@ExxE said
I've realised that I'll never get what I was imagining, from this. And it's not for me. But I'm glad I tried.
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@Nappiednow said
Come on ExxE,
Don't chicken out yet without trying some alternative approaches
xx
Nappiednow
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@ExxE said
Not chickening out, at all. If someone says no to something, then their decision is final.
I don't like being pushed into anything.
I know why I feel this way, I've had time to work it out.
And I've blocked you from private messaging me; if someone hasn't asked to have perverted and inappropriate contact sent to them, then you shouldn't send it.....
So I'd appreciate it if you would stop messaging now, thanks.
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This is a sex/kink/porno website. Just look around and see the content. See the forum posts, blogs, photos and videos. This place is for sex in all its varieties. You need to be of adult age to join. People try to get others involved in their kinks. Look at people's profiles and see how many are looking for friendship and others to play with in person or online.
I think an introduction is a good idea before sending very suggestive messages, but since you are perverted enough to be here, a perverted message should not harm you and could even be taken as a bit of amusement. Lighten up. Certainly you can delete their message and block those senders if you like. I know, I know, I know all about political correctness, and being polite, and that is an ever increasing worry and concern here that causes a degree of personal and administrative censorship. If you don't think you are perverted, tell your parents, children and vanilla friends and relatives you are a member here and have a discussion about it at your next family gathering. We are all perverted in someone's eyes.
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You were pretty expressive when you said
@ExxE said
And why do I want to mess myself.
. . . . I'm also extremely ashamed about this last bit, but watching the videos of ABDLs filling their nappies kinda turns me on. And I hate poop. Specially other people's. . . .
so it shouldn't really surprise you if you get a suggestive PM. You made yourself an open book with that entire thread.
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@Nappiednow was being friendly in his post and not being coercive. Furthermore, nobody's decision, as you say, "is final." People change their minds frequently and time gives people the ability to change their minds. Certainly, if you are in bed with someone and say you don't want to have sex, you can say "no" and that has to be respected, but asking if you want to have sex at a later date is neither coercive or wrong because relationships change, people's experiences change and people change their minds.
Finally,
THREE VERY GOOD GUIDELINES WHEN YOU MAKE A POST, regardless if they are for blogs, forum posts on dreams, fantasies, fictional and non-fictional stories, or accounts of real life events and experiences, are:
1--THINK about what you want to say and ORGANIZE it.
2--WRITE IT and check that it says what you want it to say
3--STAND BEHIND WHAT YOU WROTE--and I cannot emphasize that enough. Wear your big girl/big boy pants and be prepared for others to criticize or disagree with what you wrote or even for someone to send you a suggestive message. This site is all about sex, its perversions and deviances.
This is a FORUM.
A forum is defined as a place, meeting, or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged.
If you aren't prepared to receive a variety of comments approving or disapproving what you wrote, DON'T WRITE IT.
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https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=107742
I believe in tough love. I tell the truth. There are people who do not want to hear the truth. If I make a lengthy and well thought out post, the intention is to help someone improve their situation or become a better person. The truth doesn't care how you feel about it. The truth IS WHAT IT IS. Placating and appeasing people when their actions and words don't fit the situation is not my style.