What are your thoughts on expelling?

Sadly not to this point yet, but I've been thinking. Say you do get your partner to do enemas, how do you keep the excitement rolling during expulsion? I imagine if both partners want to be there you can rub the back of the taker, or breasts, but what other things do you do to keep the ball rolling so to speak?

Before receiving my first sexual enema(a little over a year ago) I always thought I would never want my partner present during expulsion. I would want him as far away as possible with some loud music in the background and some scented candles burning !

Although he told me he would indeed be there I reluctantly agreed. I was not prepared for my being totally out of it after receiving my first and in fact needed him to steady me and hold a bucket for me to dry heave in. It was not pretty but it was sweet, especially that he still wanted to do it again next time ! Lol

Each time was not as bad as the first but usually included him putting a cold wash cloth on my forehead and holding that good old trash bucket.

Until we finally discoverd that I needed salt added to the enema water. It was like night and day and then we could really enjoy the experience from beginning to end.

Each time he has comforted and soothed me. We have kissed and caressed and I have even sucked him.

While some may not think it could possibly be a romantic time, it doesnt get much more intimate than sharing that experience together.

“Exciting” doenst have to be pounding sex but just sharing a very personal and intimate moment with each other can be really special.

She/he likes soft music, candles ....set the environment. Sharing caresses, leaning on each other, kissing, fondling, just be there and share the moment.

@bridgette, You couldn't have said it any better. Sharing that most intimate act with someone who enjoys the erotic sensations of erotic enemas. 😉

Yep, that would be ideal, but I'm wondering what to do if one of the partners doesn't want to be there. Especially, say, a woman. If I get her to give me an enema and she enjoys it I don't want her sitting around cooling off and getting bored for 15 mins while I let it out.

@bridgette,

While some may not think it could possibly be a romantic time, it doesnt get much more intimate than sharing that experience together.

I certainly agree! It's very romantic having my husband watching me expell. He will kiss me also and tell me how pretty and sexy I am. I'm in complete control but it's a passionate and romantic time. It's a wonderful time for bonding with your lover!

I echo @bridgette and @GyneDoll sentiments - its all part of the intimacy I love to share with my partner. Although I haven’t really given ‘dominating’ enemas, it is something I’m doing to them (controlling their bowels) so I should be there for the results of my controlling actions. If the expulsion is difficult like Bridgettes, then comforting and helping is required. If not, then you can just laugh together at the sounds and other ‘things’ as she release!

If it is a d/s time or they are aroused it is a great time to get a BJ as she sits there. Just because one end is occupied, doesnt mean the other cant be used! LOL I usually dont cum easily from oral or standing, but one time it was just so erotic seeing her sitting and hearing her expel from the erotic orgasmic enema that I had just given her that I came in her mouth as she was splashing away!

Another great time expelling was when I took enemas together with my partner. She was fairly petite and we were able to quite comfortably ‘share’ the toilet! Not using the seat, I sat way back on the bowl, spread my knees and she sat between my legs. I wrapped my arms around her, held her tight, caressed her breasts, massaged her belly, kissed her neck and shoulders - it was amazing! Very intimate and fun and playful. We both let loose and stayed there until we were finished. The ‘best’ part was that our bodies ‘sealed’ the bowl - no smell!! That changed as soon as we got up though! LOL We then went to shower together (there was some) and then to bed where we had more fun.

Never did it but it would be a really lovely intimate experience to have my partner stimulate me to an orgasm as I'm sitting expelling, or vice versa. More later.

Eric

I have always liked the thought of having an enema with someone and then sharing the loo to expel. Like the report says it sounds a great way to be together.

It's such a pleasure personally to orgasm and expel out my "front and back ends" at the same time that I would enjoy the same or watching a (woman) partner do the same during her expulsion. Or watch and listen to me as I did mine. The sounds alone would be worth it. Even better if she'd let me give her the orgasm or give me mine while one of us was expelling. Very intimate and erotic.

