had lost all dignity at that point.”

Me “it’s not that bad.”

“You are right. It didn’t hurt nearly as bad as the other stuff. Just felt like I had to go. I just didn’t know it would happen. I didn’t like it. And no matter what you say it’s embarrassing to have someone touch you there. “

I giggled and teased her more. Then I went home and pleasured myself thinking about her torment.

I don't know about “too tight”. As others have said, there are different sizes. For my gf, the medium was too big for her, and so the doctor has always used the small one with her.

Never been examined, but if I haven’t sex for a long time my pussy gets “tighter“ and so the first time the penis penetrates me it hurts

if I haven’t sex for a long time my pussy gets “tighter“ and so the first time the penis penetrates me it hurts

I prescribe regular injections of hard penis until the condition subsides.

The vagina is a place that expands, so it cannot be said that it is too tight to introduce a speculum.

When we imagine the dilation necessary to let pass the head of a baby during childbirth, how can we think that we will not be able to introduce the valves of a speculum? Obviously, we will have to choose the width of the valves according to the age of the patient and whether she is virgin or not.

It is, in any case, very rare that it is necessary to pose a pseculum to a virgin.

The problem is therefore essentially in the mind of the patient who can unconsciously cause a muscle spasm which prevents access to her private parts.

As a result, to avoid this problem, I always start my breast consultation.

The examination and then the intense palpation of the breasts helps to put the patient in confidence and that she releases her nervous tension.

The result is that I then have no difficulty in making her spread her legs and insert a speculum as well as any other instrument (neck forceps or cytobrush)

It is also necessary to remember not to use a speculum too cold which would generate a rejection.

Childbirth helps make things a bit looser. They make smaller speculums for smaller women. Just like feet, there are all different sizes of vaginas.

I currently have a patient that is 21 and while she isn't a virgin, she is very tight. I first used a medium graves on her and it was a bit much so I got a small and it was more comfortable for her.

When I was still a virgin I could not even use a tampon. My sister talked me into trying a tampon once and it hurt. Then when I was late 17 I decided it was time to give it up. The boyfriend I had for a long time as in years so why not? I could never imagine going for a pelvic. I remember giving it up like it was yesterday. No experience and little foreplay. He didn't even lick me. The KY from the doctor would have probably been better. When I felt it tear and he went in it hurt like hell and he came instantly. It lasted all of two minutes. That left me wondering what the big deal was about sex. After a few weeks, my college roommate showed me. That was the first time I had been completely nude with another girl and we did more than just kissed and used a single finger to my hymen. It had been torn and she used a few fingers and licked me. Then I had a doctor's appointment to get on the pill. When I did it with my boyfriend it was unprotected. My sister made the appointment and it was with our family doctor. It was just a little uncomfortable and I think that was due to it being our family doctor and my first time. Plus my sister cracking jokes. before the doctor walked in. Then she shut up but still joked with her eyes. The doctor was slow and told me everything before she did it. She delivered almost everyone in town. She was a GP that did Peds and OB/GYN. The only shock was the rectal which my sister left out telling me about. She either left it out because she knew if she told me I probably would not go or she did it as a joke. That I have never figured out. But if I had still been a virgin it would have hurt bad.

It certainly felt that way first time but the exam proceeded with encouragement to relax and breathing exercises. Certainly uncomfortable experience.

I can also confirm that specula come in different sizes. An experienced doctor will not use the same speculum on a young girl as he would on a woman who has already given birth to one or more children. There is also an instrument for pediatric gynecological examinations called a "vaginoscope". It looks a bit like a proctoscope but is even thinner. Perhaps this can also be used on older patients who are really tight or who are afraid for their virginity.

During the first year we were dating I went with my wife to a complete physical that she had after a minor car crash. She had only had one other pelvic exam in her life, and it was a pretty horrific ordeal for her.

The exam I watched, only her second pelvic ever, was by her family doctor who she liked very much and kinda had a crush on.

It did not go well. First he was insistent that I not be allowed to stay during the exam. She insisted and after some arguing, he acquiesced. But he was kinda mad from then on.

When he put the speculum in he did nothing to try and make the insertion comfortable. He just spread her small lips with one hand and then just pushed a Graves Medium lubricated with water right into her. She kinda screamed and tried to pull away. He held her down with on hand on her thigh, and he said, “just calm down. Its fine.”

she hated him from that point on.

The next exam she had he was out so she saw a different doctor. This doctor was Asian and much older than her regular. He used a Pedersen. And he sort of rubbed on the inside of her lips to start. Then the speculum just slid right in. she later told me it was not at all painful.

She had issues on two occasions when we went to the medical college for her annual. The first time the student did not put a finger in first, a common way to assess the size of the vagina and the muscle tone. He just tried to put in a graves. And she kept pulling away and yelling. The overseeing doctor finally stepped in and fingered her himself.

He mumbled the size to use and I didn’t hear what he said, but then he turned back to her and apologized and said, “you are just very small down there. We will use a pediatric speculum.”

As others have pointed out, part of her problem was certainly that she was nervous and scared and all of her muscles were very tight. And she has really good pelvic muscles.

On another occasion the overseeing doctor seemed determined to not get involved. After much trying to ram a speculum in causing Marie considerable pain, the doctor finally said, “maybe you need a smaller speculum.”

the student tried two progressively smaller speculums until the doctor finally stepped in and said, “well this is a pediatric speculum. If it is too big I don’t know what we will do.

He then put it in himself without any difficulty.

Undoubtedly her being tense makes getting a speculum in more difficult. But she is very small and tight.

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