It was about 7:30 a.m. when Shirley Miller’s telephone rang. She answered and the voice on the phone said Shirley, this is Anna. Do you remember me? Of course I remember you said Shirley. You and Jim were here for Session One three weeks ago. So how did your honeymoon go? It was wonderful said Anna. I would really like to come over and talk to you in person about it, is that possible? Shirley said yes, why don’t you come over this morning about 9:30 a.m. and we will have tea or coffee, whichever you want. OK, I will be here at 9:30 a.m.

Promptly at 9:30 a.m. the doorbell rang. Shirley answered the door and found Anna standing there. She invited her in and took her to the kitchen and they sat down at the table. Shirley asked Anna if she liked tea of coffee. Ann said green tea. So Shirley got up and got a green tea bag, filled a cup with boiling water and gave it to Anna. She got a cup of coffee for herself and sat down across from Anna.

So Anna tell me about your honeymoon. It was wonderful said Anna. The session with you prepared us both for it. I hate to think what it would have been like if we had not attended your session. Jim and I had talked before we came to you about how little we knew about sex. We both knew that a man puts his penis in the woman’s vagina but that was about all we knew. We both masturbated but we had never talked about it and I don’t think we would have ever talked about it if we hadn’t come to you. Jim certainly didn’t know how to give me an orgasm and he didn’t understand anything about getting me ready for sex, foreplay. Without your session our honeymoon would have been a disaster.

After we arrived at our motel we slowly undressed each other. That alone was so sexy. They we started kissing and caressing each other. When we finally laid down on the bed, Jim put some lube on my vulva and just like you taught him he brought me to orgasm. Three times. But it was so sexy and loving. We kissed and kissed. Finally I got on top of Jim and aligned his penis with my vagina. I slowly lowered myself on it. I was being very careful and going slowly because of the pain that some of my friends experience. I had no pain and lowered myself until his penis was fully in my vagina. It felt so good. So I started moving up and down on his penis. As I was doing this he was holding my breasts and caressing my nipples. He was doing circular motions on my nipples and that alone would have made me cum. So in a very short time I had another orgasm and I could feel my vagina contracting on his penis. I continue the up and down

motion and soon I felt his penis contract and felt his warm semen shooting up in my vagina. That was another wonderful feeling. I kept up the motion until Jim asked me to stop. Then we just stayed coupled, with him holding my breasts, and kissing. I could feel his penis getting smaller and soon it popped out of my vagina. At that point I laid down next to Jim with my breasts pushing against his side and we just held each other for about 30 minutes. Finally he got up and got some tissues so I could wipe the leaking semen off of my vulva. I knew when you asked how it went you probably didn’t want all those details but I had to tell you because without your session it would have been a disaster, not a wonderful experience.

When we were planning our honeymoon we debated what kind of a place to stay. Because of a friends recommendation we picked a cottage on a secluded beach in the Bahamas. It was about a 5 minute walk to the small village which basically had a restaurant, a bar, and a small grocery store. It was perfect for our honeymoon. We spend almost the entire week nude. The first few days we wore swimming suits on the beach but it was so secluded that the last few days we went nude on the beach. I couldn’t believe how freeing it was to be nude on the beach and it the water with Jim. The last night we went out to the most secluded spot on the beach, put our towels down, laid down and started kissing. We continued and had sex on the beach. It was wonderful. We had sex so many times and in every position we knew about or could think of. Each time I had 3 or more orgasms.

So what more can I tell you. Your session taught Jim and I what we needed to know to have great sex. Shirley asked Anna if they used any of the condoms she gave them. Anna said no that they decided they wanted to feel each other’s body during sex and so they relied on the shot for birth control. Anna said they agreed to try the condoms during her period. Shirley asked Anna to think back to the session and give Shirley her thoughts now that some time had passed. Anna said I am still mad at Bella for not telling me what the session involved. Shirley said that is not Bella’s fault. I ask the people who take my session to not tell the details. I am hoping you and Jim will agree to that also. The truth is that most people don’t read the Disclosure and Consent form and are as shocked as you were when I ask them to undress. But I would rather deal with it than to have them prejudge. Some just ask questions in the medical room and some go out and talk about it privately. And the few that actually read the Disclosure and Consent form I talk with on the phone about the session

and the reasons for it. Some are so concerned that they come to my house and we talk over a cup of coffee. A few back out but most couples continue with the session because of the rave reviews people like you give about their honeymoon. Is there anything in the session that really bothered you. When you asked me to masturbate and I couldn’t talk you out of it I thought I would die. But truthfully that may have been the most important part of the session. That is what showed Jim what it takes for me to orgasm, what it is like when I orgasm, and how much an orgasm means to me. So actually I would not have you change anything about the session. Shirley told Anna that most women tell her the same thing about the masturbation but virtually all agree it was the most important part of the session.

