Edgeplay

Anyone ever heard of the term/ act of “edge-play” ? Not to be confused with edging.

Yes, in my world, edge play is usually risky or dangerous BDSM that may include knives, suspensions, extended restraint or kidnapping, blood sports and breath play.

Consensual non-consent scenes can also get very dangerous.

Yes I have, it is those who do extreme play with a high element of risk involved. Not for the inexperienced, but requires a high level of knowledge and experience of what one is doing and has taken appropriate safety measures.

I had never heard of it til I was asked about it, tonight. I actually had to google the definition. Not sure I want to google any porn about it now tho.

There is definitely a whole other world out there !

@bridgette There's a WHOLE lot out there... and you need a strong stomach for some of it! Cutting and knife play and body mods and needle play and blood play and stapling and breast nailing and fire play...

Rule 34 applies.

Saw an ad about this stuff once. Not my thing and for those involved they better be careful.

Not my thing either more into sensual play

Not my thing either but I just find it very interesting that it really is a thing. I like to learn as much as I can and well try to get into the mentality side of it.

The way the mind works and what makes some people tick is just fascinating to me.

CJ1999 said

@bridgette There's a WHOLE lot out there... and you need a strong stomach for some of it! Cutting and knife play and body mods and needle play and blood play and stapling and breast nailing and fire play...

Rule 34 applies.

For some VERY edgy stuff see this

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=624518

and Google "BME Pain Olympics 3" for some really extreme edge play on vimeo. Some things in the video you can only do once.

I'm not posting the link--I promise you will find it.

I never considered myself very squeamish but I when I got to the guy gutting his own cock I almost puked in my own mouth! I had to stop when I got to the finger amputation.

Now I am more confused than ever.

I understand different strokes for different folks but how is this sexual in any way?

Is it more self mutilation than sexual gratification? I am really trying to understand here.

Holy f@ck !!

I thought edge-play was bringing someone (or yourself) close to orgasm and then denying it. I guess that's "edging" and is different. I don't want to see Susies links!! 😧

Bridgette said

Anyone ever heard of the term/ act of “edge-play” ? Not to be confused with edging.

gwhap said

I thought edge-play was bringing someone (or yourself) close to orgasm and then denying it. I guess that's "edging" and is different. I don't want to see Susies links!! 😧

Edging and edge play are definitely two different things.

You don't want to see my links? When did you become a light-weight? 😁 😁 😁

I'm guilty of not reading all of the posts thoroughly. So spank me!!

Bridgette - not Susie! 😄

Come on, all I want to see are a few broken blood vessels. 😁

Edge play is not my thing either. Just too much for me.

No no no and nooooooooooooooooo......

that is way over too much!!!!!

Does what Hannibal Lecter did to Mason Verger constitute edge-play???

Lecter serves as Verger's court-appointed psychiatrist. During one of their sessions, Lecter gives Mason PCP and tells him to peel off his own face with a piece of broken mirror. In a state of drug-induced euphoria, Mason complies, and afterwards feeds the pieces to his dogs, except for his nose, which he himself eats. Lecter then tells Mason to demonstrate autoerotic asphyxiation; Mason hangs himself and breaks his neck. He survives the ordeal, but is left disfigured – losing his lips, nose, cheeks, eyelids and left eye – and paralyzed from the neck down.

GOOD STUFF!!!

On a serious and realistic note, what Master Dorson and I described is edge play we can actually perform and live to tell about it and do it again.

On a serious and realistic note, what Master Dorson and I described is edge play we can actually perform and live to tell about it and do it again.

I wasn't trivializing Edge-Play. You guys are experienced, knowledgable and "sadistically" sane and responsible enough to get into it. I did a little google shopping on Edge Play and found some interesting articles as well as one I thought disturbing: "How Edge Play Can Spice Up a Monotonous Sex Life". Seems like a lot of "light weights" could read something like this and decide to give it a try - without the experience and safety mechanisms - and end up hurting themselves or someone else. Also found an article that stated up to 1000 people die each year of autoerotic asphyxiation (can't always tell if was really autoerotic or simply suicide). I assume there are also a fair number of deaths from erotic asphyxiation during a scene - but didn't find any reference. My take: Edge play isn't for the feint of heart, more importantly, it isn't for the inexperienced.

