Men having sex with men as we get older

Not only am I very likely, I do engage when possible. Older men are sexy and we know how to take our time and fully explore all the sexual pleasures in spite of diminished sexual performance. We tend to be much more uninhibited and willing to let our feelings drive the moment. I would love to have more freedom to enjoy the wonderful man sex.

In general, I’ve found that many men (THINK they) don’t like to kiss other men! The next time you are naked with another guy, surprise him and just lunge for his mouth. Lock lips! The last two guys I shared a bed with while being fully naked were surprised when I attacked their kissers with a passionate kiss! They really engaged (DEEPLY!) for really prolonged face sucking! Honestly, it was the BEST, most passionate kissing I’ve ever experienced. You can really extend and enhance the experience by thrusting dildos up each other’s hineys as your lips and tongues are fully engaged! Try it! You might (will) like it!

Much more likely especially if there's a nozzle involved!!

Born in the 1950's, my first experiences were with boys. I was aware from the start that I found males sexually attractive, not females. A gay, not bisexual, man. I had a bodywork practice in NYC. You could learn about it from a gay bar publication, or my website, which had no pay wall, membership requirement. I specialised in prostate massage. I didn't ask a client for his orientation. Unlike some of the posts, it was extremely rare for me to engage with a client: it was his session, about his body, not mine. I can't think of any one who recoiled when it moved into butt contact, a gradual insertion. The clients who fled, but only after the prostate massage, were always young. My point, after reading the posts, is to concur. It can be difficult to find someone to offer what I did, and ejaculation. I had regular clients. I could map out each week based on proximity to the full moon. I don't know what most men thought about what it meant to them, a gay, bisexual, straight experience.

@Wrestler67

Not surprising that your clients welcomed your touch. Prostate massage isn't "gay." It's deep, powerful pleasure, especially when the giver is skilled.

Surrendering that most intimate space to a pro is sublime.

Those were the good old days!

I am surprised to find that many married men of all ages seek a sexual relationship direct enough to be penetrated. Few people appreciate long sensual foreplay and love to kiss, especially the French kiss!

I had anal sex with a same age friend when we were 12 and we had no idea what we were doing, just curious. He penetrated me, however his butt was too small for me to do him. We had no lube but he got about 3/4 of the way in. I thought it felt weird but I didn’t hate it and he pulled out when I got sore. I got coerced into anal when 15 by an older gay guy and it hurt, and fucked by 2 guys in juvenile lockup when 16 so went straight after that for a long time. Between two divorces later on I experimented some more but until I was in my mid 50s I was totally straight. So I had desires but also think we become more open minded later in life. All the bi sex before 55 or so was anal mostly receiving since I didn’t like the idea of gagging, but in my 50s I started sucking cock.