When was the first time a girl saw your penis/erection?

@esaterman .....Apologies for this long delay...,I had not seen your last comment / question. Generally speaking I was always a little nervous as the examination of the genitals approached when I was a young teen. I guess I was very naive too. But....those teen hormones were raging and I had never had a female 'feel me / touch me up'( as it were ). The lady doctor was very professional.....but I could not stop myself getting partially erect.

The other side of it was scaremongering. The school was very, very repressive about sexual matters. So, I had been led to believe (& stupidly I did believe it) that any boys who did get erections during medicals would be viewed as 'filthy' and 'disgusting' and would be reported to the Headmaster.

So, yes...I was very upset and very scared. But, to her great credit, the doctor was brilliant. She assured me that everything was fine, that my reaction to having my penis felt / examined was perfectly healthy and normal etc. She also assured me that I most definitely was not in any kind of trouble.

So, no....nothing happened to me. I was not caned!! But, despite the doctor'-s reassurances, I still worried about it all for the next 2 or 3 weeks!!!

Susie asked:

"I wonder if other members have noticed their posts being plagiarized."

Not here but in Readers Digest I have.

Many years ago my son sent in something I said that he thought was funny so I told him to send it in and maybe he could get a few bucks. He did, it was never published and he never got any money. Many years later like 20 or 30 maybe I read the exact story he sent in and was thinking that took a long time I wonder if he'll get paid the old rate or the new rate? When I reached the bottom it was attributed to someone else somewhere else in the country.

What happened was I walked in the house to find all our house plants lined up next to the kitchen sink. It's a family joke that my wife is known for killing about every plant that comes into the house so I asked what is this, death row? Apparently someone else had the same exact thought 20 or 30 years later but this time the joke editor thought it was funny.

I think it was 4th grade summer so I think that makes me 9 almost 10 yrs old. My friend Karen and a couple other neighborhood kids would play cowboys and indians and according to our rules we took off our clothing if we wanted to be indians-Karen and I liked that idea. So we'd head out into the forest behind our houses and get naked. That made her the first girl to see my prepubescent wanker. Four summers later we were friends with benefits before it was a term and kept that up for several years up until she married in her late 20's.

When I was young, during the summer season, me and my family always traveled to the sea for a small vacation and being on the beach, usually I was let to sunbath "au naturel". Of course that while I was swimming or while I was making sand castles, many times we (me and my brothers) also socialize with other kids from the beach and many times we joined or they joined us to play something together. Some of them were also nude like me, some others where in slips or in underpants (usually all the girls or the boys who was close to start their pubescent age) but we were used to be exposed each other in such...

In my case I started to wear a speedo when I was around 11 but even a year or two after, I continued to change my cloths or to use the beach shower without to cover my stuff...

About erections, I remember that I have always tried many spontaneous erections on the beach, but usually this events were ignored by me. The funny thing was that I had never tried to hide them for the others because my pennis was really small while it was flaccid and in my innocent mind from that time, I was convinced that being erect was the only possibility to be sow with a decent size 😃))

I know that a lot of girls sow me every time while we were playing or while we were just passing but usually nobody cares...

I was 13, making out with the daughter of family friends (a real cutie, btw). It was kind of a "I'll show mine if you show yours" kinda thing. And yeah, I was rock hard!

I was fourth grade, my sister sixth grade when she took home a female classmate for a sleepover. Saturday morning early September, I rushed into the bathroom while they were combing each other's hair, and I was enthusiastically exclaiming about the premiere of a new cartoon show. I had the urge to take a leak too, so I did so right on the spot.

Sis screamed, her girlfriend probably shocked, and Mom swore she'd take away my allowance for a month. I don't really remember her carrying out the punishment.

I was fourth grade, my sister sixth grade when she took home a female classmate for a sleepover. Saturday morning early September, I rushed into the bathroom while they were combing each other's hair, and I was enthusiastically exclaiming about the premiere of a new cartoon show. I had the urge to take a leak too, so I did so right on the spot.

Sis screamed, her girlfriend probably shocked, and Mom swore she'd take away my allowance for a month. I don't really remember her carrying out the punishment.

That is why there are locks on bathroom doors.

NO SYMPATHY for anyone who gets walked in on.