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/sandra-lamorgese-phd/edge-play_b_9473490.html

Also found an article that stated up to 1000 people die each year of autoerotic asphyxiation (can't always tell if was really autoerotic or simply suicide). I assume there are also a fair number of deaths from erotic asphyxiation during a scene - but didn't find any reference.

If that number is true, and I tend to doubt it, at least you go with a smile on your face!

If that number is true, and I tend to doubt it.....

You're right. From 2012 study:

Rather than the oft-cited estimate of 500 to 1,000 deaths per year, the new results suggest that the true number of yearly autoerotic deaths in the U.S is less than 160.

@gwhap said, So spank me! Bridgette not Susie

Lol ! I am usually the spanked one not the spanker ?

This forum is so entertaining. LOL! That being said edge play is a "no,no" from me.

When done properly, it can be safe, but the crowd I hung around, safety was paramount. You must have a plan of action when things go wrong, and training. You have to know how to read people, medical training as in first aid and CPR. There is a saying, those who are new and not experienced tend to make little mistakes, the more experienced players when they mess up can be pretty bad. I could tell a few stories of things gone wrong that you would never have thought to happen over simple stuff that you would not expect.

When done properly, it can be safe, but the crowd I hung around, safety was paramount. You must have a plan of action when things go wrong, and training. You have to know how to read people, medical training as in first aid and CPR.

Good advice for those interested in trying edge play. Be prepared and ready for any possible outcome.

Not to confused... but EDGING can be fun (it's like masturbating to just the point before climax and stopping. You become so stimulated you have a huge body-rattling O if you're a women or if a man, it's like Mt. St. Helen's erupting with a deluge of molten cum.

My understanding of Edgeplay is that the throat is grasped by the hand of the other participant and basically their partner's circulation to their head and their air way is closed off until their eyes roll up in their head and they begin to go unconscious; then is quickly released to give them orgasm enhancement. This seems a bit like Russian Roulette to me. Maybe, holding the throat with a little (minor choking) pressure might be erotic to both parties but avoiding getting close to unconsciousness would be a must. A safe word wouldn't be a bad idea either. Don't do this to our sexy seniors, they often have plaque in their carotid arteries that could become dislodged and cause a catastrophic medical problem.

Matt Bastardson said

My understanding of Edgeplay is that the throat is grasped by the hand of the other participant and basically their partner's circulation to their head and their air way is closed off until their eyes roll up in their head and they begin to go unconscious; then is quickly released to give them orgasm enhancement. This seems a bit like Russian Roulette to me. Maybe, holding the throat with a little (minor choking) pressure might be erotic to both parties but avoiding getting close to unconsciousness would be a must. A safe word wouldn't be a bad idea either. Don't do this to our sexy seniors, they often have plaque in their carotid arteries that could become dislodged and cause a catastrophic medical problem.

Edgeplay can be a lot of things but has nothing to do with edging and is definitely NOT limited to choking, asphyxiation or strangulation.

Edgeplay does not have to be "death defying acts."

No way, too dangerous and there are people that do it, know nothing of the risks and dont care. this is an area i would not go near ever

I agree with toshe63. Some of my sexual perversions are possibly frowned on by others but this edgeplay, that I have not really heard about much, seems to be far too dangerous to be contemplated for sexual kicks. I am surprised that anybody would do this for real. Maybe it is just a fantasy perversion that some people just like to talk about. It is also something that you could not do to yourself to enhance any feelings from masturbating to orgasm.

I enjoy edging. But edgeplay is a hard limit. There’s a paramount quality of trust involved. I have not met anyone in person that I would be comfortable in progressing to edgeplay. I admire those that can.