Cheating on wife

Looks good!

HOW did you do it?

It's not as spooky as my wife's.

She would be @Dahiana.

Nevermind, I found it!

It's not as spooky as my wife's.

She would be @Dahiana.

Meat Monster? Wherever did you come up with that? ... 🙄

I like it ... and the avatar isn't half bad either. 😉

My wife has lost all desire for sex and has no tolerance for enemas ..only weirdos do that sort of stuff. As difficult as she can be, I have numerous liabilities (hypertension, diabetes, cardiac issues, etc.) and frankly, I need her help and support. Add to that her absolute non tolerance for stepping out of the marriage, which would mean that any indiscretions on my part would result in having my belongings piled out on the curb. I keep my anal toys well hidden and enjoy my fantasies, as long as they are in my head.

It seems there wasn’t enough communication going on before people get married. Medfedcouple-husband and I did a lot of communicating when we were dating. I always left the door open that I was willing try something at least once as long as it is not illegal or hurt someone. We also talked about if one of us got incapacitated and can no longer have sex, can we have sex outside the marriage to fill that need. We both agreed that it was ok as long as it was just fucking and safe sex practices are involved. Yes, we both understand that there is the possibility that someone could develop feelings for someone else. The key is to communicate all this in the beginning before marriage just like determining how many kids you want and where you want to live. Sex is extremely important part of being healthy. Communication is important so you don’t have to deal with cheating.

As I see it, only with permission. Remember, you took a vow. If she gives you a long term hall pass then find what she can't give you. But communication, trust and reassurance are necessary for a wife's emotional well being.

@Dahiana @TrinaStarr

Thought I'd resurrect this thread as it also talks a lot about communication in a marriage - as you have mentioned in another thread. You're absolutely right that writing things down focuses your thoughts and does build/rebuild desire. Whether you share them or not, the fact that you actually sit down and think about what you really want to communicate adds a lot of clarity. I don't possess the creative writing skills you guys have to “paint” the picture - but I do appreciate the content and quality of your threads!!!!! I'll have to think about your suggestions. Thanks for your comments!!!

@Rigel please start your own thread where people can come and tell about their rekindling that spark or working to not let it die. I promise I will be the first one to follow and not dear old cuz @TrinaStarr. 😉

@Rigel please start your own thread where people can come and tell about their rekindling that spark or working to not let it die. I promise I will be the first one to follow and not dear old cuz @TrinaStarr. 😉

Do I sense some competition here???? Perhaps a friendly “Catfight Thread” would be entertaining!!! 😉

I do take your comments and thoughts seriously. Thanks!!!

Do I sense some competition here???? Perhaps a friendly “Catfight Thread” would be entertaining!!! 😉

I do take your comments and thoughts seriously. Thanks!!!

@Rigel things are going fantastic between @Dahiana 🌹 and me and our husbands @TedStarr 🌹🌹 and @Meat_Monster 🌹 so I am going to let DD be the first one to follow your new thread. I just discovered one of her posts https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1102046 and she has it right down to the nth degree. 🌹 Your story, especially with your wife, does not belong in a thread about cheating on wife. I don't know your full story but I want to know more.

In the meantime I'm going to take some advice from DD 🤯 😳 😱 😨 😦 😧 😮 😲 … I really said that out loud?

Please start that thread. 🌹

Oh that life were more on the simple scale!

Spouses (men or women) cheat for more reasons than just lack of sex. It could be emotional, deliberately wanting to hurt the other etc. I cheated on my first wife while we were still having sex because neither of us were fulfilling each others emotional needs. Ended up divorcing and marrying the girl I had an affair with - best move I ever made!