Punishments - Discipline | The Right Implement for Disci…

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I've been into spanking since I was in my teens but never got involved until my 20's. I always had a safe word except for discipline spanking with my boyfriend. It is "Superman" three times in a row, but I never used it. I'm not sure if I'm the only one but I have such a extremely high pain tolerance that when we first started he would stop because of the condition of my backside before I ever used my safe word, even when it was suppose to be a discipline style. He would never get me to cry. He calls me "Supergirl” buns of steel."

He'd always used thick wooden implements or thick western belts. He is always afraid of going too far. He always felt bad about the bruises and welts he would leave but I expected it. He's also always gave me slower types whacks too. I finally got him to not be afraid hit hard but I'd be bruised up to bad for him and he end up stopping before it even affected me. This went on for like a year and we were both frustrated because no matter how hard he whack it barely got a response from me.

We talked and finally found something that worked during a discipline spanking. He switched me one time and that got me yelping a lot and even hop up and down. We discovered that it was what he was using and the way he was applying them. We learned that lighter and stingy implements were the trick. Also, my pain tolerance goes down with the brisk fast type swats and more lengthy. He was concerned at first because he felt he was wailing on me. It took a while for use to both get use to it. The implements now are switches (hate them), thin but durable ruler type paddles, curtain rods and thin leather office belts (hate them). Recently the flat part of the handle of a bamboo backscratcher (hate it).

For discipline spankings, he now knows exactly how make me cry. I have to have rapid fire swats from the beginning, very lengthy and no warm up.

Am I the only one who has such a high pain tolerance that needs such extreme measure for it to be effective?

KelliRoxxx

My discipline spankings have always been with the hairbrush. I think it's because my disciplinarians really like to lecture and take their time. When OTK, apparently that's one of the most effective implements for that scenario!

Andrew Finklehouse

My parents usually spanked my bare bottom with a slipper.

DST

Growing up my discipline spankings were given by my mother using her Oval Oak hair brush..She was a piano teacher so she had to be careful with her hands. They were always bare bottom as an embarrassment factor. If I was very naughty, then she would add a one quart cold water enema and then give me another spanking. I tried to stay a good boy. Sometimes I was and other times I was less than good.

sub boy

The cane, or anything very whippy which really stings, is more effective on me as punishment. Or a polycarbonate paddle can also do the trick. As much as other implements, like a thick wooden bath brush, hurt, I can deal with it and (sort of) enjoy it.

Moving to the back of my thighs would also be effective.

But I get my feet caned as punishment rather than spanking.

Katina44

Favorites of mine are a thick strap, paddles, wooden spoons

vinni

Mother primary weapon was wooden kitchen spoon but wooden ruler was second best or sole slipperat school was paddle or strap for serious offence the cane was used.

eman445

Mom always used her leather sandal on bare bottom, pants and underwear pulled down.

In high school it was a wooded paddle over pants

My aunt was wooden paddle on bare bottom pants and underwear pulled down

From a experienced disciplinarian I saw a long time ago, it was a wooden paddle, bare bottom completely naked

From my wife, it was a wooden paddle, on bare bottom , both of us naked.

So the right implement for me is definitely a wooded paddle applied to my bare bottom.

William5

Growing up it was OTK with hand and slipper on underwear then naked. At 15 it was a leather strap with a handle with my hands against the wall and bottom out naked.

NorCalMan

My wife always starts out with her hand as I am naked and over her knees. After the 'warm up', she uses a wooden paddle until my bottom is bright red. I never know how long my spankings will last as she always says ... " It will be over when I decide you have had enough!"

Rosario

I don’t think there is any right implement but I do have some favorites: Leather belt and paddle

Bad Princess

I can assure you that you are not the only one that needs a lot to feel it. I love to receive a long everywhere swat with the fly swatter and then beg for a good hard spanking with a bare hand or a wooden paddle or to be laid into with the switch.

rob53

Probably there isn't any "right" implement but I do believe the hand or hairbrush sure do work VERY well!