I posted before my sister walked in on me while masturbating. I had bedroom for in the basement with no doors an no locks. Actually enhanced my subsequent orgasm!!

That is why there are locks on bathroom doors.

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My house has no locks on the bathroom/wc doors. And it is not all that unusual either. I know of quite a few friends whose house is the same in that regards.

Hang an "OCCUPIED" sign on the door.

What is stopping anyone from installing a lock on a door?

What is stopping anyone from installing a lock on a door?

How about old, lazy and don't give a shit?

What is stopping anyone from installing a lock on a door?

In my case, from not feeling any need to. The same as with some of my friends I presume. The thought just never occurred to me in my house.

That is why there are locks on bathroom doors.

One of my regrets raising both a son and daughter two years apart is that I did not remove their bathroom locks. Our house was built in early 90s with one of those "Jack&Jill" bathrooms where two bedrooms share a bathroom through separate doors. A locked bathroom door was a constant source of sibling fights and tantrums. The first in would lock the door to the other door and forget to unlock when through.

In hindsight, if I removed the locks, then no access problem and they would eventually learn to respect their sibling doing their business in private. And if not, it would be a good teachable moment for them.

Best of both worlds then; removal of a point of conflict and opportunity to learn (and receive) respect.

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First time was about 17 years old. That wasn't the first time it was used but the first time it was examined in detail. I was helping my girl friend baby sit. So after we had sex (no adult in their right mind would think otherwise.) I wanted to clean up. The sex was the don't look don't tell kind where you do everything by feel so even though we humped like a couple of rabbits, I was never in full view. She wasn't into giving oral either so this mystery could have gone on for a long time. Any way I took a shower and she came in to peek. I would have liked closer company than that but I indulged her with enough angles and poses that her curiosity was satisfied. Our later love making sessions were much more open. I think she had to see that males weren't as dirty and disgusting as she was taught. I hope parents today teach sexuality with a little less shame content.

For me I was around 18 and she was 19. She was an ex girlfriend who we had recently started talking again. We were put for a drive in the country and decided to pull over on a backroad since she had been rubbing my groin and she pulled it out and gave me a good handjob and blowjob

This should be at my 17 with my first love, at cinema, though in the dark she might not see my cock well. In a few days we had our first sex, that gave her the full opportunity to check my device normally. Later she said that she didn’t like mine penis at first, but she changed her mind in a while.

I was 15, in a car with my first girlfriend, and we were kissing and fondling. She was groping my genitals over my pants and her hand ended up down inside the front of my pants. I unbuckled my belt, unhooked my pants and undid the zipper. She took care of reaching in and pulling down my briefs and taking my penis out. I encouraged her to stroke it and she ended up getting me off. She did not seem to mind that I got semen on her arm and hand.

Honestly can't remember.

Of course I remember the first time I had sex. But I don't recall the first time I messed around with a girl and she saw/handled my penis.

I wasn't really sexually active until I went off to college so i could probably narrow it down to a name or two. But that's about it.

I grew up with 2 neighborhood girls, we were friends. we played together, walked to school together. they were as close as sister at the time. We sat around listen to music as we grew up and our experiences broadened . I was 16 , I had part time job at a supermarket. I was walking home at about 9 pm after the store closed. they were hanging around outside, and came over and walked with me. The more out going of the 2 Said toni I need you to do something for me, I said sure, she said I want to see a naked boy, I want to see what a grown up boy looks like. All I ever saw was my little brother. She pointed to a ally , lets just go in there and you can drop your pants and let us see. I got embarrassed, and said NO, No !!!. she looked disappointed and said why we won't tell, no one would know. To tell the truth, I wanted to do it to show them. But was scared someone would see us, and me, I blushed was embarrassed, said no. She persisted. I told her my Mom and sister were going to visit with my Aunt and her daughters on Saturday , and would not be home till late. I told them is they wanted to come over, I would show them. The thought was exciting me I was hard in my pants. They said no someone might see us going into your house and tell out parents. I said come after it gets dark, no one will be around, come to the back door I will leav it open. They said they didn't know if it was a good Idea .I told them well the door will be open and I will be home about 7 pm.

By 7: 15 no one came by 7:20 I was ready to give up. At 7:25 I heard the door knob turn. They walked in. She said take your clothes off. I complied. They looked touched, felt. I got hard they were amazed how it worked, they keep touching they kept feeling. and then yes, I came in front of them. I was so so so embarrassed. They thanked me . they never said anything to anyone.

