When was the first time a girl saw your penis/erection?

I mention in another similar thread, that once I was taking a bath and my mother came in with my younger girl cousin and placed her in the tub and told me to help her wash up. So we did lol…we were 8 and 5. She was the first girl who saw me nakie.

My first experience, as I can remember was when I was about 7 years old. My neighborhood friend Jimmy was my best buddy at the time and when he couldn't come out to play, his older sister Margaret, about 10 or 11, always wanted to play “doctor” in our hideout under the back porch. She'd get my pants down and “examine” me while she played nurse. I had no clue sexually, at the time except it hurt when she would squeeze my balls and I don't remember ever getting an erection. When it was my turn to be doctor, I was surprised she had nothing there, but I thought her bare mound looked like a tiny ass, only in front! It was just childhood play and exploration and nothing more. Oh, those good old innocent years!!

Assuming the OP is excluding nurses in a true medical setting…. first time then would have been when I was delivered…. the first time was when I was 17. The female in question was a young nurse who had been taking care of my mother and I saw her a few weeks later on the beach In NJ a week or two before I was leaving for college. We started talking and later that night in her motel room she both looked and fondled. We had an enjoyable evening, but neither of us were prepared for what might end in a pregnancy, so the night ended with a lot of hand rubbing.

A girl up the street had a dr. Kit. We used to play dr/patient when he mom was gone. The kit had all the regular tools including a red plastic thermometer. She would make me take off all my clothes and examine me. Included in the exam was a rectal temperature but she never used the red plastic on. She would go upstairs and get the one her mom took er temp with and a litter Har of Vaseline. She would have me lat back and pill my knees up to reveal my bottom. She would swirl thr thermometer until she had a big gob over Vaseline on the end and insert the thermometer nearly l the way in. She would part my legs and twirl the thermometer around and play with my little hairless penis. One time she did that, my penis turned very red and stood up. She thought it was funny and started sqeezing it. It got very hard the head was a very bright red and then her mom came home. I quickly put my clothes on and stuffed my hard little penis back in my underwear…. And that was it. I had seen it hard before but not that hard or that red. When I got home, I pulled my pants down and it was back to normal. I don't know how close I was ro ejaculatkng or even if it was possible at that age.

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Assuming the OP is excluding nurses in a true medical setting…. first time then would have been when I was delivered…. the first time was when I was 17.

@srg_rik

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I had completely forgotten that I was the OP'er of this OP, almost 5 years ago!… Lol.

I'm pretty sure that I intended to post this, monitor some replies, and then come back to post my experience. But I completely forgot… Lol.

I am also sure that I was NOT intending to solicit replies regarding “true medical nurses”, grandmothers/aunts/etc, a babysitter changing your diaper, etc. My question was more intended to solicit replies regarding sexual arousal. Perhaps a better way to ask the question would have been… “When was the first time a girl (probably, approximately your own age) saw/fondled your penis/erection, causing you to be sexually aroused with/by this female (even if you were too young/naive to understand your arousal). Were you satisfied to orgasm, or left frustrated (no orgasm)? Describe the experience.”

Many of my posts are regarding the subject of discipline/spanking, but witnessing a spanking is also NOT what this post is about. Because “good old fashioned” spanking was commonplace when/where I was born and raised (and, nudity was not over-sexualized), it was not unusual for girls (even unrelated girls – classmates, etc) to see boys' pants come down for corporal punishment/discipline, and sometimes erections happened. But again, this post is referring more-so to an unplanned first sexual experience. Such an experience MIGHT involve the girl role-playing the part of a nurse/doctor giving an exam, or a teacher giving a spanking, but the focus is more-so on a boy's penis having its first (probably innocent/unplanned) sexual experience with a female.

I will monitor replies for a while, and then post about my experience… unless I forget again, for another 5 years… Lol.

I related this story elsewhere on another thread, but here goes:

I'm just out of fourth grade. I was relaxing, lying down on my back in the bathtub with a hardon, when my older sister opened up the door (unlocked) to fetch a hairbrush or something, and she first laid eyes on that swollen purple head aiming up at the ceiling. Sis ran out into the hallway, screaming, into the living room, and told Dad. That's all I could recall on my side of things as to how this story ended, except that Dad must've snarled something, scolding her. It obviously was the first time she'd ever seen an erection before.

Ludicrous little episode.

