Hey cool thanks for sharing that account. You never seem to hear much on anyone's parents. I guess that's the way it is though, most wouldn't really know what their parents might be into, let alone really wanting to know for sure. You know, no one wants to think their parents ever even had sex. :o And, allot of us older ab/dl's I think come from the older generations who, were kind of strait laced parents of the 40's, 50's, 60's, not all of them of course. I know my grandfather was something of a maverick, not ab/dl, but he just didn't fit the mold of his peers is what I mean. Anyway, you just don't hear much on the subject.
I don't have children, but I'm not sure if I did, if I would want them to know. Maybe in their adulthood I could let them in on it. Or if I knew they were ab/dl I might talk to them about it. If I knew, I would for sure at least let them it's ok and they're normal.
Oh and I don't blame you for wanting to have been a fly on the wall. It must have been some bash!