Loss of Interest After Orgasm

I remember 30 years or so ago, maybe longer, I had been after my wife to make me take 4… 2 quart bags of water at once. I know she thought I was crazy.. cause she kept putting me off.

Then, I took her on a second honeymoon in the

Smoky Mountains where I rented a rustic cabin.

Anyway, the first day, we: 1) messed around a bit (Sexually). 2) Went on a few walks enjoying the scenery; and 3) had a very romantic supper.

The next day, I don’t know what possessed her, she got up out of bed, reached in the closet and took a bag with her into the large bathroom.

I, in the meantime, got up, went into the kitchen and made us both cups of coffee. I sat down on the coach and turned on the television.

Wife came out of the bathroom, poured her a cup of coffee, and joined me on the couch.

We drank our coffee and smooched a little. Finally, she got up and went back into the bathroom. I heard water running, but thought nothing about it. I just figured that she was getting ready for the day… she was..

A few minutes later, she came out of the bathroom and walked right in front of me and over to the refrigerator where she got a bowl full of ice cubes… these Ice cubes had a quarter moon shape each.

After obtaining the ice, she came over to me, leaned down and gave me another smooch and reached for my hand which I gave her. She pulled me up and led me into the cabin’s large bathroom.

Upon entering, I couldn’t believe my eyes… hanging on the two towel racks were 4 .. 2 quart fountain syringes.. soap bubbles were above each of the bag’s rims. Wife had also prepared a pallet for me on the floor too!

Susan, then, helped me out of my shorts and placed me onto the floor in the knee chest position. Second, she began to talk sexually to me telling that she was going to make me take all of these four bags of hot, soapy water.. Third, she reached up and took off the sink’s counter a jar of Vick’s Salve. She, then, dipped her fingers into it and began rubbing the stuff onto my balls and wacker.. Fourth, with one hand, she began to insert not one, but two Vick’s laden fingers into my rectum. She, then, rotated them back and forth while with the other hand she continued to smear the salve onto my wacker and balls. And that wasn’t all either! She continued to whisper what she was going to do to me in my left ear.

Soon, she had me to where I was about to explode! But, she didn’t stop there. In fact, she began to insert the quarter moon shaped ice cubes into my well lubricated rectum. I can say this, Boy, were they cold and I think it was the Vick’s that helped to intensify that feeling!

With that accomplished, she began to slowly inserted one of the bag’s douche nozzles into my rectum! She wiggled it a bit! Then, she opened the tube’s shut-off. Hot, soapy water shot into me which melted the ice.

About half way through that bag, she pulled the nozzle out of me and then began to insert more ice.

I, in the meanwhile, continued to masturbate thanking God for such a wonderful wife!

Soon, the water was, again, flowing into me!

I was definitely in Heaven!

Susan continued this action.. one bag in; two bags in; and then three bags in;

She told me how proud she was of me!

I told her how much I loved her!

Then, about half way through the fourth bag, I exploded! Not internally as you might think.. instead I came and came. Cum was all over one of the towels. Soon, my interest in my taking the rest of that enema bag waned and I started to get up.

But, Wife, would have no part of that! She put her hand onto my back, and said “no your not getting up.. you’ve been after for at least a year to make you take four full bags of hot, soapy water and you are going to get up! You “are” going to take every drop, you hear?”

So, what did I do?

I settled back down onto my pallet and let my enema continue to flow up into me!

But, know this, I had absolutely no interest in taking the enema or sex for that matter! My desire was gone.

I guess you could say that, Susan accomplished what she started and yes, I did take all four bags.

However, I must say this, what started out with unmeasurable excitement, died about half way through that fourth bag.

In fact, it took hours before I was ready for more action! I was exhausted!

Same thing when asking my wife to feed me the creampie I have deposed into her vagina. The hottest thought in the world...until I orgasm and then I chicken out...

This happens to me as well. I have never been able to finish an enema after I cum. I immediately need to release.

I have never been able to finish an enema after I cum.

Oh yes, that has cut short, spoiling many an enemas session for me.

I'm pretty much the same way. Comes back quick, though!

I avoid to ejaculate till the whole 2 to 3 litres of enema (warm water, saline or chamomile tea) entered deep in my rectum, then I start edging until reaching orgasm. Afterwards I loose interest in enemas for several days.

Every guy I dated lost interest after he came. Not a coincidence I'm not dating guys ATM.

Every guy I dated lost interest after he came. Not a coincidence I'm not dating guys ATM.

Men find this disappointing and distressing as well you know. Or many do. That is where the concept of Tantric sex is based on, of being virtually endlessly sexually excited but without loosing control and going over the edge into orgasm. And thereafter sliding into non-interest.

Edging is also a practice to delay gratification and therefore not loose sexual interest and intensity.

In discussing masturbation habits, I told in other posts how I fool around with myself virtually daily, often multiple times, but never to climax. It is so disheartening to loose the will to feel sexual desire.

Alas, it seems to be a physiological male condition. Not much to do about it except delay or deny orgasm. As a sexual technique there is nothing new about this, but then again in our present-day culture it is thought to be very odd and unusual and even unhealthy when it comes to all those so oft mentioned detrimental prostate conditions that may result from withholding ejacuations.

