Pee: Resist or let go

Hi, i saw another post here about poo, but i'm curious about what you think if you are continent, would you resist (to keep the sphincter and bladder in a okish state) or would you let go?

I’m pretty sure, I would do whatever I could, to maintain my bowel health.

I like to drink a few cups of tea and wait until I really have to pee. I then like to flood my diaper.

I always tried to resist, but then my bladder decided I should empty so had no chance of resisting in the end.

I often find myself plainly letting go. But sometimes I’ll hold it until I physically can’t hold with a minor shock from an e-stim electrode or I’ll be daring and use on of those tennis racket bug zappers that’ll either make me cum from the constant teasing or piss myself. Sometimes I’ll get a slow dribble going and slap a diaper on to let out the rest.

I've always been a fan of desperation wetting. It seems to heighten all the senses when it comes to diaper wearing. I'm diapered up for the day or bed time nice and dry. Knowing that the time is coming where I'll reach the point of no return and end up soaking wet.

When I was younger, I could never enjoy a full on wetting as the thrill of my diapers made it to where I could only dribble at best. But old age has changed that. The sexual thrill of diapers has faded enough to let the "fun" of diapers take on a whole new dimension. With old age came enlarged prostate and the problem of "overactive bladder". Being a serious DL, I have embraced my newfound issue and incorporated into my diaper time. While before I'd have to wait forever for the moment when a soaking could happen only to have a meager little dampening of my diaper. I'd have to stand and force myself to not think about the thick padding between my legs. I'd have to daydream about things that really didn't make a full on wetting enjoyable. Then, finally I could strenuously force a little pee. It was actually really frustrating. UGH!

Now, I'm retired and can to wear my diapers and plastic pants whenever I want. Full time wearing has taken the extreme edge of the thrill off. That and the overactive bladder has opened up a whole new experience. I now know what it's like to have a real accident. All it takes is not going to the bathroom before leaving the house. Within an hour the need to go hits me. It's sudden and without any warning. I can withstand it for only a short time. I know that depending where I'm at, I'm going to have a "real" accident.

I fight for just a minute more before my bladder wins. Then, I absolutely flood my diaper. No dribble here. It's a full on pee going everywhere soaking. The feeling is out of this world. There's the fear of a serious leak, and humiliation of knowing you really couldn't fully control yourself. Also, being it's not a dribble the sensation of hot wetness spreading all through my diaper at once is almost enough to make me grab my diaper front even in public. After that when I've finally finished wetting there's great feeling of relief. That Ahhhhh moment when all that stress of holding goes away. It's replaced with the 'oh god, I'm gonna leak" and yes, that has happened. Fortunately it's after a previous wetting. But the embarrassing "walk of shame" knowing there's a telltale dark spot on your pants iis still there.

Another fun thing is feeling the uncomfortable sopping wet spots in my diaper disappear into a nice warm damp heavy diaper. The cloth soaks up the wetness and spreads it to areas that seconds before were dry. I do this mind freeze just enjoying the entire experience. It's even better out in public where you know there's a chance of diaper failure and being discovered your a diaper wetter.

So, yes resist as long as you can. The results are outstanding.

There's that old saying; Good things come to those who wait......

During the day I’ll wait for as long as possible before peeing, then rather than just letting go I control the flow, giving the diaper time to absolutely some of the fluid.

However, during the night I go when I feel the need and just let go. Sometimes it’s a small amount sometimes, especially in the mornings, there is much more.

Sometimes, when at home, I’ll wait and rather than use the diaper I’ll use a urine bottle. I tend to wear Tena Flex wear it’s possible to untape the front of the diaper, pull it down and pee into a bottle.

Like a river that doesn't know where it's flowin' and so it goes..

I make no effort to hold it and just let it flow.

Desperation and accidentally wetting myself are a huge turn on for me. Consequently when I’m at home I often like to hold on as long as I can before I head to the bathroom, or if I’m wearing a diaper either letting go a little at a time, or waiting until I really can’t hold any longer and flooding it.

Strangely I’ve had a few experiences where I’ve driven home, vaguely feeling that I need to pee but not desperately, and then the minute I walk through the door I’ve completely lost control and instantly wet myself!

Always resist. Feels good and lets my bladder know who is in charge

I rarely pee when I need to. I pee when I want to. If I am absolutely desperate, I pee out enough to remove the desperate feeling and build it up again. If I know I will have to actually go out and my bladder is feeling full, I will empty it - some in my diaper and some in the toilet.

At work I wear pull-ups, so I do have some control and may have an accident before I can get to the bathroom. When I'm not working I'm keepted in diapers. I have no choice but to let go, and I just wet without hesitation.

I remember when I was a kid, when I was put in a diaper I never tried to hold it. When that diaper was pulled up between my legs and pinned on, it was like I was a toddler again and whatever muscles 'hold it in' were totally relaxed by the time Mom had pulled my plastic pants up.

These days...not much different. If I have to go, I just let it happen!