The first girl to see my penis was probably a cousin, 2 years younger than me. I guess I was around 11 or 12, and she was 9 or 10. Maybe a little bit more (was so long ago, hard to remember). When in vacation together, we used to sleep in the same room, in separate beds. And one year, I guess we were less children and a little more pre-ado, we played a game under our blanket. We counted to 5, and at 5, we would take off the blanket, open the light, and show ourslef naked to the other. Well, we got couaght by her father because it was late, but it was fun ! 😁

My erect penis, I guess it was my first GF. We never had proper sex (she was from a religious family, so nothing serious before wedding) but we used to masturbate each other with clothes on… and sometimes, my pants and boxers would go more off than usual, exposing myself to her 😁

“Playing doctor” with my best friend in first grade. She just thought I “looked funny” compared to her little brothers who were circumcised (though neither of us knew what circumcision was at that point)

I was 17 when my girlfriend gave me my first blowjob. Nothing before that out side of a medical setting

16 y.o. with cheerleader girlfriend giving handjob. She had on her uniform and I was fingering her inside her tights.

The first time, well let's see, that would have been when I dropped out of my mother's womb, I am sure I had a hard-on for what was happening at that time, especially with all the nurses who were around. The next time was when I was maybe 14 or so, my sister had a couple of her girlfriends over and she was showing them our house, she opened my bedroom door to show them my room, not knowing that I was home, and of course I was in there masturbating! They slammed the door and left rather quickly . . .

Aside from my female playmates when we were 5 to 10 years old I guess the first experience would have been my girl when I was in the army. I had been home at Christmas to fetch my car and I picked her up at her father the colonel's house. By the time we got 200 feet from the house she had it out of my pants playing with it.

The next time was when I was maybe 14 or so, my sister had a couple of her girlfriends over and she was showing them our house, she opened my bedroom door to show them my room, not knowing that I was home, and of course I was in there masturbating! They slammed the door and left rather quickly . . .

You scared them?

When I was about 6 or 7, a neighborhood girl, about a year older, and I would play house. She would have me dress up as the ‘mom’ and she would dress up as the ‘dad’.

While getting dressed, she noticed my maleness, and said ‘ewwww, you need these panties to cover that up’, so I complied, as well as a sundress. I never got to see her while charging either.

Fast forward to 19, with my first female sexual encounter (she was 18 ), I was reluctant to disrobe, for fear of embarrassment, because I was wearing panties regularly. She put her hand down my jeans, and figured that out pretty quick. She was puzzled, but didn't make a scene about it. While the sex was amazing 😍, later she asked questions, but she couldn't accept it. (She thought it was gay, she was half right, lol)

Viki

I used to occasionally play “doctor” with the neighbour girl when I was primary school aged (5 - 10); and she was always interested in my “boy bits”. When I experienced early puberty age about 7, she (like the other boys at school) became very interested in what i was “doing” to make it get big and hard when she saw me and touched it. Of course I didn't know what was happening (and I certainly wasn't “doing” anything to make it big). She became really amused at how i would start squirming when she started repeatedly pulling my foreskin back, which caused my penis to bounce / throb even more!

The first time I can remember a girl seeing seeing my penis/ erection was when me my sister and twin female cousin’s changed to go swimming in the same room. I can remember getting an erection from seeing all 3 of them naked I think I was around 12-13 at that time and they would have been 9-10.

The first time I can remember a girl seeing seeing my penis/ erection was when me my sister and twin female cousin’s changed to go swimming in the same room. I can remember getting an erection from seeing all 3 of them naked I think I was around 12-13 at that time and they would have been 9-10.

@abcain89 have family get togethers been awkward since then?

@user264 no they haven’t been me and my sister have moved on and are completely normal around each other and my cousins I don’t see anymore because my parents got a divorce when I was a mid teenage and they are cousins on my dads side and I don’t see him or his side of the family anymore

First time seeing my penis would be Lynn a long time ago playing doctor. I think we were 6. She was the first vulva I've ever seen. She may have been the first to see my erection as well. I don't really recall who saw it first or when. I started playing doctor with girls long before puberty and continued up until it turned into more overt sexual play and Lynn was one of the girls I played with right up until our early teen years. At some point I started getting hard when playing doctor, I just don't recall exactly when that was. Age 10 or 11 maybe. There were two or three girls I was playing it with during that time.

