What are your thoughts on expelling?

@sirensong and I have each sat on a small stool in front of each other while expelling while pleasuring the one on the toilet, or ourselves… or both! In fact we have given each other outdoor enemas and watched the release…..but usually, if I watch, its from the bathroom floor. She is incredibly beautiful and radiant when she releases a large enema.

I think that expulsions should be a private affair. I don't get turned on when someone expels an enema into the toilet. I'm just not into it.

@sirensong and I have each sat on a small stool in front of each other while expelling while pleasuring the one on the toilet, or ourselves… or both! In fact we have given each other outdoor enemas and watched the release…..but usually, if I watch, its from the bathroom floor. She is incredibly beautiful and radiant when she releases a large enema.

I'll bet she is geminitom. 😜😉

To me, the expulsion is all part of getting an enema. It is something that I want to do, need to do, when I get an enema. It isn't anything that I'm particularly ashamed of, any more so than the act of being given an enema by someone else is, in itself.

I have no problem with another person present when I'm on the toilet if that person has given me an enema, and that's how it has usually happened when another person has given me an enema. Baking soda in the water might help neutralize the smell, so far that hasn't seemed to be too much of a problem.

I really don't have any problem having a regular bowel movement in front of someone who has given me enemas either, has happened also.

@alberto6536 , I liked your post two weeks ago and I relate to everything you commented about expulsion. I love to cramp and then GUSH. It's part of my ritual. Of course, I have to glance at what I expelled because it's interesting to see what my bowel movement produced - and - it is one of the many deciding factors if I need to take more enema. Sexual excitement is also a key factor.

I think the expelling problem is one of the main reasons my wife did not turn into my “enema queen” as I had hoped. Even though we had no problems with sex and things in full light, we were not in the habit of going to the bathroom with the other in the room. So the few times I was able to talk her into receiving an enema, the problem of her not liking the cramps and being afraid of making a mess, coupled with the issue of a long time spent on the toilet expelling and “cooling off” meant there was less interest in renewing romantic activities after her enema was finished. We have had a great marriage with lots of common activities, but enemas are not one of them.

If I were giving the enema in a dominant role, I would escort the person to the toilet and force them to expel while making constant eye contact with me. I want them to see and to know that I am the one who caused this thunderous onslaught of shit raining the bowl and that I and I alone am responsible for making them expel such a load. Yes, I would want to witness the expulsion, and if it's not done to my satisfaction or is taking too long, I will push them forward, take a bulb syringe filled with water and force it into their rectum for an extra fill pumping the bulb in and out a few times, then push them back on the seat to finish evacuating their bowels. This humiliation alone would be delicious!

So far all my enema experience has been solo. Sad to say. But if there were a partner involved, I would ‘definitely’ want them to be present during the expelling process.

I always watch the expelling. It is very embarrassing and always causes a blush to the face which to me is very cute. My late partner got used to me being there and would sometimes pull me close for a knobber while she was still squirting. This was a very hot scenario back in the day.

My thoughts on expelling, as soon as possible…the sooner the better…lets get it over and done with. Are we there yet?

OK, what round is this?

How close am I REALLY to a clear return?

How many more times will I have to go through this?

Love expelling the cramps, not being in control and the muddy rush at the end

The original questions were…

Say you do get your partner to do enemas, how do you keep the excitement rolling during expulsion? I imagine if both partners want to be there you can rub the back of the taker, or breasts, but what other things do you do to keep the ball rolling so to speak?

I snuggle, kiss, and compliment, if he took his enema well, my sub while he is expelling. Atleast until the odor becomes a bit “over whelming”.

Does walking around in my underwear tiding up or refilling the bag count?

I fully agree with Denise. I need total privacy. I think this is the case for most of us.

For us, any "excitement" mostly ends at the bathroom door, but sometimes can reignite with my husband in the afterglow!

In the meantime, I prefer to be alone when expelling, as do my husband and daughters, both grown. Rare exceptions, when my older daughter was so sick in the middle night that she asked me to stay with her. With her, "excitement" was never present anyway. A couple of times I've asked my husband to stay with me because I had a migraine and was dizzy and was afraid that I would fall.

When expelling and a longer rush of the enema comes out at the same time and it feels like the whole bag is leaving me its a wonderful feeling and sometimes im a little out of breath

Controlling enema diet helps increases cramps and relief requirements. To cramp them feel relief many times can be a trip.