But I have a question for you Shirley. How did you get started doing this? Well after I graduated from nursing school I went to work in a hospital. I worked there for 15 years and was burned out. It is a high stress job. So I quit and took a job as a high school nurse. I wanted to have the summers off. I worked at the high school for 10 years and then retired. I enjoyed the high school nurse because I felt I was really helping people. The majority of the students that came to see me were girls. Many girls with period problems came. Many had cramps, some heavy periods, some spotting, and some missed periods. Some came because they were crying in class and could not stop. Usually that was because a boy broke up with them. Very few boys came to see me. When they did it was usually because they were really sick, high fever, throwing up, etc. But during this time I realized that girls knew very little about their bodies. I tried to educate them as best I could as a school nurse but there were strict guidelines I had to follow. I tried to understand them and I never judged them. So a couple years after I retired I got a phone call from a girl I had helped in high school, Marie. She said Mrs. Miller, I am getting married in a month and my boy friend and I are both virgins. Neither of us knows anything about sex and I am concerned that I will not enjoy our honeymoon and that I won’t like sex. I want to have sex with him but some of my friends have told me that sex was painful the first several times. I am asking you to help us. I don’t know where else to turn. I suggested that she and her boyfriend buy a book on sex, each one read it, and then discuss it. She said they had done that and it didn’t help. She said I know I have a clitoris but I don’t know where it is. I don’t even know how to pronounce it. So I told her to give me a week or so to think about it and I would call her back.

I thought about their problem and it reminded of me when we got married. We were both virgins and even though I was a nurse we didn’t really know anything about sex other than the man puts his penis in the woman’s vagina. We stumbled through the first several months of marriage. I thought about them reading the book and it not really helping. I realized that the only way to really help them would be to show them. That would mean both of them being naked and showing and explaining their anatomy to the other. I didn’t know if they would agree to that or not. But I also knew I would need an exam table and some medical equipment. So the next day I went to a large used furniture sales place and looked through all their inventory. They had a few medical exam tables and one with knee crutches. I looked it over and decided it would be perfect. I bought it and they agreed to deliver it in a week. I went home and looked at the room that I had. It need more lights. So I hired an electrician to install bright lights on the ceiling. I also bought the table for clothes and bought medical posters for the walls. I also bought a variety of speculums and other medical supplies. One week later I had the room ready and I called Marie and asked her wedding date. I told her I could help them and scheduled an appointment for the Monday before their wedding. I asked her if she trusted me. She said yes based on our relationship when she was in high school. So I told her to bring her boyfriend with her and they would have to agree to my methods. She agreed.

On the appointed Monday they arrived at 9:30 and came in. Marie introduced her boy friend Josh. I invited them back to the medical room and closed the door. I asked them if they trusted me and they both said yes. I told them I will help them if you will do what I say. They agreed. I told them to go over to the long table, take off all their clothes and put them on the table. Marie’s response was about like yours. I don’t think she screamed like you did but she said why. I told her the only way I knew to help them is to show them each others anatomy and I could only do that if they were nude. So they agreed, undressed, and the session began. That first time I was kind of fumbling around. I knew what I wanted to accomplish and when the session was over I had done it. But I was not as smooth as I am now. The session went about like yours did without the birth control injection. At the end I told them to get dressed and I ask them to call me after the honeymoon and tell me how it went. Marie called me after the honeymoon with a report about like yours. She gave me some suggestions for the session and I have incorporated those

suggestions. As I have done more and more sessions I have refined the process to what it is today. Marie is the one who suggested a Disclosure and Consent form. I developed it and have used it since them. After several sessions I decided that a second session would be valuable covering the additional topics. So I began offering it and most couples have enrolled in it also.

Then Anna asked how many sessions I do a week. I told her usually one and sometimes two. I explained that I only do the sessions if both parties are virgins and frankly there are not that many couples today who are both still virgins. All sessions come from a referral and a lot of the referrals are from girls at your college. It attracts students from very conservative families. Anna also asked how I could live on one or two sessions a week. I told her that my late husband left me a modest estate and I have a pension from both the hospital and school. I live on those. The $200 charge is really just to pay for the equipment and supplies. As you know I use a new sterile speculum for each woman. I also have to sterilize the metal Collins speculum after each session. The speculum and other medical supply cost add up. I asked Anna if she had any more questions and she said just one. Jim and I definitely want to attend the second session and we would like to do it right away. Shirley told Anna that no, they must wait until they have been married 90 days. I know you and Jim had great sex on your honeymoon but you really need more time before you are ready for the other subjects. If you want we can schedule it now for a date in 90 days. So we agreed on a Monday morning at 9:30 a.m. just like the first session.

I told Anna that I had some good news. Her doctor had called me and explained that Depo-Provera had been improved and is now almost 100 percent effective. It was 95% effective before. It now takes two shots because of the additional volume required. But if she wants me to I can have her doctor send me the two vials of medicine and be ready for their next session. She said to do that. She reminded me she does not like shots and that it was painful but she will get Jim will hold her hand again and it is worth the pain to know she won’t get pregnant and they can have sex whenever they want.

She thanked me for the tea, the time, and the wonderful instruction that I gave her and Jim. She they will see me at the next appointment. I explained to Anna that because of the nature of the next session the she

and Jim should not eat breakfast that day. Just have a cup of coffee before arriving for the appointment. She said they understood and will comply. I told her I would e-mail her the Disclosure and Consent form for the second session. I once again asked her to read it, discuss it with Jim, and then mail the two forms to me with a check for $200.00. I knew they would not read the forms but I had told them what the session involved at the last session.