How to tell my boyfriend, I love AB lifestyle?

Hey All,

I have been interested in wearing diapers for years, but then within the past year decided I really loved the AB lifestyle. I have secretly lived the life of an AB now for the past year wearing diapers, cuddling up with a bottle and teddy bear when no one is home but want to get my boyfriend involved. However, I just don't know how to tell him without him thinking I'm weird or crazy. Any ideas?

Just tell him if it is meant to be then it will be but if he reacts like you are a physco then ell its better to find out now then later after marriage or something!!! i think it would be ok if hes realy into you then he will accept you and all your little kinks, hell he may be a closet perv just waiting for the right time to tell you about his pervs LOL LOL LOL

I went through the same thing with my boyfriend. I ultimately decide to tell him though. i felt it was something that we should share. And While he isnt 100% into it, he has agreed to give things a try. were just gonna take it slow and see what happens. he knows that this is important to me so he gonna try. and tht is what really makes me feel special. good luck with your beau.

Look, just be honest with him, spill it out to him. look, i have had many girlfriends, and i set it out to them. the truth is, i have to use the diapers becouse of a bladder problem, called, nuragenic bladder. when i told them,they did'nt have a problem with it,they thought that i looked cute in the diapers, so, just go ahead and tell him, what's it going to hurt? if he trully loves you, he will not only except you, but also,your dezire to wear the diapers.it, may even spice up sex play, just a thought.

Just tell him the straight way everything else is not really "effective".

The whole Story-telling-stuff is c**p.

Its hard to be macho when were in diapers lOl. but seriously just tell him truthfully he will be ok with it. just remember if your enjoying something and he cant play with you its kinda like a curriosity killed the cat type deal. sooner or later hes gonna come and play he just cant resist.

If you tell any kind of story, you then have to keep it strait for ever! Be honest, and put it right out there. I just wish my GF would be having a problem telling me she is into diapers, but it wouldn't be a problem than, would it?

Whether he is into it or not, it is part of who you are. Be proud of yourself and just drop a few hints every now and then to get him to play.

If it was my g/f I would be sooo happy 😃

Just tell him straight out that you enjoy being a baby. If he decides to leave, so what! Let him go. There are plenty of good DL and AB guys that would love to be your Sweetie.

Good luck, keep wet and stinky.

Well it will never be easy. There is a lot to fear, and who knows how he will react. If you've known him long enough, and feel that you can trust him with knowing your desires then why not inform him. I'd suggest doing it gently if you do.

Think for a moment though. If he does not accept you, is he really worth your time? God made you to feel this way for a reason. I'm sure he is a great guy though if he has truly captured your heart. Their are plenty of guys who would kill for the opportunity to baby a girl. Most unfortunately tend to be selfish in their quest for a baby girl, but there are some gentlemen out there. Is it worse to scare this guy away because you tell him what you really are, or to live a life where you hide who you are because your afraid of losing him. Good luck either way.

Sincerely,

Portland Daddy

Love yourself for who you are-- tell him gently- but if he

rejects you -- he's not worth it , move on -- I'm sure you'll

meet someone better --

Try pulling it out as a role playing dress up to be sexy type thin......see how he reacts. Just go from there

I'm inclined to agree with many of the others. Tell him gently. If he doesn't like it, he isn't worth it. If he truly loves you, he will accept you for who you are and what you are into.

-Sky

Remember never say anything along the lines of "i have this weird thing" or "you might find this weird"

If he loves u he will understand and maybe he will even try itto with u but do it together always until their is an understanding good luck ok

I told My Ex girl friend when we frist got togeather 18.5 years ago she told Me she was fine with My diapers and ab/dl life style .But when We moved to Mn she wanted nothing to do with My ab/dl life style and I had to keep every thing hidden .

It was not good everyone that we new all our and My friends new that I was ab/dl but she just could not handle it . So I left her 2 years ago and when I meet My wife We started out trying to scare each other away from each other .well it did not work and we have been maried for a year now and we have play days at our farm that she wanted to have for our baby friends .So the best thing is tio do is be up front and not to hide any thing

Hi, you share the same problem that I did have.

I eventually told my boyfriend and he made it clear that this did not interest him.

I have on a few occasions worn my nappy and plastic pants under a skirt when my boyfriend has come over and he just will not hold me or even take a closer look.

I love him and I am torn between leaving him if I could find someone who excepts me for what I do and what I am, which is a little baby girl, nappied and wanting to be babied.

Good luck but be prepared for for rejection.

I dont know about other guys, But I would LOVE it if my girl were into the AB/DL lifestyle.

Most will agree here that no relationship will survive if you cannot be true to who you are, or be accepted fully as you are by a S/O. OK there are compromises and agreements, but if your S/O will not accept the wearing of nappies as an essential part of you then it is best to let go and find someone who will.

Secrets are also destructive, and they need to know. As lincam said - be prepared for rejection. It will be better in the longer term anyway and you will find someone who does accept you.

I will find someone, one day....

The truth is always a good thing and as long as you are sweet about it most guys are relatively okay about it. Some of them just likes to be the "daddy" to the little girl and could change you or better still may experiment.

On the other hand some guys are immature and worse than some female gossipers where the whole towns then knows however you are the woman and you tune into your internal radar about the guy you are about tel revel your secret.

I' sure you will be fine.

Hey, I really hope things went well for you, I actually told my boyfriend over the internet during an msn conversation, he was totally cool about it, and even said it would be hot to see me in diapers! If not, don't feel guilty. It's a part of your life, and if he truly loves you, he will accept that.

Hi I think it is easier for a girl to tell her boyfriend,most guys are open to anything with sex,but i was the same way telling my wife about my diaper thing even knowing she is very open minded of sex as she likes it when i were her panties, so i told her and its been great in diapers since. Have fun