Eric

@CJ1999,

Sounds like you have some magic times yourself! Good for you and your lover! I really can relate to the "Share The Toilet Part" We have done something similar. I get filled up and we go into the bathroom. My husband sits down and I mount him face to face. He inserts his rock hard penis in to my seeping vagina and we snuggle real close and deep. We kiss passionately as I ride the thunder to orgasm! I'm expelling with every push of his rock hard dick and we are lip locked in enema love. To be kissing your lover, having a good screw and taking a sexy crap at the same time is a pretty dog gone fun thing. Makes me see stars! Really! I go into some type of trance for a while. When we are done we shower together and "Verbally Reenact Our Session"

Lovers, try this at least once! It's a Home Run for sure!

These are some really smokin hot posts !

@bridgette I couldn't agree more. It is all about being there in the moment.

@CJ1999,

Sounds like you have some magic times yourself! Good for you and your lover! I really can relate to the "Share The Toilet Part" We have done something similar. I get filled up and we go into the bathroom. My husband sits down and I mount him face to face. He inserts his rock hard penis in to my seeping vagina and we snuggle real close and deep. We kiss passionately as I ride the thunder to orgasm! I'm expelling with every push of his rock hard dick and we are lip locked in enema love. To be kissing your lover, having a good screw and taking a sexy crap at the same time is a pretty dog gone fun thing. Makes me see stars! Really! I go into some type of trance for a while. When we are done we shower together and "Verbally Reenact Our Session"

Lovers, try this at least once! It's a Home Run for sure!

I have to say that's one thing we never did.

I have sat on his cock while he was taking a dump, but I never sat on his cock while he was on the toilet taking a dump AND I was shitting out an enema between his legs while we were fucking. That is so very very dirty and debauched we have to put that on our list of things to do.

People who know me would say I act like a Nun in a convent. The only people who really know me are the members here. I had to look that word "Debauched" up in the dictionary. Wow, there is a list of words that suggest I'm a horrible, nasty, over the top, better get ready to go to confession woman. Despite my vicissitudes I have been wholeheartedly dedicated to one man. My husband! I've never committed adultery or have been disloyal to him. I may be dissipated, lascivious, lustful and many other things but I like myself. Being here and reading about what other people do makes life easier and more exciting for me. And I can have sexy, naughty fun with a clear conscience.

Can't do it today, I'm going to be with my daughter and our four week old grandson, but I have a plan for tomorrow! With all this torrid sharing I'm getting slippery under my panties. My husband has been cleared to have some easy going sex! I'm going to tell him to prepare to "Ride The Thunder" tomorrow morning. It's time to keep things rolling during expulsion with sexual enemas! In his lap, on the pot, black stockings and sexy heels and away we will go! And I do mean "GO" All of this has inspired me to "Get Er Done"

I will admit, this is a hot discussion!

@GyneDoll said:

. . . . . My husband has been cleared to have some easy going sex! . . . .

Consider this: My husband has stated that the pleasure derived from sex should be rated like Olympic diving or ice skating where an easy dive has a difficulty factor of 1 and a very difficult dive has a difficulty factor or 3.

Total Pleasure = (Pleasure from the sex act) X (Difficulty to perform)

Therefore, missionary position would have a difficulty factor of 1, whereas fucking me in the gymnastics "bridge position" while holding a three quart enema of 20% glycerine would have a difficulty multiplier of 3.

@CJ1999,

Sounds like you have some magic times yourself! Good for you and your lover! I really can relate to the "Share The Toilet Part" We have done something similar. I get filled up and we go into the bathroom. My husband sits down and I mount him face to face. He inserts his rock hard penis in to my seeping vagina and we snuggle real close and deep. We kiss passionately as I ride the thunder to orgasm! I'm expelling with every push of his rock hard dick and we are lip locked in enema love. To be kissing your lover, having a good screw and taking a sexy crap at the same time is a pretty dog gone fun thing. Makes me see stars!

@GyneDoll Wow that sounds awesome! Like Susie, I have to put that on my list for sure. I’ve been ridden on the couch in that position with a hose and nozzle in her butt as she fills and grinds to orgasm on me and it is a LOT of fun. Once I had the camera pointed at us and put onto the TV so I could watch her ass and the hose shake and jiggle as she rode... so very sexy!! After she came I hadn’t yet so we proceeded to get into the shower where I took her vaginally and then anally after I removed the nozzle.

The toilet sharing I described was done after sex where we both ‘finished’ as we were filling, so we weren’t ready for another round yet. But wow for some reason I hadn’t thought about your sex-while-expelling scenario! Stupid me!