Mine would have been when I was perhaps 14-15 and used to play with a group of neighbours kids all similar ages, we used to come out after our dinners when it was dark to play a game call "Tracking" the group would choose one person to try to find the rest who had run off to hide in the neighberhoods gardens etc, two of the girls in the group I really got on with and the three of us kind of hid in some deep bushes and soon started kissing and touching - next thing I rember was a hand touching my Erection then it unzipped me and went down inside my pants , there wasn't much time for anything to happen as we heard voices but it was sure nice.

We moved to the suburbs when I was about 6 years old. We still had friends from our building in the city so they came out to the burbs one night to visit us and have dinner and cocktails. Their little girl was my age and we were close friends and we used to play together all the time. Then around 8:00 or 9:00 they had us put on our pajamas and put each of us in one of the twin beds in my parents room. After the grownups turned off the light and left we talked for quite a while. Somehow the conversation got to the difference between boys and girls, so I asked if she wanted to see my penis. She said yes that she had never seen one so we agreed to show each other our anatomy. There was a little night light in the room so we went over there and got on our knees and pull down our pajama bottoms and inspected each other. Just then one of the adults came in the room and turned on the light. She got into a lot of trouble with her mom but I didn't. My mom just figured that was something kids do and that it's normal for curious children to play doctor.

She was my prom date. We were in the bedroom of a hotel suite and making out and doing hand stuff when she just undid my tux pants and pulled everything down. In fairness I’d previously seen her naked when she undressed and put on a long tshirt she’d brought with her. She straddled me and gave me hand jobs several times that night while I fingered her and felt her up under the tshirt. Definitely the hottest night of my life to that point. And then there would be a long dry spell …

I was told that I was 5. I have no recollection of it. The first time that I remembered, was a girl friend in high school. In the back seat of my car watching (ok, not watching) the God Father at a drive in. That was also the first time I went down a girl.

I was in my early teens. I had a girlfriend who probably lost her virginity at 11 or 12, and she gave me my first blow job.

I was 16. So was she.

J was a “good Catholic girl” from a large farm family. She was the youngest and the only girl. She was a band nerd and not an athlete, but she a slim, athletic body I found attractive. I consider J my first real girlfriend. I had a girlfriend in sixth grade and touched her breasts, but we were 12 and I was in my early stages of puberty. I consider J to be my first girlfriend.

J and I started dating when we were 15. We both had May birthdays. Once we turned 16 and got our driver’s licenses, our options for being together expanded. By that point, we were French kissing and trying not to give each other hickies. During car makeouts, I had touched J’s bare breasts a few times, at her invitation. I liked the feeling of her small bare breasts in my palm, and her smooth skin.

A few times, J had placed her hand on my crotch through my jeans. Through the clothing, she could tell I was hard. But during our car makeout sessions, she never touched bare skin on my penis.

One winter evening, we went to my house where I knew we could be alone. J and I were on the sectional couch in the family room, making out. I was lying on my back wearing loose-fitting stone-washed jeans. Under my jeans were white briefs. J was to my side, somewhat on top of me. She put her hand under my shirt and worked her way down to my abdomen. It was the most intimacy I had ever had. It felt so good. J had her head on my chest and kept her hand on my stomach as we made out. She rubbed my abdomen.

We were lying on top of the couch, not under any covers. I got the courage to lift the waistband of my jeans and underwear. She looked down. Whether she could see the tip of my penis, I’m not sure. She slid her hand into the opening, just far enough so her first two fingers came in contact with the head of my hard penis. My 16-year-old body was electrified! I lifted my jeans and underwear a little more. She slid her hand down toward my balls and cupped my erection very lightly, as if it was fragile. There was little question in my mind my hard penis was the first she had ever felt.

My God I was so hard and horny! But I also got nervous. Did she know what would happen if she kept her hand there?

Regrettably, I pulled J hand out of my pants just before I ejaculated into my underwear. I wasn’t touching my penis at the time and neither was she. But my arousal had reached the point that I had no choice but to ejaculate. There was a lot of cum. Whether she knew I had ejaculated, I’m not sure.

To this day, I regret pulling J’s hand away. I wish I would’ve cum in her palm because she probably would’ve liked the experience, and the intimacy probably would’ve led to other things. But because J was a “good Catholic girl,” and I didn’t want to scare her away by making a mess she wasn’t prepared to deal with. Plus, sex education classes had sent a stern warning about how easy it was to get pregnant. In my small town, life-giving semen was seen as deadly.

I’m sure J and I made out several more times in the next few weeks. But my next memory of sexual contact with J was on prom night in late April. J and I both were coming up on age 17.

