Who is better spanker a woman or men?

My father did not want to be bothered by household issues and let our mother deal with our backsides. On rare occasions she asked him for help (I recall him pinning down my sister, who resisted being spanked, so that mom could redden her derrière).

I felt better if it was mom who spanks, nothing WatchDox stopping her. Its probably why, today, woman's spanking are my fantaisies

I certainly had my hardest spankings from our Dad growing up. But that may have been because he took over spanking my brothers and me in our preteen and teen years so he spanked harder because we were older and he knew that we needed harder spankings. I'm not sure what makes for a better spanker. Our Mom spanked us more when we were younger so our Dad probably didn't have to spank us as much when we were older. I didn't feel like I got away with much when I was younger and Mom did most of the spanking. As younger kids, my brothers and I still end up with very red bottoms and tears in a corner so can't say that we weren't punished as much with Mom as Dad. The teen years are foolish years and every boy that I knew got spanked into their teens like I did. There were weeks when my brothers and I were in elementary school when one of us got spanked every week by Mom and sometimes that meant two of us together because she was the one at home while Dad was at work.

As a kid, I always feared the spanking from my father. He had a large hand and being a farmer, his spankings hurt like hell! You learn quickly not to cross father!

Never been spanked by a woman, but a man can really hold you around the waist and give a good hiding.

At my school, we all feared being spanked by our Art Mistress more than any of the male teachers She was almost sadistic about it, I never left her lap until I was sobbing desperately and my bottom was as red as a beetroot. I was not the exception either, even the toughest girls would leave in a flood of tears and swearing never to cross her again.

I would normally take my spankings quite well both at home and school but if she called me out to the front of the class I could feel tears welling in my eyes before I even got there. I would not even try to be brave but would plead with a croaky voice and never to any avail. My fate was sealed as soon as I left my desk and in reality, I knew there was no way to convince her for clemency, Soon enough I would myself over her knee desperately trying to keep my bared bottom still and "properly presented", to use her terminology, whilst she delivered a torrent of painful smacks.

Some parents did complain about her but considering she was the Head Mistress's sister, the complaints fell on deaf ears.

I actually feel the women teachers generally spanked harder than the men, maybe because sharing the same sex they felt less of a need to show any sympathy

At my school, we all feared being spanked by our Art Mistress more than any of the male teachers She was almost sadistic about it, I never left her lap until I was sobbing desperately and my bottom was as red as a beetroot. I was not the exception either, even the toughest girls would leave in a flood of tears and swearing never to cross her again.

She obviously had a liking for young bare bottoms. If that happened now she would be doing 5 to 10 in the pen. Amazing what they could get away with back then. You can't even spank your own child without getting into trouble if your son or daughter mentions it at school. It would entail a visit from child services at the least.The pendulum has swung the other way.

I was almost always spanked by my mom, my dad was often working late. I know his dad also was often away working, so maybe he had the same thing. I never asked. Mom liked the wooden spoon, sometimes over clothes sometimes privately pants down

I got to be very good at keeping my behavior just this side of a spanking. They faded out as I got bigger though. I wonder sometimes if things would have been different had my dad been spanking me and kept it up longer. Who knows - I eventually straightened out, but it did take a while. Nothing big, but lots of little stuff.

By far the most memorable time I was in trouble was when I was horsing around at my grandparents and left gates and barn doors open. Cows had a field day and my grandfather was VERY angry.

My mom always spanked me and she could really redden my butt.

Always wanting a woman to spank my bum, but never being lucky enough in get one. So hard to say who is better in my point view.

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I'd say it depends on how you define "better". Men seem to "get the job done" and while the spanking will be painful, it doesn't feel as emotional. Women spankers (in my experience) seem to inject more emotion into the spanking, and may not hit as hard but aren't afraid to make it last for a very long time.

I have to completely agree with this. I think most males/dad will say alright let’s get this done and just do it. Usually a short talk if any and Sure it hurts but usually doesn’t last as long as far as smacks. With women especially a mom it goes beyond just a spanking. It usually involves a longer talk and the spanking itself last longer and I think has a different feeling from it afterwards. Not to mention more times than not sitting isn’t easy. As he said spanking for a woman/mom is more emotional. So I think a female is a better overall spanker especially for punishment

I know this thread is old but thought I would respond to it.

If I was getting a spanking from Mom that was gonna be bad, but if I was getting a spanking from Dad it was gonna be REALLY bad! Even worse if I had to wait to get that spanking until Dad got home from work!

Women seem to spank just fine but I sometimes think a man can send the message home a little better.....I have had many memorable spankings from Mom as well as a few other females never once did I think this won’t hurt at all ......they hurt plenty