Being careful with spankings

Just sitting here thinking on a recent session with a woman that I didn't know all that well, but knew of her through friends.

We started talking and the conversation was directed by me toward BDSM and she took the hint and allowed as to how she occasionally needed a good spanking to get herself "centered"

Anyway, when we got to know each other better and the inevitable came about, I was really aroused by the way she took her spanking and how she cried and seemed to protest for real. So much so that I paused and in between her tears I asked if I was hurting her. Of course she replied "yes"

I continued to hold her over my knee, her red butt sticking up so sweetly, but I paused for a long moment and quietly asked her if she wanted me to stop....another long pause...a few more sniffles....and her "no" came like that of a little girl....she was over 40 and quite sophisticated...yet her admission that she did not really want me to stop came across so very arousing.

In this day and time of having to listen and be ever so careful....this incident made me smile as I thought back on it. I'd like comments from others with similar situations recently.

Wonderful when you can find that relationship ?

I do understand her feeling as a woman myself spanking hurts if it doesn’t hurt it not a spanking.

Having said not to stop the spanking at least to me is to wash whatever gully feeling away knowing that I have done something wrong and deserve it.

It is a feeling that all is forgiven and I deserve what I deserve for my behaviour.