(Please note that this is a work of fiction).

In a previous chapter (Femdom,Penis Control, and Pegging - also on this site) we discussed conventional pegging, additionally combined with penis control. If this has been mastered, then reverse pegging may be considered.

Basically, reverse pegging is when a sub male wears a strapon to stimulate the domme's vaginal area. So, it is quite like 'real' sex except the penis is not used. It might seem that there are no benefits to this, but in fact they are.

The benefit for the sub is that they have intimate face and body contact. Remember that that they are in an orgasm-denial relationship. Reverse pegging is just one of the possibilities to stimulate the male without allowing orgasm.

The benefit for the domme is an experience quite similar to 'traditional' sex. You might ask "well, why not have traditional sex?". Remember that the couple are in love, and indeed will have traditional sex from time to time. However, the experience of reverse pegging for a domme is heightened by an awareness of her power and control.

There is one major drawback to overcome though. During the event, the male's penis will become erect and want to join the party! This is where training comes in. Here is the process.

Firstly, the domme must choose a suitable strapon. It is going in her, so she makes the choice.

The idea of reverse pegging is then explained to the male, stressing that it is in addition to the intimacies already allowed. He will be very enthusiastic.

Then, in a vulnerable situation (for example, the male is naked, and also pantied is this being followed) the male is shown the strapon, and allowed to handle it. At this point, an erection will occur, but it must be suppressed by the domme, perhaps by ice or pressure. If the earlier chapter on penis-control and pegging has been completed, this should be familiar.

When the erection has been controlled, the training is over for now. It must be repeated twice a day, for several weeks. Eventually, the sub will be able to handle the strapon without an erection.

The next phase involves the domme securing the stapon to the male, positioning it immediately above the penis. Hopefully, this can be accomplished without an erection, and the penis remains dormant. If not, then more training is required.

The reverse pegging process can now take place as follows: foreplay takes place and, at a suitable time, the strapon is revealed. The erection is to subside, and the sub enters the female, and stimulates her to orgasm. Throughout, the penis is to be dormant, and the domme can be proud of her training!

Questions from a Domme.

Q: should the sub know in advance if the strapon is to appear?

A: this is a difficult question. In advanced work, more humiliation results if the sub is under the illusion that his penis is to be preferred, but in fact the domme brings out the strapon after foreplay. If training has been done properly, the erection will involuntarily subside.

Q: during reverse pegging, the sub's penis dribbles with precum. Is this good or bad?

A: regard it as good, however inconvenient it is. He clears it up, of course. It is a sign that he is very keen to orgasm.