On reading this thread again, I find I didn't tell you about me. Straight male, highly anal erotic and LOVE my enemas! When I was a student, I got too drunk and passed out one night. I woke up with a guy on top of me and a penis planted in my rectum. Now this was a defining moment. I liked the feel of the penis inside me, but intensely disliked the guy it belonged to, especially when he later kissed me! (He was too drunk to cum, anyway.) I found that repulsive; but it could be because we hardly knew each other. He had most emphatically taken advantage of me!
Right now, there are no gay folk in my life, (the last one died two years ago) but no shortage of lesbians. They're fun, but often troubled souls. I'm not open to approaches from men, but not threatened either. I hope to stay open to love and live with all types. So I like to have straight, gay and lesbian friends, Catholic friends, Jewish friends, Muslim friends and Hindu friends. It helps to stop me from getting narrow and bigoted. I myself am an Anglican. Right now I could use friends who are Hindu, Quaker and Buddhist. Any of you reading this fit the bill?
People are apt to gaze at works of art and say, "I don't know anything about art, but I know what I like!" Well, I don't know much about sexuality from a technical point of view, but I surely know what I like! My wife (and only my wife) turns me on, though my eyes are drawn like magnets to a nice pair of boobs passing by... Enemas and anal play I have to do by myself because my lady doesn't like to go there; but it's no hidden secret!
PS Don't get all PC if your sexuality or faith (or lack of any) don't fit my categories - just educate me?