These are breathtakingly erotic/sexy/hot activities here; I never even thought of doing them but now....

Susie,

What's the gymnastics Bridge position, and which of you or both was holding the 3 q enema while you were fucking? Sounds very hot and intriguing. For me, I'd just knock the glycerin down to below 10%.

Eric

?...................but I never sat on his cock while he was on the toilet taking a dump AND I was shitting out an enema between his legs while we were fucking. That is so very very dirty and debauched we have to put that on our list of things to do.

You must have excellent anal sphincter aim or a very large toilet to do that on or not mind cleaning it up after that very erotic act's description. Pretty debauched, but fun. Have fun. I'd just be happy with my partner sitting on my erection while she or I was sitting and dumping, or maybe giving her a hand or tongue orgasm while she was dumping.

Eric

Susie,

What's the gymnastics Bridge position

Here are pix of the bridge. I easily get into the position, but the days of me doing the extreme back bends are over.

https://www.google.com/search?q=gymnastics+bridge&client=firefox-b-1-ab&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiryc2e3a7eAhWSnOAKHb5YA_sQ_AUIDigB&biw=1061&bih=1075

We do this with my husband between my legs and with him straddling my legs.

@SwitchableSusie,

You can do those Bridge positions! That's great! Me, I'd have a better chance of seeing Moses.

Total Pleasure = (Pleasure from the sex act) X (Difficulty to perform)

How about, Pleasure from the sex act = 7, X Difficulty to perform = 3. So the score is 21, I guess?

I gave the Difficulty to perform a 3 because I have to be sure to hit the hole!

This is great fun!

Ok @SwitchableSusie , I have to ask ...

Do those positions enhance your orgasm in any way?

Cause that looks like too much risk of me injuring myself or my lover ( if you knew how much of a total klutz I was you would understand 😉 lol ).

Especially when I can get an amazing orgasm with his head comfortably nestled between my thighs while I am laying cozy on the bed !

I will save my limberness for car sex ?

Gymnasts can also earn "virtuosity" points - for doing something new/unique or risky. A "perfect" routine would earn you a 9.8 - you got to a 10 by incorporating something unique. There are A, B, and C level moves and your required to have x-amount of each (don't remember exactly how many). I'd rate fucking in a backbend a "C" level difficulty (most difficult). If both partners could do a backbend and connect (penis into vagina)- then they would earn "virtuosity" points!!!

My info is years old - so I don't have a clue how they actually score it today.

Wow, I was thinking something like a blow job while sitting on the potty but all these bridge positions make my back hurt just looking at them. Maybe if you were 25 and doing yoga this might be possible but for anyone over about 40 it isn't possible except for maybe Susie. I wouldn't put anything past her. I still think she is probably a mainframe in webbys basement butt don't have any proof so far.

@GyneDoll said

@SwitchableSusie, You can do those Bridge positions! That's great! Me, I'd have a better chance of seeing Moses.

Total Pleasure = (Pleasure from the sex act) X (Difficulty to perform)

How about, Pleasure from the sex act = 7, X Difficulty to perform = 3. So the score is 21, I guess?

I gave the Difficulty to perform a 3 because I have to be sure to hit the hole!

This is great fun!

I took gymnastics when I was in first through about eighth grade and I was pretty good at it for someone who was my size--5'4" and wavering between 115 and 120 pounds. I grew to my adult size quickly and then stopped just as quickly. I got too big to safely do what I had been trained to do and I had a number of skin rips on my hands from swinging on the uneven parallel bars which severely impacted my flute playing. A good size for a gymnast is less than 5 feet tall and under 100 pounds. I do not do those severe back bends anymore but the bridge is still easy for me to get into. I still do a number of the "slow" gymnastics moves and do most of the stretching exercises. I don't have to worry about breaking my neck doing that.

Your math is correct. 21 would be the score!

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@bridgette said

Ok @SwitchableSusie , I have to ask ...

Do those positions enhance your orgasm in any way?

Cause that looks like too much risk of me injuring myself or my lover ( if you knew how much of a total klutz I was you would understand 😉 lol ).

