I am 56 years old and have been interested in gyno exams since the GP that delivered our baby gave the baby and my wife post birth 6 week check-ups. As back ground, this was back in 1963, and my wife and I were young 18 year olds and very naive about the whole process of having a baby, except of course how to make one, at which we all too readily succeeded. Back then there were no gynecologists in the area where we lived, and babies were delivered by family doctors.

When my wife's belly started to show that she was pregnant, she went to see her family doctor. He didn't conduct a gynecological exam but simply checked her over, concurred that she was pregnant, asked when she has her last period, calculated her due date, told us to go to the hospital when her water broke which would be in about four months. She didn't have any further medical attention until time for the delivery.

Back in 1963 it wasn't even considered that the husband be allowed to accompany his wife during the delivery, and for the most part husbands were merely shunted aside. When we arrived at the hospital a nurse put my wife in a wheelchair and took her away to the birthing floor while I took care of the admittance procedures.

When I finally was able to get upstairs to the labor room where they put my wife, they had already got her undressed, shaved her pubic hair (which they did completely in those days and which I found extremely compelling when she showed it to me) and had her in a hospital gown ready to wait out the increasingly hard labor pains. During her tossing and turning during the labor pains and when the nurse came to check on her, I was able to observe her shaved pussy and note the widening of her vagina. However, when the doctor came to check on her I was asked to leave the room, and when they finally took her to the delivery room I was told to go to the waiting room until the birth was complete. Then a nurse came to take me to see the baby. While it was an interesting experience, I always felt that I should have been able to stay with my wife the entire time and am glad that our society now even encourages this. I must say that nothing about the experience was erotic, although I enjoyed the sight of her shaved pussy after the fact.

The thing that really got me hooked on gyno exams was when we went for a post birth six week check up for the baby. My wife and I took the baby in to the doctor's rather large office and examining room, and after checking her our and declaring that she was healthy and progressing nicely, Dr. Kreger said that now it was time to check out Mom, and he told my wife to go into the adjoining bathroom and remove her panties.

My wife and I gave each other shocked looks but she handed me the baby and went to comply. While she was in the bathroom, I was holding the baby and sitting next to Dr. Kreger's desk from where I could see the foot of the exam table, although at about a 45 degree angle. While waiting for my wife to remove her panties and come back in the room, Dr. Kreger and I discussed a new type of birth control, the Pill, for which he gave us a prescription.

My wife seemed to take longer than I expected in the bathroom before coming out (she told me later that she washed her pussy after removing her panties as she wasn't expecting to be examined and hadn't had a bath since the previous night). When she finally came out, Dr. Kreger told her to sit on the exam table, pull up her skirt, and scrunch down to the edge of the table while putting her feet in the stirrups. As was the style in those days, girls wore below the knee skirts but they were very tight. Consequently, she had quite a struggle to get the skirt up enough so that Dr. Kreger could get her pussy in the right position. It was quite a sight.

Unfortunately, once she was positioned, Dr. Kreger draped a sheet over her knees that blocked my viewing angle. While I desperately wanted to get up in order to see better I was too timid to do so. All I could do was watch what he was doing and extrapolate what was happening in my blocked view. I could, however, see my wife's face and she kept giving me questionable looks about what he was doing which I tried to pantomime to her. In retrospect it was quite comical.

After inserting the speculum and taking a look, Dr. Kreger stated that she had a couple of lesions that he was going to cauterize where upon inserted some sort of device with what I think had an electrical tip which he used to do the cauterization. While it sounds kind of gross, my wife said it didn't hurt. After that, he pronounced her in good shape, said we could resume having sex (which we had already started doing anyhow), pulled off the sheet that was draped across her knees, and helped her get to her feet, whereupon she quickly pulled her skirt down from around her hips and went back to the bathroom to put her panties back on.

Unfortunately, Dr. Kreger retired shortly after that and we never got to go see him again, but the whole experience introduced me to erotic feelings about having another man (although it was a doctor for legitimate medical reasons) see my wife's most intimate parts. While I would never willingly want my wife to have any male see her naked other than a doctor for legitimate medical reasons, every time this has happened, I find it to be very stimulating.

While my wife didn't seem to mind in the least that I saw her being so intimately examined the first time, and she has had numerous exams since then, no other subsequent opportunities have arisen, either because she then started going to a gynecologist and other doctors that wouldn't permit it or because in other instances she didn't want me to be there. She has never given me a reason why she didn't care the first time but didn't want to again.

While we have always had a pretty open marriage and very loving relationship, I have never told her how strongly I feel about this and how hurt I am that she won't indulge me even though she has only grudgingly told me about subsequent exams. I guess I felt or she made me feel that there was something wrong with me for wanting to see her examined - but thanks to groups like this I see that other people including women are also interested in and stimulated by gyno exams.