How can I give off an inconspicuous bi vibe or make it known that I am down to play?

Super Bi guy here. Hoping for a little advice from some guys. I work in a service based business that takes me to peoples homes. Being Bi and super horny I am always hoping to have some fun with another guy when I am working at their place.

Problem is I look very straight and act it even when not trying. People often ask me if I am former military or law enforcement. So I know I am not giving off that up for anything vibe, especially the how about us guys get naked and play vibe.

I have worked for a number of gay men and couples but have never propositioned anyone because I wouldn't want to offend anyone.

Question is How can I give off that vibe or make it known that I am down to play in an inconspicous way.

Whether its straight curious, Bi, or Gay its all good.

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If you're on the job

DON'T DO IT

In your heart, you must know why.

I agree. A good way to lose your job.

As a bi woman, mostly we let our gaydar do the job. To those a little slow on the uptake, my Pride keyring thats on every purse of mine says it pretty well.

Edit- Maybe try to figure out why you are not tripping guy's Gaydar. Ask some gays you know.

Well I too advise against it, but you might say "Anything else I can help you with Sir?" while looking at his crotch. I sure never had anything happen but would be open to it... that said the Ladys are correct not worth you loosing your job.....

If your job involves you going into people's homes then there are certain expectations that go with that. Someone's HOME is NOT an acceptable place to quite possibly make them uncomfortable by hitting on them, or staring at their crotch.

You have job to do, do it. Then leave.

Go to a bar, and cut down on the porn (which is where this awful idea clearly came from).

I totally agree with JR3

Totally agree with most of you. I would never ever proposition anyone, especially from a professional standpoint.

I was propostioned by a customer years ago, but didn't act on it because I was on the fence about playing with guys.

Having played with a few now over the years, I am game.

Yes. All good advice; however, the flip side of this scenario is a familiar fantasy for me. Rarely is there a time when a professional visit to my home is made by a man that I don't wish he would send the signal he was open to pure, raw, anonymous sex. For the record, the genesis of this fantasy has nothing to do with porn as it began when I was seven years old and never even heard the word much less seen any porn. At that age I would see a man on the street or in our home and suddenly fantasize of him taking me away. I didn't know what I wanted him to do at that age, but I do now. Would I actually expect this to occur today? No, not really. Is it even practical or wise? Probably not. Still, It makes me hard just thinking about it.

Wow Guy!

You SOUND HOT!

I would LOVE to hear from you, learn your wishes and talk to you more.... NICE POST!!!!

Will share with you any and all experiences you are willing to share. Trying to build my communication options here.

You have a nice positive and motivating post.

Hope to hear back from you and others. I am new to this site, and learning what and how to post info.

Thanks,

NCwarmH20LOVER

It might be helpful to drop some hints you want to meet them at a bar or something later. I’m not sure I’d do anything on the job though.

Reading this post makes me miss cruising. i remember some very subtle cues that would result in fucking lol. There was this park in VA with a wide and long pedestrian bridge over a river, was a popular cruising place. i used to go at dusk and dark and stand halfway down the bridge and lean on the rail as though looking out at the river. If i saw a lone guy stepping on the bridge, sending cues, maybe looking, i'd hike my shorts down just a little bit, enough to show some ass crack, butt not super obvious (i.e., the passer by would have to really be looking to notice). i can't count the number of times a guy would stop (and i guess look more intently), i was always looking away from Him, my back to Him. If i felt interest from Him, sometimes i'd lower my shorts just a tiny bit more, to encourage Him that He was seeing what He thought He was seeing. Very often the guy would come up behind me, pull my shorts down the rest way and breed me right there. It was dusk or getting dark and you couldn't really tell what way going on on the middle of the bridge from either end, but you could see if someone was coming and make everything 'normal.'

i've had service guys come to my house on several occasions, but never made any overt overtures, but have sent out subtle cues and have enough experience to know that if the guy is interested, He'll notice because He is "interested" too. Something like leaving a gay dvd in plain view, or i've left my douche in plain view on a counter, stuff like that. Mostly i just signal who i am, but i don't come on to a guy, just sort of try to send signals and if He responds, i ramp them up to encourage Him that He is reading me right. It's really HOT when sex develops from unspoken cues.

To see if they are interested, you could ask a double entrendre question. It could be based on your job (not sure what it is = you weren't specific). But if i were a plumber, i'd say something like "do you need me to clean your pipe?", etc. that might break the ice and see if he is interested.

If you were camping in the woods, and you woke up with your pants around your ankles, would you tell anyone?

If they say yes, you ask them: "Want to go camping"?

If they say no, you ask them: "Want to go camping"?

What happened to the handkerchief around the neck with the knot towards the left side if available, and the right side if taken?

What happened to the handkerchief around the neck with the knot towards the left side if available, and the right side if taken?

I have no idea at all what this is supposed to refer to. Who ever puts handkerchiefs around their neck? They aren't even large enough to tie around one's wrist, let alone a neck.

Any additional explanation would be enlightening.

I wish I'd get at least one decent looking service guy to visit so i could even try. 100% of all my visitors are gross dudes. Any specific service industry have more attractive guys? 😃 Maybe i could "accidentally" break something.....

I think you have to make the first move. First, no one wants to risk getting their service provider in trouble, second, no one wants to get rejected, and third not all gay men will have sex with anyone that comes to the door. Given the right vibe, you might be pleasantly surprised of the excitement you can generate. I think it is most everyone's fantasy.

It's never a good idea to mix the workplace with your sex life as others have stated.

If you are bi and want to experience sex with others, checkout the bi dating sites online or go to a gay bar and meet others. You do have to put some effort into it. The odds are pretty low if you are hoping/waiting for something to happen randomly. If what you are doing now hasn't worked, then you need to try doing something different.