Leaving the coffee shop, I couldn't resist saying something to the waitress.

“You must hear all sorts I'm guessing. Discretion must be part of the job?”

“Not really, it's normally quite dull. Today was my best day and I have been here for three years. But discretion, oh yes”

She gave me my credit card back and as I walked away putting it in my wallet, it wouldn't fit. I realised that this was because the waitress had given me a piece of paper with my wallet.

“what was that about?" said K as I unfolded the paper.

“I'm not sure” I said as read the paper.

If your new friend doesn't enjoy your anal fixation, I may be able to help out. xx P

I showed the paper to K, who read it and gasped. “She's not shy is she? So it would seem that you have two offers to explore you anal fixation outside your marrigae then."

We were walking down the street, away frm the center and towards a park. Neither of us leading really, just walking together so I turned into the park and we walked across the grass.

“Two offers? Are you accepting then? are you offering to satisfy my anal fixation?”

“Well, I think I should hear more about your arrangement with your wife first. But yes I think that I could be persuaded to partake in some anal activities. I'm not an expert of course, but I am intrigued to say the least. So tell me about your wife and where she is at with you going outside your relationship to get your anal fix.”

Where to start? I think full disclosure is a good idea and yet there is a way of arranging things, of ordering them.

“I might need a couple of goes at this but if you can bear with me I am happy to explain.” K nodded and so I continued.

"Over the years I have developed a desire for anal sex. It probably started when I was about 13 or so and began experimenting with self anal play. I found I enjoyed things up my arse as long as they weren't too big and I would get an almost instant erection from anal penetration. At that young age I felt a stigma about it. Did it mean I was gay? am I gay? and all that rubbish. I let all that go eventually when I became sexually active with actual partners and realised that I wanted to have sex with women only. All my first girlfriends were against anal anything. None of them wanted to insert anything up my arse. A finger, their tongue, a dildo, nothing. As for me doing anything to their arse, I loved the look and feel of womens arses and thought that if I enjoy my arse being stimulated then surley, others would to. I didn't have much luck. All my attempts to go near the arsehole of my girlfriends was rebuked. I could caress the cheeks, I could run my fingers down the crack of their arse but a soon as I got near the hole itself, they would clence up and pull away. So I gave up really. I encouraged doggy style sex as often as possible so I could admire the arse of my partners. A couple of times when they were aproaching orgasm I would gently rub my thumb arcoss their hole, with mixed results. Then one day a girlfriend was sucking me off and stuck her finger up my arse. It was fantastic and unexpected. The result was almost instant and she got a mouthful of my cum she wasnt ready for. My cock was so deep in her mouth that she had no real choice to swallow it. I think you couldn't have pulled me out of her mouth with a team of horses. When she recovered,