Ladies - Which do you prefer Fellatio or Irrumatio

Being the active partner keep us girls in control and we perform Fellatio. Now and again our men like to be in charge and thrust into our mouths as we lay with our heads over the side of the bed trying so desperately to catch the next breath the penis fills our throats. So ladies FELLATIO or IRRUMATIO?

Damn, never even HEARD of that term before! Never too old to learn something... Thx @Mrs_P !

Oh, and if you want a mans opinion, I've never done IRRUMATIO, but wouldn't mind trying it if my partner was interested. I have a LOT of kinks, but seeing my partner gag and possible puke is NOT one of them. Receiving fellatio is nice, but not really one of my favorite activities.

I'm really going to enjoy reading all the ladies' responses on this thread.

I've never done it either - 'irrumatio' - a.k.a. 'throat fucking.' Looks great in porn, but unless the gal in question is a bonafide sub, and really into getting it 'forced' down her gullet (and I have met one like this; a nurse oddly enough), just seems kind of inconsiderate and boorish.

Besides, I'd much rather flood her vagina or shapely bottom with my seed, not her mouth/throat.

I actually had to look this one up ....

Irrumatio

Irrumation is the act of thrusting of the penis between the legs, breasts, feet, upper thighs, mouth and throat, or between the abdomens of two partners. In the ancient Roman sexual vocabulary, irrumatio is strictly a form of os impurum, oral sex, in which a man forces his penis into someone else's mouth, almost always that of another man. "Latin erotic terminology actually distinguishes two acts. First, fellation, in which the man’s penis is orally excited by the [fellator]. Second, irrumation, in which the man...engages in motions by moving his hips and body in a rhythm of his own choice". A Latin synonym for "irrumator" is labda.

Now, back to the OP , me giving oral sex to the person I am with is not something I engage in with just anyone. Its very intimate for me and swallowing is as intimate as it gets in my opinion. I have only swallowed one man and it’s because I want to not because he is forcing himself down my throat .

Even in a bdsm scene that would be a total no go for me and completely turn me off. You can go at, and quite eagerly too but be forcably made to deep throat ? Big NO , not my thing .

Now I always thought all men went to the moon and back when recieving oral ....for those that are not that into it why is that ? What about it doenst get your motor going ? Or do you just prefer to be elsewhere ?

I looked it up also. Bridgette is correct.

Irrumatio is NOT specifically "throat fucking"

It could be tit fucking, even armpit fucking (you can google that) or rubbing a penis between various other parts of the body.

I did not know the word irrumatio but the throat fucking is just not a thing for me at all and it is just not how my husband would want to treat me anyway. 🌹 I love giving him oral sex though so fellatio it is. I am the one in control of that and I soon learned to do it well. Often he is in control of other things we do in the bedroom but when I am sucking him I am in charge. 😜 😃

@Amethyst -

... but when I am sucking him I am in charge.

Teeth - 😉 and also balls are very tender. 😁 So yes - you definitely are in control. 😁

@Amethyst said

Often he is in control of other things we do in the bedroom but when I am sucking him I am in charge. 😜 😃

Yes, you are, aren't you? 🌹

I prefer to be fucked hard in my vagina or my ass. I'll suck the full length of your dick as far into my throat as it will go, but don't thrust it too hard.

I would be afraid hard throat fucking would do something nasty like snap off my styloid processes especially if the thrust was slightly off center.

I prefer straight fellatio because I stay in control. My like to face fuck me, Irrumatio I think, now and again. I trust him not to hurt me and I have learned to take it all in. I get very excited when he forces it on me and I have grown to like it. I would not like to do it every day though. My preference is straight vaginal penetration.

Dita

I watch fellatio porn too but messy throat fucking and or watching a woman gasping for air does nothing for me. Now watching a women who has tamed her gag reflexes and can comfortably take a cock down her throat, that is something I enjoy watching. Truthfully though I am mostly amused by watching the twisters vs the shakers.

I prefer to be fucked hard in my vagina or my ass. I'll suck the full length of your dick as far into my throat as it will go, but don't thrust it too hard.

I would be afraid hard throat fucking would do something nasty like snap off my styloid processes especially if the thrust was slightly off center.

Your styloid process?? Now @SwitchableSusie, that's a bit much. Although there are a number of these scattered throughout the body, I assume you are talking about the one attached to the temporal bone. THAT is quite a thrust!!!.......lol

@SwitchableSusie, how about the hyoid bone, which is part of the throat?

I see irrumatio in porn and I think is is pretty interesting, especially when you can really see how far the penis will go down her throat, but have never done that. I have a pretty bad gag reflex, but there is something I do like about him trying to deepthrouat me when I give him a blowjob. I also think that he finds it amusing when I gag on his dick. That seems hot to me for some reason.

Recently discovered this fetish. I would like to hear from anyone who enjoys IRUMATIO, either actively or passively. What do you like about it?

Depends on my mood. I love fellatio and am quite good at it but I do like to have my mouth fucked if the mood is right. I don’t mind him pushing deeper on occasion, taking control but some of the brutal stuff you see in porn I’ve no desire for.

Haven't done either (mobility impairment from birth). But all of my fantasies involve either one or the other of these concepts. But usually I am holding or moving her head as she takes me in. I'm one who likes the mess the gagging and more. And in my fantasies, she loves it, too, and usually initiates.

*checks out the realty at Fantasy Island*

@SwitchableSusie said

I prefer to be fucked hard in my vagina or my ass. I'll suck the full length of your dick as far into my throat as it will go, but don't thrust it too hard.

I would be afraid hard throat fucking would do something nasty like snap off my styloid processes especially if the thrust was slightly off center.

@Wolf2007 said

Your styloid process?? Now @SwitchableSusie, that's a bit much. Although there are a number of these scattered throughout the body, I assume you are talking about the one attached to the temporal bone. THAT is quite a thrust!!!.......lol

The styloid process is actually easy to break. In many people, especially small women it is no bigger than a tooth pick.

See this:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Temporal_styloid_process#:~:text=The%20styloid%20process%20is%20a,with%20the%20tongue%20and%20larynx.