Sex clubs

I love my club -M4 in Toronto.

This letter went out to members the other day, and I think it really describes what a sex club is all about. It may help persuade a few people who have not had the guts to take the plunge, but have thought about it.

This is our 10th year in business. It seems like a good time to make a few comments about the ClubM4 and the lifestyle. Note: For those interested in our history you can read it here:

http://clubm4.com/history/

Just after Christmas I was sitting with a couple who didn't know too much about the Lifestyle or ClubM4. Of course they had a million questions. I did my best to answer everything. "What is it like the first time we attend (paradoxically the same as any other bar but at the same time wildly different) Do we have to get undressed (no) Are we required to play (no) Do people use condoms (almost everyone). Are there lockers and showers (yes). Do you serveliquor (yes). Then they asked me what makes M4 so special. This is what I said:

"I think ClubM4 is one of the most unique places in the world. Not only is it a place where you can freely test your sexual inhibitions but it is also an environment where a vast array of lifestyle choices are not only accepted but welcome. Full swap, soft swap, straight, bi, gay, trans you can come to ClubM4 and feel very comfortable knowing that you are surrounded by like minded and open minded people. There is also no requirement for how rich or thin you are or your age or ethnicity. The only test is that you have had the courage to walk through the doors for the first time.

That idea has held up very well the last ten years. I hope that we can be in business for another 10 and that we will still be seen as one of the most unique, cutting edge environments in the world. Thanks! Rich, Matt and Sara

If you ever wanted to test the S&M waters, or try a gangbang, or fully public sex with a significant other, or a complete stranger- a club like this is a safe and sane place to to it. I might head down there tomorrow, and see what's up.

menageaquatre.com note: I am not affiliated- just a member.

I always wanted to visit a sex club, more as an observer. I just find the thought of watching people have sex in different ways very erotic. Not sure if such clubs exist in the US.

I have heard of a dungeon in L.A....they have a webpage. Not sure about any others but I can't believe there aren't a lot. My friend, Curious, said she had been taken once to one in Boston. Frankly, I'd love to check one out.

Some years ago there was a great swing club in Vegas called “The Red Rooster”, Although I don’t believe that it is still active. About 10 or 12 years back, I visited there in the company of a female friend, on a busy Friday night. We changed out of our street clothing, utilising their lockers, donned some large towels, enjoyed a nude swim, danced a bit with the crowd on the huge clothing optional dance floor, and then enjoyed a soak in a huge hot tub. Single men were relegated to the first floor, but couples had access to the second floor, where there were a number of bedrooms, occupied by couples, threesomes, and foursomes-all enjoying themselves in various sexual activities. I do recall that the cardinal rule that “no meant no”, but in the few hours we spent there, we didn’t see any problems and everyone seemed to be having a great time.

Sherema69- At M4 they don't segregate the single men, and there are no rooms with doors. It's just good clean fun. The only real rule is NO MEANS NO!

Thanks, M4 sounds like a delightful club-I’d love to visit some day! And thanks for the link to the Club’s history - fascinating.

Sounds like a trip to Canada is going to be in the works thanks for information

The red rooster in las vegas is a very nice place to play. We have gone and experianced the fun there's. It is a very nice place and the people there are very respectable. If you ever get to vegas check them out.

I'm bumping this thread in hopes of getting some responses from other club m4 members/attendees specifically as I would like to visit this club sometime and have never been to a sex club before. I've read all of the former Buttwoman's posts (pls come back so I can read new blogs!), and her accounts are so sexy and kinky sounding that to me it borderline on fiction, as "if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is".

So my questions are, how kinky does the sex get here? Like I know swinging and bdsm play are welcome, but I'd be more so interested in the anal play there. Butt woman wrote about getting fisted there several times, so how welcome is anal play there? Also are you allowed to bring your own toys or do I leave those at home?