Dominant wife

Would love my wife to be more dominant when she makes me her baby and i love to be babied by her anyone else have this fantasy

My partner made me suckle her while sleeping.

I so wish she could undress me and stick her finger roughly into my bum when I am back from office and then make me lick it and scold me for not keeping my rectum clean

Not a fantasy, I was lucky enough to have had a wife who diapered me every day after work and changed me into big boy pants in the morning; weekends were spent diapered; If she wanted sex, she started fore play during a diaper change. I was very happy.

I think a lot of us guys would like for our women/partners to be more dominant. I certainly would. I'd really like her to take part in changing my diapers, telling me which panties to wear, insisting I always be ready to pleasure her orally (I have ED so that's out), pegging me until my ass is aching, and rewarding me by allowing me to suck on her tits if I get my chores done. She is my goddess and I wish she realized the power she has over me.

I just wish my husband would be " masterful" and treat me like a sub

I am Dom. I think we are all wired one way or another. I enjoy "doing things to" a woman, and expecting her compliance. OTOH, I am also very affectionate, so a sub never feels she can't "come down" in my arms, & sometimes cry for a while as she releases & relaxes...

I give a LOT of enemas, do medical fetish, anal play, impact play (have you ever had your external genitals whipped while you are "plugged?"), fisting, stretching, many times with the sub restrained so she's helpless, other times she is restrained by my commands, which, in many ways, I prefer.

I enjoy enemas and rectal stimulation as well, & it can be hard for the sub to process that she has to learn ME, and how to play with me while not "taking over" when that's not what I want. I tell her what I want, though, so she's not in the dark. The sub's role is to give her Master pleasure, and take her pleasure from obeying him. A good Dom will know how to give great intensity and pleasure to her as well as giving her the "no control" experience she needs when they play. If the sub needs / wants a specific thing, the Master should always listen, unless true harm will come to the submissive. He should reject that. For her part, the sub should expect to pleasure her Master as he likes, whether it's giving him pleasure by submitting to his desires and will, or by caring for him as he sees fit. Mutual acceptance is a huge part of this. In my experience, acceptance is actually THE key, if there's to be a relationship. If just occasional "play," that's more like "scratching an itch," and that can be a lot of fun.

I'm divorced 10 years but my ex and I both thoroughly enjoyed engaging in all my 5-6 fetishes especially as we were both switches and loved trading roles in D/s evenings. I had a special enjoyment of her giving me "forced" consensual large, long-retention enemas mixed with our other kinks, acting as my Domme. During my very submissive enemas after she dressed me in rubber and sneakers and restrained me, part of it was a good deal of conversation with her making me feel helpless and submissive and humiliated and my moans, groans and begging, all of which we both loved. So during those D/s enemas I received I loved having a very dominant wife.

On the other hand, she told me after marriage that her most secret sexual desire was for me to give her enemas for sex which she couldn't reveal to her late first husband. So we switched and we're also both delighted to let her enjoy her desire for submissive enemas which I truly enjoyed giving her.

Eric

I've been married 30yrs to a woman who the 1st several yrs was as vanilla as it gets.Then a few yrs later I became incontinent this is where it changed she was all into me being diapered to keep bed dry not from a Funny part just became a more dominate person we have done everything Her way I don't know if its because I'am in a diaper and have autism?

We have been experimenting with dom/sub play for a couple of years now. My wife is submissive in the bedroom and loves it when I dominate her. I have a submissive side and want to explore it more. I have talked to her about that and she would like to be in the dom role sometime. She has pegged me a couple of times and was turned on be seeing how much it turned me on. I guess it is like an acquired taste for her.

I’d love you to be dominating her while I take over your ass at the same time.

Mine was no nonsense . I would be watching a spanking-tube video, she would hear it and come into our room, pick me up off my chair and drag me to the bed. She would sit down and take me over her lap, reach under and un snap my pants and with her fingers reach into the waistbands of my pants and undies and pull them down to my ankles baring my bottom. Then she would smack it till it was bright red. By the time she was done I had tears in my eyes. I loved her anyway.

Have you guys who’d like your wives to be more dominant actually talked to her about it?

You might be surprised by her reaction.

My husband told me four or five years ago that he’d sometimes like me to be more dominant. He’s always had a very stressful job, and wanted to be dominated so he didn’t need to make any decisions.

He told me he’d like me to treat him as my little girl, even baby girl.

I must admit I was a bit surprised, especially about him wanting to be my baby, but I decided I’d give it a go.

So one Friday when he came home from work I’d put on a leather mini skirt, fishnets and high heels. As soon as he came in he knew something was up.

I ordered him up to our bedroom, where laid out on the bed was a little girl style dress, frilly knickers and ankle socks.

I made him strip naked, and he was as hard as a rock.

I held out the panties for him to step into, and then pulled them up for him. Then I put the dress on him and then his socks.

Then I told him he was a very naughty girl, who needed a spanking.

I put him across my lap and lifted his dress, then spanked his bottom. I think it took six smacks before he came.

That was the excuse to tell him off again, teasing him about wetting his knickers and making him answer the question “what happens to little girls who wet their knickers?”

The answer, of course, is that they get put back into nappies. Which was what then happened.

And we’ve never looked back. It’s still something we only do occasionally, and only ever in private. But I love the control I can have over him, and he loves to submit to me.