Kinky things on Skype - what's your experience?

Hi all,

recently I was lucky enough to be in touch with some people who wanted to see me do kinky things via Skype. I was happy to show them my private parts and what I like to do when I do certain types of play. I also was told to do certain things by the people watching so it was a little bit like having a very kinky peep show for them. Every time I do that (not too often so far) I am very excited and can really feel my heart beat and the more excited I am the more rewarding it turns out to be in the end. Have any of you done similar things and how did it go for you?

I would be very cautious about that. i have a friend in homeland security that advised me never post any pictures or expose myself as skype and several other places are not safe. your experience on skype can be all over the web by now. please be very careful

@toshe63 is quite correct.

If you transmit video or even still images to others, you have no control over how that footage or those images are captured, redistributed, or even maliciously used against you.

I would always advise against it.

I saw one of my enema pictures on Tumblr in someone else's account...probably taken from here. No face, obviously, but still...

Hi,

I do understand all your worries and am aware of the dangers out there. Therefore I NEVER EVER show my face on the Internet in such a context. I even disguise the room I am in when skyping to not give anybody a chance of identifying me.

Beyond conversations with relatives and KNOWN friends, my hubby and I never transmit anything personal on Skype or similar sites ... heard too many horror stories. If someone hacks our Skype transmissions and wants to transmit it world wide, it would probably set new records to most boring. lol.

I'm with Diana here. I would love to take a vid of me or my wife receiving a high enema and sharing with friends who enjoy the same things, but no way. Way too many hacking stories out there. I don't want my enema ending up on Xvideo!

I've written about this before ... but in the past I posed for a fellow photographer long before either of us understood the internet ... computer hacking ... or the extent of what the internet really was. As a result ... I was photographed with my face showing as well as everything else. Long story short ... there were ... or are ... several sets of my photo shoots with this fellow photographer out there in the wide and eternal world of the internet. Luckily ... the photo shoots were tasteful but I worried about my sons or others I knew ... finding them. For several years ... the photo sets were on ... 'heavy rotation' ... where I would find them several days ... then weeks ... then months ... in a row ... until now I have not run across any of my images that I haven't posted myself.

But when ... rarely ... I do post nudes of my self ... I am very careful to not show any scars ... marks ... jewelry ... family photographs in the background ... or landmarks ... that would let someone know who I am. And when I do do ... glamour shots ... or now more recent ... personal bedroom intimate shoots ... I strongly advise those I do the photography or video for ... to only view the images on a computer that is NOT ... or will not ... be connected to the internet. Any images I capture ... of the intimate ... are stored on the portable hard drive that the client purchases ... and any and all work that I do with their images is done ... ONLY ... on that hard drive and no copies are stored on my home / business computers ... without the knowledge of my client. And even then ... it is in a media that is not ... or will not ... be processed on any computer that connects to the internet.

And ... IF ... you feel generous ... or want to share who you are ... and have a face in any of the shots ... please ... please ... please .... do something to alter the image ... blur ... photoshop ... masks ... dodge ... burn ... clone ... anything ... to conceal your identity. I have seen some very fine ... and tastefully done ... posts here where the images are made ... artistic ...and I think they convey something more than a ... cum shot ... or ... technical ... display of genitalia ... and are tastefully done.

One more ... VERY IMPORTANT THING ... whatever you do ... PLEASE WASH THE SOLES OF YOUR FEET! 😮

I mean ... really. 😕

So I have done several things several times. The first time was thrilling and like you said heatbeat raising. Kind of like you I’m careful to disguise face and room, although with some of my closer friends we’re more open. Those are some of my favorite interactions, they rarely start sexual, but sometimes become so unexpectedly, so always a fun surprise.

The web is not secure and even if you encrypt your private conversations with another person, you should never say anything you wouldn't want on a bulletin board at work.

Never use a work computer for any kind of private chat. There is always the danger it'll be copies by the IT department. and stored away somewhere.

And there is always the possibility your correspondent will change their minds and go the revenge porn route.

The private chats here are supposed to be private, but who really knows. Gmail is certainly not private. They scan your emails to sell to advertisers to target you better and apparently for other purposes too. Hiding is not easy either. Your IP address is known, for example.

And if you go to sites like xhampster, who knows what spyware will be installed. Information can be power,

It is probably quite safe to post pictures of vintage enema bags from eBay or your butt with a hose and nozzle, but make sure your face or something identifiable is not seen in a mirror too.

Information is like toothpaste.... it comes out of the tube pretty easily, but getting it back in is a LOT harder.

I haven't done anything yet. I'm waiting for someone to ask.

I was asked to share my experiences. Well, I stopped using SKYPE ca 15 years ago, whren the friend I was SKYPEing with had a 'puter crash. During restoration attempts, some log files surfaced.

There was nothing naughty on them, but I concluded nobody really knows what programs are storing in background. This applies not only to your 'puter, but also the other person's and the servers in between, and to clouds if they are involved. Huge storage capacity is very cheap today.

The risk is also there with services like ALEXA as reported recently. The same may well apply to IRC chats.

It's likely that even though the data is nabbed, no human looks at it.... until they have reason to, but still.

I'm just urging caution.

IMO, a condom is better than the consequences.

I had someone watch and control me on cam, including face. Was the very first time ever with full face. He made screenshots and shared with me. So hot.

There is apparently malware, developed by the CIA, that can turn the microphone and camera in you computer on remotely, without appearing to do so.

If you want to broadcast your bedroom play, go for it, but I keep my camera covered with black electrical tape.

My wife and I use to do a couples chat in a sexual forums page. All couples on Saturday nights and we did a lot on cam. It was great. Problem is they shut it down. So a small group of us couples got together on skype... I didn't like it at all. I wanted to keep my private life private off of that page. Next thing I knew the wrong people where trying to friend me on other social media and it got really ugly. Kind of stalkerish…. that was the end of that.

I love to do roleplay, or do kinky sessions via webcam. Normaly i only show my private area (anus/cock), but i sometimes use to show even my face (as i like to do oral play i show my mouth in closeup)

for me a closer relationship between the "streamer" and the "watcher" is necessery. i won´t show my face to a stranger from on the beginning.

I have had the chance to play on skype and another service a few times. Gyno exams and general kinky play can be interesting using these services. If you are in doubt set up a "blind" account

In our country, Skype games can be dangеrous, unfortunately. A lot of provocateurs who are specially registered on Skype, indicating not the real age, and then blackmail,demanding money. After that, the desire to communicate and trust disappears for a long time. Sorry if l upset anyone.