She is very open with me, telling me about her breast augmentation, her gyno exams, and the fact that she is a virgin.
Only guessing but since you're in your 30s that she is as well, or at least in her 20s. Let's take inventory here:
- Gave intimate details about medical procedures she's had including the all-important gyno exam (plenty of kinksters talking about that on this site)
- Offered to show you her new store bought rack, presumably while not wearing a bra.
- 'Admitted' to you she is a virgin - in her 20s or 30s, based on your profile and that she's a coworker
Oh yeah, she's not entirely straight. From the last one especially - which was the big Suze Ormond tell when she outed herself on national TV while deep in her 50s.
Reasonable conclusion: unless she's hardcore Catholic or Mormon pre-marital celibate, I'm going with full on lipstick Lesbian.
That said two issues:
1. Office affairs, as others have pointed out are high risk for going south. You're thinking about banging her. We all think about it with coworkers from time to time. If she's in any position to get you fired out of bitterness when it ends (and it most likely will rn its course this way), your job is on the line right now moving forward. Even if she isn't, you still have to go to work daily and see her. Awkward icy cold silences, hard feelings, wondering who she's banging now etc.
2. She may already be out to her friends and family. You're not, and likely don't want to be. This is the bigger issue. People find new work all the time. Based on your attraction to her, if you had the affair and it didn't work out or ended badly, or she just couldn't keep her trap shut about it, she could out YOU. Far bigger risk I would think than getting canned, even in this economy. Even if one of you left the company voluntarily, this one could hang over your head for quite some time.
Can't tell you how to address your attraction or feelings, but they're a whole lot easier to bury once you know what the stakes are and remind yourself daily of them.
Now go bang her anyway, and be sure to tell us hopeless pervs on Zity the juicy details...