I started wearing diapers 24 seven about five years ago. For five years before that I was wearing diapers more and more. Whenever I wore diapers I let go whenever the urge hit me. That lowered my resistance to letting go when I wasn’t wearing a diaper. Eventually I started having accidents. The more I wore diapers the more I needed them.

No I don’t worry at all about peeing. Sometimes I’m just a little dribble; sometimes it’s a flood. It’s up to my caretaker to check and change me.

It's a tricky question ,my body used to like to occasionally give me enough warning that I would tear up the house to get to bathroom(I have broken doors,walls & toilets trying to use a toilet ,it never worked out ,my diaper would end up doing its job at the 11th hour , my doctor couldnt understand why 99 out of 100 times i had no problem letting the diaper do its job but would heroicly try that one time . He broke me of that need to try by putting locking buckles on my harness ,so if my body wanted to play games it could all it wanted ,I could not participate as my aide had the key and would only use it to change me . I just ignore my body when it wants to play games now ,so there is no resisting or letting go just nature doing it's thing .

I'd prefer to let go, because it's much healthier.

I wear a diaper on occasion ... like when I go shopping. With Covid, there are very few public washrooms open.

Both. It's lots of fun to hold it until I think I'm going to explode, then let go and flood my diapers and enjoy that feeling of hot warm pee completely enveloping everything down there. And it's also fun to wear them and relax to the point that I'm almost constantly dribbling out pee, while barely thinking about it, like a baby.

I still have a minimum of control, but I often have an accident before I can get to the bathroom, then the minute I walk through the bathroom door, I completely lost control, so inevitably I flood my diaper! Being accidentally wet is a huge twist for me. I'm still afraid of a serious leak, but when I'm finished peeing in my diaper, there is a great feeling of comfort and even time of humiliation. Since at home, I no longer make any effort to hold myself, I just let myself go in my diapers, especially since my wife she will tease me constantly before making me a diaper change, always knowing that my diapers are beautiful and well wet! To feel uncomfortable in heavy and wet diapers, then inevitably embarrassed him and put me to shame! So, yes, resist as long as I can. Even with all these efforts, the results will always remain the same at the end, from now on I always wet my diapers!?

When I started to make my wife wear diapers in public, at first, she had resistance but after a period of time she had no problem wetting. She would then whisper to me that she went "pee pee in her diapers"

I love to hold it until I absolutely can't anymore. Fond memories of being out and about with an old boyfriend and ended up wetting in public. I was so embarrassed, thinking the rest of the world must know!

I still try to resist some of the time but this last year or two have had the rare occasion where whilst resisting the urge, the uge has completely gone and some time after is replaced with an eceedingly strong urge that cannot be fought to go number 2's and nothing will stop that, even sitting down does not stop the inevitable, some considerable time after the nappy is fouled I will then just start wetting a large volume of fluid without any warning.

Doc says everybody is affected by inco in different ways and I have to deal with it in my own way so to avoid maximum unpleasantness I tend to just "let it flow" these days.

Trying to learn tol let go just to let go but I just can't make myself do it all the time I have to wait till I just have to damn well piss. Then out it goes. It's usually a whole day or the next day I got to piss like hell. Then it comes out with her I'm sitting down or any position

I find that the older I get, the less control I have over my bladder. Now I will constantly dribble into my diapers. There have been times when I have tried to hold onto my pee, but in a very short time my bladder will fill to a certain point and the then release all at once into my diaper.

I enjoy the sensation of how the end of my wee-wee feels when I pee in my diapers so I don't hold it until I'm bursting. Instead I wet a bit at time so I can have my peeing experiences several time during the day before I'm changed and again throughout the evening until its time for bed. I especially enjoy wetting when we out away from home for dinner, shopping, a show, or visiting friends. Not sure why but I do get somewhat excited or aroused when I go potty around other people and they have no idea how naughty I am. But my wife always knows and sometimes gives me a squeeze or two in my crotch or bottom.

If it's less than an hour before we get up in the am, I'll hold it and wait until I put my diaper on after getting up just to flood it so I can sit and drink my coffee in warm wet comfort.

Ok, I got confused. The subject said pee while the body of the post said poo. I don't poo in mine while the wife is home. I don't want to offend her. She knows and expects me to when she's not home. I'll sometimes hold it in until she leaves for work or if the urge is too strong, I'll use the toilet.

I'm definitely a resister. I try to hold on as long as I can. I don't really want to lose any more ability than I already have. I'm at a cross roads between enjoyment and need. With a bit of effort I can keep dry. But then there's the times when out and about that I loose the battle. It's a disaster when I'm in underwear. But a nice experience when I'm all diapered up. It makes going out much more enjoyable Knowing there won't be any embarrassing accidents.

When I can't hold it any longer it's a flood. All I can do is slow the flood barely enough to keep my diaper from leaking. It's really hard to act like nothing is going on when around others. I remember when I was younger and could hardly wet a diaper if I tried. I used to think “wow, wouldn't it be neat to just let go and soak myself”. Now I realize it's sometimes not so neat. But then I might as well enjoy it. It's going t happen anyways.