Especially when I can get an amazing orgasm with his head comfortably nestled between my thighs while I am laying cozy on the bed !

I will save my limberness for car sex ?

The bridge actually does enhance my orgasm somewhat because my abdominal muscles are tense when I hold that position and a tense abdomen makes me orgasm faster and somewhat stronger than when I am quietly relaxed and masturbating in bed, except when I tense my abdominals when I am masturbating to cum faster when I am short on time.

@SwitchableSusie,

It's good you take time and effort to keep your body in condition. I was not an athletic girl when I was in high school. I played the Saxophone in the band and went to Montreal for the Worlds Fair in 1967. I worked cutting lawns and collecting pop bottles for money. The old push mowers kept me in shape along with snow shoveling in winter. Took some work just to buy a pair of stockings.

I go to Planet Fitness and World Gym. Soon it will be taking care of the new grandson for a few days a week.

I see I can still multiply!

This has been a fun topic. I did not have the chance to have the fun I intended to have. Just could not squeeze it in! "Squeeze It In" sounds like fun! I did not take Halloween into consideration. Soon though! I like the mental anticipation. I can see us together when I close my eyes.

Have a great day!

@SwitchableSusie,

It's good you take time and effort to keep your body in condition. I was not an athletic girl when I was in high school. I played the Saxophone in the band and went to Montreal for the Worlds Fair in 1967. I worked cutting lawns and collecting pop bottles for money. The old push mowers kept me in shape along with snow shoveling in winter. Took some work just to buy a pair of stockings.

I go to Planet Fitness and World Gym. Soon it will be taking care of the new grandson for a few days a week.

I see I can still multiply!

This has been a fun topic. I did not have the chance to have the fun I intended to have. Just could not squeeze it in! "Squeeze It In" sounds like fun! I did not take Halloween into consideration. Soon though! I like the mental anticipation. I can see us together when I close my eyes.

Have a great day!

Thank you for your post!

My entire family works to keep in very good shape. If I go three pounds over my average daily weight, my husband lets me know if he doesn't see that I cut back immediately. He doesn't vary an ounce either way and our daughters are obsessed with their bikini figures. I love the saxophone for it's mellow sound, it is a real contrast to my flute and especially when I play my piccolo where there is NO soft sound and I have to wear ear plugs for protection. I'm impressed that a "girl" would be cutting lawns. My husband and his friend had a lawn mowing and snow blowering business when he was a teenager which enabled him to start building his "toy" collection--mostly stereo equipment. Even as a teenager, he had the best stereo of all my friends PARENTS.

Gyms are great for staying in shape. I used to belong, but I do enough stretching and calisthenics at home to make up for it. I also have a set of light (5-8-12 pound) kettle weights to stay toned, not gain bulk. Your new grandson will definitely keep you in shape keeping up.

Nobody came by for us at Halloween. The driveways are long and the streets are dark EVERYBODY kept their outside lights off as added insurance!

Have a terrific weekend.

@SwitchableSusie,

You and your family have a nice weekend also. It's been delightful to get to know you these past few days.

Sincerely,

Gwen

Well, sounds like it is just about ideal to get to that level. I know already that my wife is not averse to being in the room, as she has walked in on me once or twice, now the trick will be to either get her to give or take the enema.

I've waited for this thread for years, LOL. My wife and I did the same, frequently, when we were younger. We'd begin with her facing me, straddling me and lowering herself onto my cock. No different than fucking on a chair, but much better accommodation for taking enemas at the same time. I could scoot back to some degree. I know there was room for her to point her little butt down in there when it was time. We were completely into the sex and all the great sensations, we just let it go when needed. What I haven't read here is that we'd do three that way, and she'd and face away for the last. She was clear by then, and the feeling of her gushes on my groin and cascading over my balls always took me over the top. It fairly contained and not as "down and dirty" as all that. Today, we still continue our play in the bathroom, if not quite the gymnastic event we made of it when young. The results are the same, however. It's become a genuine 'trigger' for my wife, to my delight and that of the few we have shared our enemas with. She's turned on by the gushing and moaning, and makes a comparison of expelling with ejaculation.

Funny, I mentioned this years ago, and one response was "sounds romantic." I assumed it sarcastic, but kink and romance need not be mutually exclusive. It's all sex...