Luckily, on that front I seem to be holding up quite well.

I would think, it is nearly as it would be after a good meal !! - firstly satiated, but then also ready for the dessert !!

I often loose interest after orgasm and that's the nice thing about my medical sessions I can't escape the exam after the sperm collection. And after 10 minutes the interest is back

When younger, I just needed a short recovery time. Times grew longer with age, plus kids and work got in the way. We always fondled after orgasm. Maybe not so much loss of interest, rather loss of ability to recover in a reasonable time.

I’m kinda like a man. I fall asleep after. In fact, that even holds true after I orgasm from masturbating.

It’s not like my husband cares. He’s not a cuddler.

I’m kinda like a man. I fall asleep after. In fact, that even holds true after I orgasm from masturbating.

It’s not like my husband cares. He’s not a cuddler.

@EnchantedAmethyst Sorry to hear he's not a cuddler. 😔😉

For me, I find that after an orgasm, it just depends upon the circumstance and situation. For the most part, after one, I still yearn for more! It really depends upon how I feel that day....am I tired or worn out/sick prior to the orgasm/fun? I can say this, when I'm in the mood, I'll have as many as I can because I can be that intense and wanting. I'm grateful for my Anthony, for he often thinks of me first, always seeking to please me first before we finish with him! Even after, he loves me and shows me great affection.

Every single man that i fuck ... 🌹 ... will have a recovery time and may not seem to be in the mood to do me again right after we fuck. It is something that i know will happen ... i expect it ... and i don't feel like i'm being rejected or that they have lost interest ... but i didn't always feel this way and it was all about me. The men i fuck are older ... not the young studs that they once were ... and that is fine with me. Sometimes all it takes is a quickie ... and i love those ... but if you want to have some longer sex play ... just know that men ... older men especially ❤️ ... or men with ... let's say ... diabetes or some other problem need more time ... or stimulation ... or u just have to time it right 🌹 ... with them ... 🌹 and work their cocks and rocks to their best abilities and not put pressure on them to perform.

I've found enemas to be a great way to keep the feelings ... intimacy ... going while my man that i am fucking ... regains some steam. Lots of touching ... sucking ... letting them look ... some are very visual ... touch ... licking ... while u are naked with them and keeping that feeling going. If he falls asleep after he fucks u ... take credit for it because you tapped him out ... then have your naked body there for him when he awakes when you are playing with his cock ... or his enema ... and help him build up more steam ... but also let him watch or help with a vibrator or dildo ... or his fingers or tongue ... 🌹🌹🌹

Me? Yes i can keep fucking until i'm raw and still wanting more ... but my men ... the men that i fuck ... i know them 🌹 ... and they make me feel like a queen ... and besides ... 🌹 ... they look cute when they doze off.

I think it's a hormone thing. After an orgasm, I loose all interest in sex and loose my erection. I'm 76 now, as a youngster, things were didderent.

Maybe a bit of comparable with a good meal - in the first moment after it, you are satiated, but after some time, there is space for another dessert !!

My penis deflates and so does my interest. Don't know why and don't like it

Since I was a kid, enemas and masturbation were usually a partnership and I almost always jacked off during or after the enema. If I was planning on more than one enema in a series I waited until the last enema before masturbation because once I orgasmed I didn’t want another enema. That was even the case years ago when I was able to get my wife to give me an enema, I would want the enema before we had sex. Although I do remember one time after we had played a while and I was pretty spent, she gave me an enema and I was ready for another round. A good enema was like Viagra to me before Viagra was a thing.

@RedBulb99 said,

Although I do remember one time after we had played a while and I was pretty spent, she gave me an enema and I was ready for another round. A good enema was like Viagra to me before Viagra was a thing.

I totally understand what you are talking about. I had the same thing happened to me when I was a teenager. My girlfriend and I were in the habit of swapped enemas during her period each month and routinely masturbated one another as we gave each other enemas. Meaning, when she gave me an enema, she masturbated me, and I did likewise for her. We usually did a soapy then a rinse enema. Occasionally having sexual intercourse afterwards. And if I couldn’t rinse to the occasion, she’d give me another enema, knowing that would take care of the issue. Starting before age eight, I got a hard-on every time I received an enema, and my sister told my girlfriend about it. So, she was aware of my propensity to get a hard-on when I received an enema and used that knowledge.

Years later, the same thing occurred with my wife and me. After masturbating one another during enemas or having sexual intercourse. If we were still horny and I wasn’t ready, my wife would give me an enema and before that enema was finished, I was rock hard again.

It’s a built in human behavior so we don’t starve to death. We would fuck ourselves to death otherwise.

I was going to give a lengthy reply to this but I lost interest.

Clever reply Darth. Loved it!!

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I lose interest after the orgasm as well. If it is to be a multiple enema series, the giver needs to make sure I don't achieve orgasm too early in the series, or otherwise, I truly don't want to continue. When I was younger, my refractory period was shorter, so I could orgasm during the first enema and then be aroused again at some point in the second (if it was a warm water enema) but those days are long gone.

It can't be helped. Just practice a little patience. It is normal.