When I was 17, my 18 year old girlfriend Jennifer was the first girl other than nurses to see me stark naked. We'd been dating since we were 15. She was brought up with the Christian belief to not have sex before marriage. I always respected that. But she had hormones like any other girl. I was shy myself about being naked in front of people, especially females. We were going out for supper after school one Friday. I had to take a shower, and I told Jennifer over the phone to just come on in when she got to my house. Mom and Dad had already left to go out of town for the weekend. I was in the shower washing my hair. I didn't know Jennifer was already in the house. While I was scrubbing my hair with shampoo, I felt a third hand join in on my scalp. I must've jumped to the ceiling. I covered up my junk with one hand and washed out the shampoo from my eyes with the other. I looked up and Jennifer was standing on the edge of the tub looking down on me from over the shower curtain. She laughed, and I asked "how long have you been there." She said "long enough to see everything." I wanted to cover up, so I turned behind be to get the towel over the end of the shower curtain.....only it wasn't there. I asked Jennifer "okay, give it back." She said "not until you take your hand off down there and walk out here first." I said "c'mon", but she was going to make me walk out buck naked to get that towel. I decided, oh well, she's already seen me naked for the last 15 minutes, so I slid back the shower curtain and walked out with my pecker swinging. I cant' describe to you what a mental rush it was to be naked in front of a pretty girl for the first time. My heart was pounding. Instead of a silly little giggle, a mature acting young lady took that towel and started drying me off. She behaved as if she'd been seeing me naked all my life. I felt so uneasy about what she was doing to me, but I wasn't trying to stop her either. She touched me everywhere, and her soft hands felt good caressing my body. I got an erection and it embarrassed me. Jennifer stopped me from trying to cover myself back up. She told me it was okay and started fondling me. It felt so good being touched down there. God must've took great pride creating female hands to feel amazingly good to us men. We both got horny real fast and I told Jennifer I wanted to be inside her really bad. She said "you know I can't let you do that, I'm sorry." I said "I know, we're about to go too far with this." She said "I've got you so worked up. Let's go to your room." Jennifer led me by the hand, still naked, into my bedroom and told me to lie down face up on the bed. She took a small bottle of lotion and put a big squirt into her right palm. She took my penis and spread the lotion up and down my erect shaft and started jerking me off. I was so damn horny I doubt she made 15 strokes before I shot off. I think the lid blew off of Chernobyl with less force. It went everywhere too, but surprisingly not on Jennifer or her clothes. I made a mess of my new bed spread, and it got on the carpet too. We both just laughed and Jennifer was like "Wow!" She leaned down and kissed me. I wasn't embarrassed anymore. I was so comfortable being naked in front of Jennifer after this. She started letting me see her naked two weeks later. It's probably good we didn't have sex on this occasion. As excited as we both were, we probably wouldn't have used a condom. And I'd have lasted like two seconds inside her vagina and got her pregnant. Jennifer and I couldn't wait until marriage, and took each other's virginity when she was 19.

When I was 17, my 18 year old girlfriend Jennifer was the first girl other than nurses to see me stark naked. .

What a very nice and sweet story. Lucky you it happened this way.

One thing that I had to wonder about though, your girlfriend seemed to have a degree of experience how to handle a horny guy. Or had she simply been expressly planning to do so if an occasion presented itself? From what you write it seems she was very determined.

I was a freshman in high school and went to a football game with a girl. We left the game a little early and went to the parking lot and she jacked me off out there in her dad's van. Lol.

At a friend's house, my trousers and pants came down, her knickers dropped. All very innocent.

First time a girl saw and played with my bits was in primary school. We were probably about 5, or 6. During writing lessons around a big table, she would drop her pencil under the table then get down to retrieve it. Crawling over to me on her hands and knees, stick her hand up my short pants leg and play with my little cock. I would do the same to her. She would open her legs and I would pull her knickers to one side and play with her bald puss. We got a lot daring later and got caught. 😢

Leaving aside the time my sister played “doctor” with me as the patient (I was four or five)…

My high school girlfriend and I were curious about X-rated movies, having never seen one (no Internet, then), so we went to one and enjoyed parts of it, but left when the movie took a violent turn. We were definitely keyed up on the drive back.