On prom night, J and I double-dated with another couple. After the dance, we ended up at the other guy’s parents’ place where we watched a movie. That guy’s dad by adoption was Mr. P, a fairly popular teacher in our school. Mrs. P worked at the school, too. They had no birth children of their own.

In the bathroom, I changed out of my tux and put on some sweatpants. I wasn’t wearing underwear underneath the sweats. Then I went back to the family’s basement TV room.

The four of us were side by side on the floor, under a blanket, supposedly watching a movie. J and I might’ve kissed a little bit, but not a lot because the other couple was present and they were more friends than anything.

Under the blanket, though, we were horny. J had her hand on my stomach again. I lifted the waistband of my sweatpants, J’s hand slid down my pants right away. I remember trying to control my breath. It was so hot, lying next to the other couple, with J’s hand cupping my erection. J explored my hard cock and then my balls. It was so arousing, so taboo, lying next to another couple as my girlfriend groping me intimately, learning firsthand the size of my hard penis and what my testicles felt like.

By then I guess I had developed some bit orgasm control, which was probably good because the other couple was right next us and God only knows what sound I might’ve made if I had cum in J’s hand. And what would she have done with my semen?

Looking back on it, not having an orgasm on prom night was a wise choice. I went home early that morning with a raging case of blue balls. I masturbated furiously, fantasizing about J, never feeling straighter in my life.

She was my prom date. We were in the bedroom of a hotel suite and making out and doing hand stuff when she just undid my tux pants and pulled everything down. In fairness I’d previously seen her naked when she undressed and put on a long tshirt she’d brought with her. She straddled me and gave me hand jobs several times that night while I fingered her and felt her up under the tshirt. Definitely the hottest night of my life to that point. And then there would be a long dry spell …

This is so hot. The tension that builds during prom is so arousing. Some women just love a sharp-dressed man ... and therefore what's underneath the clothing.

At 9 or 10 with the neighbor girls. I guess that brought out the exhibitionist in me. 😉🤣

I was still at Primary school (6-11 age I think) when I got into the last Two Years 10 yrs old I think, we used to have some coal sheds - covered buildings with closed entrances that where quite dark, one of the more popular girls in school (had a young reputation for playing with boys) asked me if I wanted "to go to the the coal sheds" - I knew what this meant and it excited me beyond words - anyway in there away from eyes I felt but did not see her hand inside my trousers finding my dick playing with it - telling me to "Hush......" then we was found by a teacher and had to stop - teacher never caught on to our sexual romp and alas it never happened Again - "Shugssssss"

I was 8 or 9 and had invited the neighbor girl - 6 or 7 - to enter our garage with me and watch me undress for her. I had a very stiff erection even before I undressed, and was enough embarrassed about it that I called it to her attention and said I was “making” it do that.

At 11 my same-age cousin and I were at his house (we were visiting from a thousand miles away) and were “thwipping” our boners for each other, at bedtime. We both erected readily, I guess, and were showing each other. While we were doing that, his younger sister, my 9-year-old girl cousin, had unbeknownst been listening to us through the door and suddenly burst into the room to exclaim about our erect penises.

At 15 I was playfully wrestling on the lawn with the 12-year-old girl next door, who’d started it. She had a crush on me. That plus the fact it was harder to dominate her than I expected gave me an embarrassing erection that pointed straight out, tenting my sweatpants. At that point I made a snap decision to slowly stand up and let her see me that way, instead of furtively trying to adjust myself so she wouldn’t see. She was sitting on the grass still, so my erection was right at eye-level for her. She stared straight at it for the longest time, her mouth slightly open. I was so turned on to be showing her that I’d gotten an erection because of her that I couldn’t even swallow. Because of the age difference, nothing came of it. But wow. I’ve gotten an erection just writing about it now.

Which brings me to this: people are just wired differently. How else to explain so many of the previous posts here saying, in effect, “…and then I started to get an erection.” This confuses me so much! How could you not have been erect from the very start, if not before?!

When I was 15. A girlfriend and I checked out each others bodies one evening in a shop doorway. It was the first time I had my fingers up a vagina and first time anyone had touched and looked at my cock. We both masturbated me to orgasm. From then on, for three months we fucked a few times per week in her empty auntie's house. I rode her bareback of course and came on her leg. Now 63 years later we're facebook friends but live 3500 miles apart. A couple of weeks ago I asked her about our sex life and she didn't answer. I would love to discuss it in detail with her.