Expelling enemas: private or shared experience?

Have never had the experience of being with a partner while eliminating an enema, but would love to find a partner that would engage in this. Would add to the total experience of an enjoyable enema together

For me, I want a male doctor who is 100% attentive to me. He is taking control of every aspect of my body. As he gives me medication, liquids, or performs procedures, he will need to keep detailed records of my body’s response, as well as carefully track my urinary output and bowel movements. That will mean catheter and either a bed pan or bucket to collect feces. Being naked, turning over control of my entire body, watching him as he focuses and makes comments about my urine output and feces, adds the right amount of humiliation and embarrassment. O

My first wife and I stayed with each other was very tender time together, holding each other rubbing her back. Sure miss that closeness.

I have always expelled in private, but if I had a partner who wanted to be present I would be OK with that. I think that having a shared enema experience includes wanting to please my partner as well as myself. If my partner wanted to watch I would want him to enjoy that experience.

I always expel enemas with someone in the bathroom with me.

I usually expel large ones on the toilet by myself and small ones in my diaper.

My mom used to watch me until I was around thirteen. Sometimes in hospital I have been given enemas whilst I was immobile or too weak to move so I had to expel in a bedpan in front of the nurse’s and my friends. Most of the time when it’s nessescary for me to have an enema administered I prefer to expel in private.

Sitting on the toilet, being so vulnerable, a man watching me. I'm so embarrassed, humiliated, aroused. I don't want him to be there, but my arousal wants him to stay.

That is the one part of an enema l want to do alone

When my Domme administers an enema session. She stands at the door and watches me expel every solution. She is only content and satisfied when I expel three clear results. I am usually thoroughly washed out in many ways. Then, I have any discipline due me administered at that time.

My late wife and I would expel in full view of the other. I received my first enema from her on our honeymoon. I was in expelling the enema she gave me when she walked into the bathroom completely nude with a enema bulb in her hand. She asks if I give her an enema when I was done.

Sorry I misunderstood your post.

Pay te1: Not sure that embarrassment is one I want.

private, always. it's not my thing to expel in front of someone.

enemasubgirl wrote: the embarrassment gets my heart racing

I just did expel in front of my enemate and I agree wholeheartedly. Embarrassment is part of the excitement associated with enemas. The embarrassment of revealing yourself for administration and expulsion just add to the thrill.

I have had enemas from several enema nurses. One asked to stay with me while I expelled and I agreed. I would do the same with others if they wanted to. It didn't bother me at all and we had some good conversation while I was expelling.

Although I've never had the opportunity to be with a partner who is expelling, it wouldn't bother me in the least. In fact, could be a time for added intimacy. Being on the other end is another story completely; would tweak my embarrassment tremendously. Ultimately would depend on my partner's reaction and interest. Expelling the first one in privacy might make it easier. I've had partners transiently present and the the embarrassment gets my heart racing.

Have done both. Being observed takes a special partner who can put the spin on

the excitment and/ or the non-privacy.

I have never shared an enema with anyone. If and when that would ever happen, I think I would have to expell in private.

I would expel in front of a partner, or they could in front of me. I could massage their tummy to help them expel it. Also could talk about how we're going to receive our next enemas. It's all part of the process.

Although it depends on each person's level of comfort, expelling in front of or along with your partner can be a very intimate experience.

Always expel in private

While I really enjoy being given an enema, when expelling it I want to be alone. When I was growing up I was not given privacy and my mother was usually at the sink cleaning up the bag as I expelled. On those occasions that I had complained about getting the enema, I can recall her saying "I thought you said you didn't need an enema?" which made it all the more embarrassing.

All my enema expulsions were done in private when I was given enemas from Mom and grandma. As soon as the nozzle came out, they left. When my emena and me were playing our enema thing, the giver left after finishing the enema. We were into the jou of giving and receiving and what it felt like - not into seeing us expulse.

Interesting. Since I'm Dom, I pretty much require it when I give. It's another level of control, of removing privacy, and I do know that many women are mortified if you "stay with them." It's good for a sub to know she has no rights during a session, unless there are "non-negotiables" or harm involved. I don't require it when I receive, but I like it if she doesn't mind.

At first when Doc and I started playing, the thought of him watching me expel simply mortified me to no end. It wasn't the sounds that embarrassed me, although sure, that was a part of it too, but the greater mortification was the smell. See, when I get an enema, almost 100 percent of the time, yes they are fun, but in all seriousness I need them medically speaking as well. So my enema process is not a simple feat. I have to take them in very slow so that I can get as much fluid in as possible, (which I am doing much better at), but because it's no secret that I only go to the bathroom anyplace between 7-10 days, by that time the enema becomes more out of a real medical necessity rather than for pleasure purposes only. However because of this same reason, if I can manage to get a full 2 quarts in me, then expelling the enema takes forever, however in the process also manages to get out, no pun intended, a crap ton of much needed crap. But if I can manage to get into knee chest position after the bag is completely empty, even if it's just for a few minutes, it allows the water to get pretty high up which usually brings, in the end, all of the upper stuff which has't had time to have a lot of the fluids and nutrients absorbed, which in short, means that the higher stuff, the looser the stuff, which means it's going to have a lot more smell to it, and I do mean a lot more smell.