She was house-sitting for vacationing friends, and invited me in. We discovered that we were both turned on, and the kind of light petting we'd been doing on our earlier dates wasn't enough. I asked her if she would like for us to get naked, and she gulped, nodded and said, "Yes."

This was a big step for us...she was very religious and had said on earlier dates that touching her breasts inside her clothes, and her hips from outside her clothes, were her limits.

A wonderful memory, first her opening my own shirt, then unbuttoning hers and opening her bra. After some cuddling, she removed them entirely. She invited me to lie down on top of her. Then, she let her hands follow mine as I unbuckled my belt, opened my jeans and slid them down, at first keeping my underwear in place… but when I lifted slightly and she touched my cock, with only a thin layer of cloth between it and her fingertips, her eyes got wide. We lay down again, and her heart was pounding against my chest. She took a deep breath, then slid her hands inside my briefs in back, and stroked my hips, first cautiously, then with some passion. Finally, she brought my hands to her waist and the top of her own jeans, to let me know it was OK.

Undoing the top button, unzipping her, and then pulling her jeans down and sliding her panties off to join them, were thrilling, to say the least. In front, my briefs were still stuck on my hard cock, so I pulled them down and let him pop out, while she watched. I lowered myself back onto her and I remember my own heart pounding when I realized that my penis was resting in her pubic hair. We just held each other and kissed, with racing pulses.

We knew we weren't ready to have intercourse, yet, but lying together like that for 15 minutes or so was Heaven. Eventually, we had to get "decent" again to go meet up with friends from her church, at a local pizza parlor...but before getting dressed, we just looked at each other in the fading summer evening light from the curtained windows, happy and vulnerable and trusting each other to keep the secret. She had lovely pink nipples, and a perfectly smooth white belly, with her hair down there making a beautiful contrast. She didn't seem shy any longer about looking at me, either...but I knew that this was a first for her, too, and her excitement was very "catching."

At dinner, we couldn't stop looking at each other and grinning. It was pure magic.

I'm going to jump in because this brought back vivid memories. The first time I touched a penis was in 8th grade making out with a guy when his parents were away. I only touched it through his jeans but it felt impressive. I rubbed it while we were french kissing and he ejaculated in his pants. Same guy, two years later in high school we went for a hike in the forest and I asked him to pull down his pants. He had an erection and it looked bigger than I had imagined. I was a little intimidated. I wasn't ready to have sex with him, but I gave him my first “blow job” and it was clumsy, and awkward, and fun. I wasn't sure exactly what to do, but he orgasmed nonetheless. I gagged, and he sprayed semen on my face and my hair. Good times.

@LordJim2 Possibly not for this topic, but what happened when you got caught ? I had a similar experience but not the first time…

@Miss_Sarah Did you keep your knickers up ?

I was in my first 3-piece rock & roll / country music band at age 13. We rehearsed at the bothers’ (guys in my band) parent’s house in the basement (of course). Their parents were also performing musicians, so were often not home during weekend evenings.

One evening our new town doctor’s daughter and classmate came over to hang out and watch us rehearse, and she was not exactly shy. She noticed that one of guys had a bulge in his pants, and made the comment, “are you the only one with a bulge, or do all of you have one?” The next thing I know- the four of us were standing in a circle- us boys with out pants down to our knees with boners bouncing. She said, “let’s play musical ding dongs!” She took turns whacking our hardons with the bottoms of here fists. One of the guys lost it after about ten whacks, and blew his load all over her blue jeans, which promptly ended the game of ‘Whack-a-Pole”. I had to run to the upstairs bathroom to finish myself off. I think my bandmate brother- the one that didn’t cum on her pants and floor, lost his in his underwear when he pulled his pants back up.

That was my first time of having my erection touched and looked at by a girl.

“Rock ‘n Roll, Baby!”

My 2 sisters and I shared a bedroom and washed together in the one bath tub every night, up to the age of 8. We were still playing doctors and nurses together for a few more years after that.

I was twelve when a group of us were out riding our bikes when it was suggested we pair off and check each other out. I ended up with this lovely girl, about a year younger then me. While I was standing, she pulled my shorts down a bit and all was on display. She touched, and then played with me for quite a while. I can not remember, but I guess I would have had an erection sometime while she was touching me.