In public is, by far, always the scariest for me, never got used to it, still scary for me today.
I am always out and about in shorts during warm months, sweatpants cooler months.
You know statistically there are always going to be some out there who will instantly recognize..I have diapers on.
If maybe a mom, dad, nanny, babysitter, nurse who just know that recognizable appearance of diapers under shorts or sweatpants.
They have see it on little ones more than a zillion times and now will recognize it right away on ME.
The slight diapery bulk, linings showing, recognizable diaper shape under clothing bottoms. They will know.
Just how it is.
If close enough, can even hear the diaper crinkling in quieter areas or smell the extremely strong Johnsons baby powder coming from my diapers. Again, they will know, and in most cases, right away.