I actually had to look this one up ....
Irrumatio
Irrumation is the act of thrusting of the penis between the legs, breasts, feet, upper thighs, mouth and throat, or between the abdomens of two partners. In the ancient Roman sexual vocabulary, irrumatio is strictly a form of os impurum, oral sex, in which a man forces his penis into someone else's mouth, almost always that of another man. "Latin erotic terminology actually distinguishes two acts. First, fellation, in which the manβs penis is orally excited by the [fellator]. Second, irrumation, in which the man...engages in motions by moving his hips and body in a rhythm of his own choice". A Latin synonym for "irrumator" is labda.
Now, back to the OP , me giving oral sex to the person I am with is not something I engage in with just anyone. Its very intimate for me and swallowing is as intimate as it gets in my opinion. I have only swallowed one man and itβs because I want to not because he is forcing himself down my throat .
Even in a bdsm scene that would be a total no go for me and completely turn me off. You can go at, and quite eagerly too but be forcably made to deep throat ? Big NO , not my thing .
Now I always thought all men went to the moon and back when recieving oral ....for those that are not that into it why is that ? What about it doenst get your motor going ? Or do you just prefer to be elsewhere ?