The Right Implement for Discipline Spanking

I've been into spanking since I was in my teens but never got involved until my 20's. I always had a safe word except for discipline spanking with my boyfriend. It is "Superman" three times in a row, but I never used it. I'm not sure if I'm the only one but I have such a extremely high pain tolerance that when we first started he would stop because of the condition of my backside before I ever used my safe word, even when it was suppose to be a discipline style. He would never get me to cry. He calls me "Supergirl” buns of steel."

He'd always used thick wooden implements or thick western belts. He is always afraid of going too far. He always felt bad about the bruises and welts he would leave but I expected it. He's also always gave me slower types whacks too. I finally got him to not be afraid hit hard but I'd be bruised up to bad for him and he end up stopping before it even affected me. This went on for like a year and we were both frustrated because no matter how hard he whack it barely got a response from me.

We talked and finally found something that worked during a discipline spanking. He switched me one time and that got me yelping a lot and even hop up and down. We discovered that it was what he was using and the way he was applying them. We learned that lighter and stingy implements were the trick. Also, my pain tolerance goes down with the brisk fast type swats and more lengthy. He was concerned at first because he felt he was wailing on me. It took a while for use to both get use to it. The implements now are switches (hate them), thin but durable ruler type paddles, curtain rods and thin leather office belts (hate them). Recently the flat part of the handle of a bamboo backscratcher (hate it).

For discipline spankings, he now knows exactly how make me cry. I have to have rapid fire swats from the beginning, very lengthy and no warm up.

Am I the only one who has such a high pain tolerance that needs such extreme measure for it to be effective?

I've also had to ask for harder spankings when the guy doing the spanking was worried about hurting me. My pain tolerance goes up++ when I'm feeling excited during a spanking. I also find the thin implements are the most painful ones.

@jilly

I've also had to ask for harder spankings when the guy doing the spanking was worried about hurting me...

There are 3 implements that I think are excellent for adminstering real corporal punishment.

1> The "hickory swich", which often is not cut from a hickory tree, but is frequently referred to as a "hickory switch" nonetheless. Actually, a switch cut from an apple tree makes an excellent "hickory switch". About 3-4 feet long, as thick as almost a half-inch in diameter at the end to be wielded by the disciplinarian, and about a quarter inch thick at the end that's gonna apply some stripes, and maybe some welts, across a delinquent's bare bottom!

2> An old fashioned 18 inch carpenter's ruler/straight-edge. These rulers are hard to come by nowadays. They are NOT like the thin 12" rulers used by school children. They are fashioned from hardwood (i.e. oak), are 2 inches wide, and they are a quarter inch thick end-to-end (18") and widthwise (2"). Nowadays, you'd be lucky to find an original (from about 100 years ago), but can easily fashion your own from a piece of lumber purchased at a hardware store. This is a type of "paddle" that will have a lasting impact on a naughty yougster's bare bottom!

3> Of course, the leather strap. But not just any leather strap, like a thin width and thin thickness belt. The best leather "strap" for corporal punishment is a barber's razor strop (yes, it's spelled _strop_, not _strap_). Razor strops hung from almost every barber chair in traditional barber shops. And many men owned one at home. They were originally intended for sharpening straight razors, but soon became an implement of choice for correcting misbehavior. The doubled up, 3 foot long, 4 inch wide strop had a handle at one ened that made whuppin' bare bottoms a VERY effective punishment, even for older boys and girls.

Early in our marriage i was not a good husband (I was never unfaithful) I was always out with the guys and did alot of drinking carousing etc---Fianlly my long suffering wife had enough ---When I got home vshe told me just was going to whip my naked butt--Surprisingly--I just accepted it as if it was a normal thing to ask---My acceptance even surprised me! I just went out to the shed and picked up a skinny stick came in and bared my butt and bent over and held my shins and she paddled me damn hard and i TOTALLY HAD IT COMING My behavior improved and so did our marriage-----It has been a long and very happy marriage but once in a while that same skiiny stick has to be applied to my bare butt and it still hurt big time No argument from me when it has to happen Am I the only guy?

I prefer the intimacy of the hand on my bottom

Yes there’s nothing like palm on cheek. Lovely. Feel the bottom quiver under hand , run a finger down crack, give subject a tickle then another spank so he never knows what’s coming next. Hands tend not to bruise either .

I like being a top or bottom and in all cases for best implements for discipline spanking are: 1. Razor strop; 2. wooden or leather paddle; 3. the hand. All are really hot for me!

