Author: AquaGent

The idea is to fill out your own chart and then compare it with anyone you might be considering meeting for enema play to see what level of compatibility you share.

Under desireability you can select from NO up to 5.

Under experience express your own level of familiarity with that activity.

Then finally you can say yes or no to indicate whether you would do or like an activity given to you, or would prefer to give that activity, or you want it both ways.

Have fun with it, and see if you can find your ideal enemate.

My Desireability Preferences

My Experience level

NA = Not Applicable for me

A = Never tried this

NO = Never, Absolutely Not, Hard Limit

B = Tried it once

1 = Only to please my partner

C = Tried it more than once

2 = It's fun now and then

D = Tried it often

3 = Okay , but not wildly arousing

Will I Give or Get This?

4 = This is very arousing this

Y = Yes I will or want to give/get

5 = A bsolutely, can't get enough

N = No I won't or don't want to give/get this

(All topics are listed alphabetically)

ACTIVITY

Desireability

Experience

Getting

Giving

Adult Baby - Mommy/Daddy

Age Roleplay

Anal beads

Anal plug (small)

Anal plug (medium)

Anal plug (large)

Anal sex

Anal spanking

Anal torture

Anal training/stretching

Bathroom use control

Blindfolds

Bondage (moderate to heavy )

Bondage ( light )

Bondage ( multi-day )

Bondage ( public, under clothe s )

Breast spanking/flogging

Breast bondage

Brown showers ( scat )

Caning

Chastity belts

Chores

Cock & Ball Torture

Clitoris clamping

Clitoris spanking

Colonic Irrigation (sexual)

Colonic Irrigation (therapuetic)

Collars ( worn privately )

Collars ( worn publicly )

Corsets (wearing)

Cuffs ( leather )

Cuffs ( metal )

Diaper play

Dildos

Dildo nozzle

Double penetration (vagina, anus)

Douching - vaginal

Electricity play

Enemas (bulb)

Enemas (cold)

Enemas (crampy, mild to moderate)

Enemas (crampy, very)

Enemas (erotic)

Enemas (golden - urine)

Enemas (healthful)

Enemas (high volume)

Enemas (hot)

Enemas (mutual/together)

Enemas (oil)

Enemas (punishment)

Enemas (saline solution)

Enemas (shower)

Enemas (soapsuds)

Enemas (temperature alternation)

Exhibitionism

Fantasy rape

Figging (ginger root in anus)

Fisting ( anal )

Fisting (vaginal)

Flogging

Food items used as sex toys

Foot worship

Forced Feminization

Forced Homosexuality

Forced Masturbation

Forced Nudity (private)

Forced Servitude

Full head hoods

Gags Golden showers

Golden enemas

Hand jobs

Having clothing chosen for you

Having food used for sex

Head / eating out ( oral sex )

High heels

Homage ( w/ tongue )

Hot waxing ( dripping )

Humiliation ( public )

Humiliation ( private )

Ice cubes

Injections

Interrogations

Japanese rope bondage

Kneeling

Latex garments

Latex gloves

Latex sheets/bedding

Large enema nozzles

Leather/PVC clothing

Lectures

Licking

Lingerie (wearing)

Massages

Medical Roleplay - Doctor/Nurse

Medical Roleplay - patient

Modeling for erotic photos

Mummification

Needles - injections

Needles - for pain

Nipple clamps / clothespins

Nipple torture

Nipple piercing

Nipple weights

Orgasm control

Orgasm denial

Outdoor scenes

Pain ( mild )

Pain ( moderate or more)

Penis spanking

Piercing (genitals)

Piercing (nipples)

Prison scenes

Public exposure

Punishment scene

Pussy spanking

Rectal douching - continuous flow in and out

Rectal examinations

Rectal thermometer

Restrictive garments (girdles/corsets)

Retention enema nozzles

Riding crops

Rimming (analingus)

Saran wrapping

Sensory deprivation

Sexual deprivation

Shaving ( body hair )

Shaving ( head )

Skinny dipping

Spandex clothing

Spanking (ass cheeks)

Speculums (anal)

Speculums (vaginal)

Speech restrictions

Spitting

Spreader bars

Stocks

Straight jackets

Strap on Dildos ( penetrated by )

Strap on dildos ( sucking on )

Strap on dildos ( wearing )

Suppositories (glycerin)

Suppositories (soapstick)

Swallowing feces

Swallowing urine

Swapping ( one other couple )

Swinging ( multiple couples )

Tattooing

Teasing

Threesome (2 Men 1 Woman)

Threesome (2 Women 1 Man)

Threesome (3 Men)

Threesome (3 Women)

Triple penetration (vagina, anus, mouth)

Uniforms

Urethral catheter

Urethral sounds

Verbal humiliation

Vibrators

Videos (watching)

Videos (making)

Voyeurism ( watching others )

Watching partner with a member of their own sex

Waxing ( hair removal )

Whipping single tail

Wooden paddles or spoons