How Wendy and I met is a story unto itself (maybe another time) but we soon discovered a mutual interest in several unconventional activities. At first we peppered each other with a long series of Q&A emails about our wants and desires. That correspondence led to an exchange of stories based in various amounts of actual experience and wildest fantasy.

Eventually, we discussed the options for in-person play. We were not right around the corner from each other, but close enough (a few hours drive) that getting together occasionally was tractable. We set some initial ground rules, the key rule being that we each had veto power over any activity. The safe phrase in this instance was 'red line' and we both pledged to respect the other's limits in all cases. The other absolute was no penetrative (vaginal or anal) sex, however fingers were specifically allowed. The initial rules were a bit vague (perhaps intentionally) about oral acts.

This series is an account of some of our adventures together.