Needless to say, when we first started dating, expelling in front of Doc was embarrassing because lets face it, pooping in front of others takes a certain amount of comfort, and in a new relationship that level of convertibility seldom happens during the first few dozen or so, so naturally, the embarrassment factor is going to be there, and was. Now however after 4 years, and me being finally able to take a good two courts, which as I mentioned before allows enough water to bring down the soft, unformed, non-absorbed smelly stool, it's still quite embarrassing having him watch. Neither of us are really into scat play in any way shape or form, so usually we sort of leave each other alone during about half of the expelling process, we still check on each other periodically to make sure things are moving as well as they should be. However, with this being said, these much needed enemas of mine, for which they are in fact medically warranted, I have almost come to the point that yes, it is embarrassing for me, but not as much as they were in the beginning, and a hell of a lot less embarrassing then ending up in the ER do to the same thing, ending in the same results, and it's very very comforting, regardless of the smell my body is getting rid of to have him in there with me rubbing my back, belly, or giving me a cold wash cloth to put on my forehead, or even telling me things like how proud he is of me for taking as much solution as I did, or reiterating to me again how important it is for me to take an enema more often, as in at least once a week instead of once every 3 months when we are together. Even his "lectures" during this time I find comforting because I know he's exactly right, and because he is telling me this because he loves me, cares about me, and he knows how bad my belly hurts when we are separated due to the reason of being both in a constant state of dehydration, and constipation.

So, I never thought I would every get to the point where I could or would admit this, but I rather enjoy having him in the bathroom with me, (if he can tolerate the smell), during my evacuation. Which again, I have to admit, he does an excellent job at and with in that department.

Now, on the flip side of things, I am not sure he's gotten to the point yet where he's totally comfortable with me being in there when he is expelling. He has gotten better, but isn't to the level I am at yet, or I don't think he is anyway, which I have to be honest with you, surprises me greatly because men usually are not sensitive to that sort of thing, (or at least I thought anyway) as women are. Remember, men fart and scratch their nuts in public without a second thought, pee off of their back porch or on the side of the road, and usually don't give much thought as to who's around them, so why would this be any different? Besides that, on an even odder note, I like to watch him have to stick his penis between his legs so that when he pees during his evacuation he urinates in the correct spot and not all over either of our shoes, but more importantly being in there with him allows me to also comfort him, rub his belly and back for him, hug him, and most importantly, simlpy support him, and to just be there with him to show him how much I love him, no matter what kind of shit he giving me at the moment. (Insert very big and cheeky grin here, :D and yes pun very much intended, hehehe). And is if that isn't enough, I think it pushed his buttons, not to mention his limits, which by now, most people here, including Doc, know that is one of my greatest pleasures in life, lol.

While we still can't give each other enemas, we can still be there to comfort each other in the end, ( another pun, but honestly an unintentional one at that, but still one the same), and being there for each other no matter what the issue, really is the most important thing of all, and knowing the other person will reciprocate the same back and usually more, is well, simply priceless.

Mashie.

If im doing enemas for pleasure only, aka (semi) erotik, then i expell in private, however when the eneme is "Forced"or induced as punishment, now thats an entire different matter :D (and cant really move away when strapped down can ye :P)

If it is being given in conjunction with a spanking there is no privacy for expelling of the enema. Spanks are given on an already red bottom as she must get up off toilet and take encouragement. Keeping her bathroom sounds to herself is not an option, but the spanking melts her shyness of emptying her enema.

Actually none of the preset options fit into my own picture - my answer just can't be as straightforward so I'm posting this.

I don't quite prefer; I'd rather agree to expel "with company". That is, if she has good reason(s) to share the bathroom under such circumstance: talk, massage, fondling... You name it.

Again, since I live alone, as a rule I don't prefer to expel in private. I simply happen to.

That would have to be a private thing for me.

I hav experienced both, but i prefer in private

Have never had to share the experience. The on-line stuff is interesting but these things take time in person.

When I was about 9 my friends and I used to watch each other having a shit when we needed to go. This was before I got interested in enemas, so we never did that together. Since then I have been watched a couple of times, but I have not had a chance of watching anyone else.

I picked "Prefer to expel with company if other person is willing."

I have expelled in the presence of another person after he had given me enemas. It is part of the "enema experience", imo.

If I had someone to share enemas with, I would have no problem expelling in front of them if they wanted to watch or be there. If they wanted their privacy, I would respect that too.

Doesn't really matter to us. My Special Friend and I are comfortable with our arrangement, we can do anything we feel like. Not once has uggg been uttered.

Skybear

I agree that this is the ultimate in closeness; I prefer to expel with my partner present... in BOTH situations: expelling after holding it or being plugged for a long time (what a relief!) or expelling under my own will. Hopefully my partner/administrator is next to me, holding me, encouraging me, rubbing my tummy, holding my hand... and even helping me to clean up the mess. Yes, it IS the ultimate in closeness!

Eddie

Expelling an enema, or even just a BM, with someone present is definitely a difficult thing to do. I often hold off releasing a BM with my wife is close by. However, if you have a special arrangement with an enemate you might consider expelling while he or she is in the bathroom. It might be very difficult to do, but once the initial expulsion has been achieved your partner may relax and allow him or herself to do the same. It's all a matter of private preference.

Always been private and always will be. No discussion about it.

i say no prference because if a man wants to hear what he has done to me he should be able to... if his friends want to hear it that just makes him more kinky so i feel it should be done... although i would have no problem doing it alone

Chatroom scenarios aside, I've never expelled in front of anyone. Not sure how'd I'd feel about it.

If you like to share this experience, why? If you prefer privacy, why?