Any of the above implements used on seat of the pants makes for a longer, hotter scene, even if applied fairly heavily. As a top (“strict dad”) I’m more than willing to work with a bottom (“bad boy”), and actually “push” a bottom beyond what they think they can take. I like a top who does the same for me…I expect and want to be pushed.

The respect of limits as a top or bottom becomes more critical as clothing is stripped down to bare butt which probably would make for shorter but more authentic discipline. Both are tantalizing.

The longer the connection with a spanking partner, the better the trust level becomes and I like to think the more authentic the discipline spanking becomes. I have a hope that the trust can develop to a point where I could surrender totally to “dad’s” judgement as to how hard and how long my discipline episodes are, as much as a “son’s” trust could allow the same to “dad”.

I guess what I'm suggesting is that regardless of the implement, a pretty broad range of experience can be had from it, from light application...and fun, to serious application...and still fun.

Always looking for either experience!

Lets stay natural..... Hands of course..

The hand is very intimate and being on the giving or receiving end, positioned over the knee is a favorite. For greater intensity or the need for a more serious discipline session, the wooden spoon, paddle or hair brush delivers a nice chat to the upturned butt. Must be bare of course.

I self - spank most of the time and what ive learnt is that its important to find the best implement that works the best on you. For me its the paddle with holes. It stings like hell and the pain lasts there for days even if i am doing it to myself. Today i had to do 300 with the paddle on each side and lets just say i will be feeling sore for the next few days hopefully that will keep me in line and not get me in more trouble.

In regards to spanking with an implement, for centuries the open hand has been the most readily available. However, when an implement is included the recipient of the spanking knows without any doubt what is coming! Now it has been said and I agree that spanking with an open hand is more "personal" but when an implement is utilized an "intensity" is added along with a tendency to take the situation a bit more serious. As an example, when my Mother escorted me into her sewing room, closed the door took down my pants and placed me across her lap I knew I was in for "IT!" If I also heard her open that certain dresser drawer where she kept an old folded in two leather belt, YIKES!!!!!!! So my point is using an implement to spank a bared butt should not just be for more serious spankings but should also be agreed upon by the consenting adults. In the mean time I suggest to those that have consented to using an implement, best you behave!!!!

I think the use of an implement means business. The spanker doesn't want to hurt his hand. He doesn't want to strike your hand either, if you try to cover and protect yourself. The ruler or strap is meant for the bottom.

Spanking, for me being so very intimate, is best done with the doctor's own hand - he feels it and I feel it then - ideal and not too intense.

Spanking is different for all. For some it is nothing more than a few with the hand, for others it might be a warm up then the strap or a cane. Depends on the person but never exceed limits and work it out beforehand. Stay safe people

I have a low pain tolerance and any stingy implements work well. We have purchased a lexan paddle holes that has me begging for mercy and apologizing right from the get go. Does anyone have a suggestion on increasing my pain tolerance.

Get spanked more ... a warm-up helps before the heavy paddling . Take Advil before the sssion

My preference is for a belt. It reminds of my childhood spankings. Occasionally I asked to be caned or paddled.

Take Advil before the sssion

Are you sure about that? I thought Advil (Ibuprofen) and other NSAIDs can increase the risk of bruising.

Take Advil before the sssion

Isn't the idea of getting spanked to feel the pain/exposure/submission of it? Why take something that might (and I don't know if it really would) reduce the pain? So you can take more than your body can tolerate?

Sort of like using Anal-Eze to help with anal insertions - it could also allow you hurt yourself.

Play within your limits!

Some people like bruises.

True enough. Some like it hot and some not. I paddled my first enema girl in D.C because she got paddled when she wouldn't take her enema from mom like a good girl. We recreated this but her rule#1 was no bruises. I was very easy on her bottom but did get it to a nice shade of red.

I have found that the key for many subs to take a longer, more intense punishment spanking is to start slow and easy, then progress with harder spanks over time (like 10-15 minutes, with some intermissions). Then switch to a stronger paddle and continue for another 10 minutes. Then to a strap/belt, switch for the hardest spanking for 10 minutes …..by the time of this last segment of spanking, his/her bottom will be bright red and actually this will either increase the pain for them or in some cases it deflects the pain for them (I don't know why). Regardless, if they prefer to feel the pain, it will work for them. If they feel less pain, then you can hit harder with the switch/belt/strap so that they will feel it. Yes, either way they will have some observable punishment marks and it will be very sore for a day or two. But that's 'the point, right?