GraceT

This is something I've been thinking about ever since I joined Zity... lots of spanking and enema chat here, neither of which have ever been part of my real or play life.

I don't have a high pain threshold, so I'm apprehensive, but I know with the right partner, trust, honesty, communication, etc, spanking could be wonderful. Of the few videos I've watched, I will admit that the ones where the woman is caned arouse me the most, though I'm not sure I could handle it.

BottomFromTheTop

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I don't have a high pain threshold, so I'm apprehensive, but I know with the right partner, trust, honesty, communication, etc, spanking could be wonderful. Of the few videos I've watched, I will admit that the ones where the woman is caned arouse me the most, though I'm not sure I could handle it.
@GraceT
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I hope you find the right partner with whom to safely experience something "wonderful".

You have definitely identified important prerequisites for the "right" partner/disciplinarian...

1> honesty & trust

2> good communication

I would add ...

3> safety

4> loving and compassionate

Of course, a good disciplinarian needs to be strict and require your voluntary obedience, but there should always be a safe word.

A loving and compassionate disciplinarian will always have your best interests at heart. S/he will understand that it is her/his job to subject you to an embarrassing and painful experience (punishment/discipline), but s/he will do so in such a way as to satisfy your needs. S/he will want you to benefit from the experience.

Regarding caning... Of course, the cane can be a very severe implement, but it doesn't have to be too severe for you to handle it. The "right" partner will allow you to experience the enjoyable arousal/exciteent that you feel when you've watched some caning videos. S/he will be firm and strict with you, but will start off slowly and carefully, always sensing and respecting your limits.

Real Screamer

I have a play patient I’m meeting with in late December to introduce her to playdoc and a play well woman exam including a series of enemas.

She has told me that she will need a good spanking to get in the right headspace for enemas because she has never had them.

She has always been spanked by hand and I told her I would use a leather paddle, which frightened her somewhat.

I told her that we would use a safe word so she wouldn’t be spanked harder or longer than she could stand.

At least knowing I plan to turn her butt red, she won’t be overly concerned about her first enemas.

enemacane

Talking about the ideal implement for giving a proper discipline spanking- There is nothing that comes close to a cane in my opinion. This does sound similar to the apple switch that @jilly mentions. As a youth I was to become very familiar with a cane which was used on me about once a month when my Father chose a suitable day well in advance and usually when my Mother was away at her coffee morning. Depending on my sins, the number of strokes varied - normally between 2 and 4 and were initially given clothed. I was caught putting some rubber from a car tube into my underpants and then my situation changed drastically. The long and short of it was that I hence forth had to take my punishments totally nude. This added to my embarrassments enormously and , I think, was probably the cause of me becoming so sub in later life. Real pain and real embarrassment

Bad Princess

Water squirt bottle? Bad kitty! Squirt, squirt! They hate that but come into the shower if I leave the door open. Go figure.

PutMeInTheCorner

My favorite or ideal implements tend to change over time. I think they all have their place.

One that I’ve only ever heard of seldomly and that I get when I’m particularly bad is a cell phone charging cable. My girlfriend has only given it to me a few times but it’s probably one of the most painful implements I’ve ever had (which is why I’ve only gotten it a few times! It works!)

She holds the two ends together so that it makes a loop and uses it almost as a whip. She has used a braided one and a smooth one before. Both are terrifying in their own right. At this point the threat of it is enough to make me straighten up my behavior.

Jane Woo

The cane is the ultimate discipline implements for me it is so like painter painting with lines on a canvas with my bare bottoms.

The anticipation waiting to be cane both put excitement and fear in my heart. The exposure of my bottom with legs apart while standing knowing that all my private parts are fully exposed makes me feel embarrassed though my husband have seen me naked many times.

The swishing sound of the cane striking down on the bottom is even more frightening than the impact of the cane. As the cane starts painting the bottom with lines (=|=) I am in agony as each strike to the bottom heighten the pain on my already sore bottom.

As I often look at the mirror after a caning it reminds me the work of art the my husband have painted on my bottom. You can say that my husband is a Master of Arts in painting my bottom.