I am male, heterosexual and am into strong-willed women (but love when they are submissive in the bedroom). I like to pretend that I am the "authority" figure in the bedroom or the conductor if you will. "Never" do I really try to control anything in our relationship, nor would I wish any "real" harm on this girl I love. I love a strong and healthy minded female. That's what makes it so enticing to me; to be able to get her to submit to acts of love and fetish (sex-play, nothing is forced.).

My girl friend enjoys anal sex (not as much as me, but she does enjoy it). She is not a lover of enemas (or at least won't admit to it), but agrees to take enemas for the sake of "clean" anal sex. The part she doesn't like is that enemas and anal sex provoke a bowel moment afterwards. However I have seen her on more than a few occasions be rather sexually stimulated while receiving an enema from me.

In order to achieve this, I have stimulated her in numerous ways while she gets her enemas. Never have I ever went to sleep after administering an enema without totally trying to fulfill her desires at some point within that evening (meaning before giving the enema or afterwards). I have been seeing this girl for years, I must be doing something right or she would have left me. Like I said, she is rather independent.

On to my last "enema" experience

This experience was less than 2 weeks ago (now actually 4 weeks ago, posted this letter once before at e-groups). I still can't get enough of my girl, even after all the years that have gone by. We had been having sex for hours. We had been anointing each other with strong passionate kissing and petting of sorts. We had orally pleased each other and screwed on and off; hour after hour that evening.

She was getting tired... I said to her, "Don't think that I have forgotten...!"

She replied, "Can't this wait till tomorrow?"

I said to her, "Come-on, you know it's time!" If we wait till tomorrow, you'll want to sleep for a few hours. And that's time I prefer not to waste. If we do it tonight, you'll be well rested and we will have time for other things or maybe even more sex. Right?

"Yeah! Yeah! All right...", she said, with a few groans unpleasantly.

I gently pulled the covers on the bed over her beautiful curves to keep her warm. I kissed her on her cheek (the face!) and said, "I'll be right back with your enema, Honey..."

I went into the joining bathroom to prepare an enema for her. I turned the "tub" faucet on. I took out our 2 quart closed- top enema bag from under the sink, along with some baking soda and some liquid Ivory's soap. I was already getting pretty excited. The water from the tub was about ready (very warm, not enough to hurt...just really warm). I put 2 tablespoons of baking soda in the bag before holding it under the tub faucet.

After the bag was just about filled to the brim with very warm water, I added 2 tablespoons of nice Ivory's liquid soap to the bag. I screwed the cap onto the bag and attached the hose, the nozzle and locked the clamp in place. I shook the bag vigorously (making sure she heard what was going on in the bathroom) allowing for suds to build up inside it. I aimed the nozzle back into the tub and released the clamp for a few brief seconds (this was to ensure that air in the bag was gone), then clamping the hose shut again (this procedure makes it easier to retain an enema for a longer period of time). At this stage, I was ready to give the enema. Mm!Mm!Mm!Mm!Mmmh! I turned off the spigot for the tub and then carried the enema bag into the bedroom.

There's a nail in the wall, over the headboard; on my side of the bed which I hung the bag. I then draped the hose over the bag until further use. She shyly pretended to be asleep. I tapped her on the shoulder and said, "OK,I am ready for your enema..." I gently pulled back the bed covers. I instructed her to come around to my side of the bed. She grumbled a little and did as I asked. I said to her, "Now, I want you to lay across my lap."

As she started to crawl back onto the bed bending over my lap she said," I really don't care for these things".

I didn't say a word, but I gave her a determined look that suggested she was "nevertheless" going to get a warm soapy enema before bed. She settled into my lap as I leaned over to the nightstand to pick up a jar of Vaseline. I liberally coated my middle finger with the Vaseline and applied it to her posterior. I made circular motions around her anus with my vas coated finger, before inserting it. I gradually worked the Vaseline into her anus (this I know she liked, judging by her soft sweet moans).Yes my cock was getting hard from all of this. I then stopped the motion while keeping my finger fully lodged deep inside her bottom. We stayed this way for about 3 full minutes without saying a word. Then I slowly removed my finger from her. I held her waist while reaching back for the hose on the wall with my other arm. I then lubricated the nozzle using both hands while still keeping an arm across her back. I kissed her on her behind and pulled one of her ass cheeks aside to allow for an easier nozzle insertion. Slowly I twisted the nozzle circularly, back and forth as I gradually got it inside her bottom. By this point my cock was standing on end! "Oh dear God, thank you!" I said to myself.

The nozzle was in place. I leaned over her and kissed her on the back of her neck and asked, "Are you ready for the enema?"

She slowly said, "Yes..."

Hearing that, I released the clamp and let the water begin to flow into her. Her body tensed almost immediately.

A couple of seconds later, she said, "It's really warm!"

I told her, "I know Honey...An enema is supposed to be pretty warm. Just try to relax..." I waited for about 1/4 of the bag to drain into her before clamping the hose and stopping the water. After I stopped the water; I gently pulled out the nozzle from her behind. I told her that I stopped the water so she could go to the bathroom to expel; and to assure that she took the rest of the bag without having to get up multiple times to expel. She gladly rushed off to the bathroom for release.

After about 8 minutes, she came back from the bathroom and went back over my lap to receive the rest of her enema. She didn't say a word, as greased her and the nozzle once again. I replaced the nozzle and resumed the flow of water. Only this time, I slowed the water flow down a bit (making it easier for her to hold her enema).

Shortly into it, I realized that her pussy was moist and dripping. No, she was not leaking from trying to hold back the water! She was wet from what I was doing with her. So in a bold voice, I said, "What do we have here?" I reached under her to fondle one of her breasts and I heard a distinct moan of pleasure.

That was my cue! I started playing with her clit using my other hand. Gradually, I managed to get all four fingers inside her pussy. That wonderful smell! She was soaked! I started to pump her with my hand. Sweet moans were coming from her lips at every thrust I gave her.

The bag was almost drained, I didn't want this pleasure to be interrupted by her having to go to the bathroom. I stopped the flow of water. She had taken almost 3/4 of the bag.

I removed the nozzle from her. I asked her to lift herself up onto her hands and knees. As she did, I gently slid myself out from under her(stuntman tactics). I told her to hold the water as I pumped her pussy with one hand while trying to get myself up and off the bed(fairly successful).

Next, I reached for the jar of vas with my free hand and proceeded to grease my cock. Then removing my other hand from her pussy, I started to push my cock deep inside her. She let out a moan of approval and I started to pump my cock inside that sweet love tunnel. This was bliss! She practically forgot about her enema, through all the enjoyment.

I was feeling the fruits of my labor, literally! Her warmth from the enema surrounded my cock. I continued to pump her for about ten minutes before sending her off to the bathroom.

I jerked it while she was in the bathroom expelling. After 20 minutes, she came out of the bathroom and I went and refilled the bag with cool water and some baking soda. No soap this time. I gave only what took about 2 minutes to drain into her and sent her off to the bathroom again.

This short enema was just to help remove any unwanted previous water and to clear any "soap" residue from her bottom; so it wouldn't be sore the next day.

She came out after about 10 minutes this time. She climbed into bed, put her arms around me and we kissed each other goodnight. Rapidly, we fell asleep like a couple of rocks.

The next day we had sex and later that evening...Yes, long slow anal sex.