Old fashioned and like a nice hand warm up to start things off then maybe a hair brush and finishing up with the leather belt

You mentioned crying I have never really cried from a spanking a few tears maybe but I have when I was lectured scolded pretty much into the right head space of a punishment. Then I have cried during the spanking that followed. As far as implement the right for me is not just one but several. Starting and finishing with the hand using brush and belt or heavy strap in between. And if youve never had a wet bottom spanking wellllll a wet bottom sure changes a spanking.

Some people have a high tolerance for pain and others not. You know what you want and accept that. Some implements hurt more than others. I think it is up to the spanker to decide what he uses when spanking his spankee. There is of course the safe word that can be used.

Interesting to say the least. I will respond when time permits!! I post just so I can find the discussion again.

Denise

I had not called a friend of mine in a few months, he called yesterday to ask why I had not been in touch. He wants to know if I had plans, if I expected company or if any one was visiting. I answered no to all the above. He said he would be over to my house in 30 Min.

He cane over and gave me a royal ass chewing for not staying in touch.

My house is in a relatively private location with many bushes surrounding the place. I knew I was in for a hot seat treatment but this one was different. He ask for a yard stick, I thought this won't be too bad, but he had no intention of using a yard stick on me. He had me remove my clothes.

He told me to get the clippers and cut about 35-40 straight thin flexible branchs none shorter than 30 inches.It tool about 20-30 min. to accomplish this task. We then put them on a table and picked out the best ones after I cleaned the leaves, stems and bumps off them. I then had to take nine or ten of them and tie them into three bundles with rawhide string trimming them to 30 inches in length. I then made handles with duct tape. He then put them in pool water up to the handles, he said to sterilize them with the chorine water. It also made them more heavy and flexible.

I then had to go over to the hot tub wall which comes up to just below my knees. I had to place my hand flat on the top of the wall and await the birching, which he applied with a will. I had been birched before but never like this, I lost count of the stroke at thirty and there were several more to go before the first rod was frayed, Thankfully the next two had time to dry and were not as heavy and did not last as long each stroke took my breath away, those thing are heavier than they look and the impact is like a mixture of multiple canes and an impact instrument such as a paddle. By the second rod I was getting vocal, I did not care if anyone heard me. It was a struggle to maintain the bent over position with my hands flat on the bricks. He told me he would make another rod out out of the left over twigs and wear a fourth rod out on me if I did not remain in position. Thankful, somehow I remade bent over hand on the low wall through the whole ordeal.

I have no idea how many strokes I received but the first rod must of lasted at least 50 strokes with the other slightly less.

He made me clean up the mess. I had to blow off the pool deck and dip all this little pieces of twigs out of the pool. That in itself was torture as he was using little "dog" whip on my thighs to keep me moving.

He took me in the house and showed me the damage in the mirror. I expected to see a massive number of welts but for the most part my butt and upper thighs was just solids red with a few welts at the edges of the redness and a some strips from the "encourager" he used on my thighs to keep me interested in my clean up work.

He is very good with the rod and somehow did not break the skin. Surprising to me there was a lot of bruising present after the redness faded.

He placed me in the shower to get the debris off and to make sure that there are no splinters sticking in me, there were none. I receive some very tender after care in the shower which lead to this thrashing becoming a very pleasant event.

My hindquarters looksas if it took a paddling or a strapping with a few thin lines at the edges and strips on my thighs from the little whip when I looked this mornig. It still quiet sore and has me standing while I type this.

Rob

If noise is not an issue:

Most times my wife uses a flat-backed wooden hairbrush.

In the beginning I was afraid of bruising her with a hairbrush but now I mostly use that too.

If noise is an issue, the martinet flogger is more discreet.

My preference is for a belt. It reminds of my childhood spankings.

I agree with this statement. My mother used a specially crafted belt for me as a child. It was my dad's old double-stitched belt. It was quite stiff and when my mother used it, she always got where she wanted. It was a painful tool, but it didn't cause me too much pain. I believe that leather spanking implements are both effective and safe.

I can handle a whipping or caning very well, and love it as long as I'm standing or laying flat. Bruises staye there for days to remember me. But it is another story when being caned or whipped while bending over. Ohh that hurts like hell. In that case I prefer a flogger.