"Enemas? Really?"

My husband helped me with delivery this night and usually when we finish we go home but not tonight. This bit of, as @Cedar calls it, SIP, has set my husband I to thinking and has given us a glimpse at what life could be if he and I were to become exclusive to the other again. This was on our minds as we went upstairs to the bedroom at the shop where I wanted take him to bed and have an enema at his hand and discuss these times. He and I don’t often use this bed to have our sexual relations and I can count on the fingers of one hand where we have both used this bed to have sex.

In the bathroom, @Cedar’s enema bag was hanging on the hook next to mine as I took mine and began to fill it. I was still clothed as I filled my bag and I realized this and thought that there were few delivery nights that I climbed the stairs to this room fully clothed, and fewer still found me filling my enema bag without filling either Cedar’s or @Lora_C’s enema bags. Sometimes it is @gibby’s enema bag that was filled in this bathroom. And then I would carry my enema bag or that of my lover, to the hang it or them above the bed and lose ourselves in our friendship that feels so right, or felt so right.

My husband was naked when I went back to the bed and he hung my enema bag for me as I undressed. I asked him to slip the enema nozzle into my bum but not start it quite yet. An enema always feels better when another is slipping the nozzle into you and allowing you to enjoy the sensation of the nozzle penetration and the feeling of the flow of enema into you. I love my husband and have always found his body very ‘easy on the eye’ but relatively free of scars that Gibby’s Pete and Lora’s Cedar have on them. Lora’s Tom’s scars are those of a surgeon and very much different that either Pete’s or Cedars. I love seeing my husband nude and his muscles are defined and fluid in their movement under his skin. Fascinatig. 🌹

I saw his glance taking in the room and looking for detail. And I remembered that when he and I engage in our video or phone sex or web cam sex, I am most usually in this bedroom. 😈 I’ve shared many an orgasm with my Steve in this room, on this bed, and often with this enema bag hanging from the hook over this bed. Sometimes my fingers are what bring me to orgasm and other times I have a favourite dildo or object that I use when he and I indulge in some nice video or phone sex. He asked where it was that I kept my toys when we were acting the porn stars ? and I showed him where I kept them, where I plugged in my phone or computer or camera so that he could see me having an orgasm.

I showed him where and how I would sometimes mount the phone so that he could have a grand view of my inner thighs and pussy as we would have our ‘phone sex’. And the lighting, the how and with what I would illuminate that area that I wanted his penis to be when I brought myself off to his urging or knowing that he was doing the same as I was, just in another room in a state far from our home. I asked him if the place where he ‘got himself off’ was the same room where he and his intimate woman friend would ‘do the deed’ when we were apart from the other. And it was.

I asked him if she enjoyed enemas or knew of his liking of them and was told that she was not so much an enema enthusiast and not overly fond of anal intercourse. I asked if that suited him and he said that it did, and that he could have his heart’s desire once he returned home. 🌹 Good answer. ? I asked him if he loved her? Of course he did and she had been a family friend of his parents and my husband since their days in school. I have met her on occasions but we don’t speak of her having sex with my Steve. But we know of the others sexual partners and I rely on my husband and her to keep the health of all involved at the foremost. She is divorced and satisfied with those sexual encounters with my husband and she is discrete and not prone to be the whore that I am.

There is an affection between my Steve and this woman, his childhood acquaintance and now intimate friend. He is not one who is all about the ‘fuck’ for fucking’s sake, and does need to have more than just a little connection for it to mean anything to him. We are apart far too often and part of our sexploration was to give us a way to deal with that and understand that there are those times when the physical distance between us could make our marriage vulnerable and us not being near the other to talk it out, or to tap into that sexual loneliness that we both felt at time prior to where we are now.

When we were sharing ourselves with our little circle of couples, Lora and Tom, Ruthie and Dave, and occasionally Gibby and Pete, they were people in our lives, our circle, and we knew each other very well. We were in proximity of the other and sexual encounters more or less happened because we had access to one another. 🌹 And if the urge or mood was there for myself and one of our couples, we would act on it and all was good. ? But my Steve had to travel often and many times if he felt the urge or need, we would do our phone sex but sometimes I could feel that more was needed by him and so, his childhood chum was the first and so far, only, other person with access to my Steve other than our circle.

Cedar is the first man that I have been with outside of our circle. I had known of him for almost as long as Lora did but from afar and no closer than Lora’s relationship. All those years ago my impression of him at that time was that he was not that approachable, somewhat distant, cordial but always on guard and with an ‘situational awareness’ and professional bearing that existed just under the surface and solitary. Solitary. And as I did not know him in those very early days, the wall I felt from him was there. It had to be there.

I came into closer observation of him some years ago when Lora was hired with the entity where he worked. That was over 30 or so years ago and she transferred into his division. They became friends through that time and he was her supervisor and she noted to me that she appreciated that he respected her for the job that she did, the person she was, and made her feel that he held her in high regard as a professional that she had become. And she was. She oft times referred to him as ‘steadfast’ and ‘fucking spooky’ in what he would see and feel when he was working.

Lora was not very diplomatic in those days but then again she never really was in all the time that I knew her in school. She could be something of an ass and broached no foolishness from those she worked with. She came to be a force to be reckoned with and cowed some of those she worked with but they respected her just as Cedar did and those men she was there to assist would defer to her judgment and direction when necessary. She was the last word.

Almost. It might be said that Lora had her ‘bluff’ in with those she had to direct or assist, and they deferred to her, it was because Cedar would or did make it known that she was to be listened to. And should she get ‘too big for her britches’ I would sometimes see herself immediately defer to Cedar at times. It only took a glance and I had to snicker sometimes when she would tell of this ‘look’ he would give her. It rather would ‘put her in her place’, deservedly so as she would admit, but there wasn’t any celebration among those she directed. She also had this ‘look’ that kept them from expressing any joy. 😁 😁 😁

In hindsight, and through reading about their love, yes, love, it was there to see all along. But it wasn’t a romantic love at that time as Lora fell pregnant with DD, and her family would be needing her more. I remember this, that there was an event that came next and set me to learn more about Cedar and her, but only in hindsight.

Suddenly, Cedar wasn’t there anymore. Just like that Lora was left with the loss of Cedar and their budding friendship but the birth of DD was soon to happen and Lora made the only choice she could as a mother. I don’t recall how long afterwards but Cedar would be gone for over a year or more.

Lora and I became even closer once her daughter began walk about and Lora began her catering business. That brought us closer together and our own friendship went from knowing of the other, to getting to know the other better. And then her marriage to Tom began to show some strain and my own with my Steve also needed work or better direction as his position took him away from home more and more.

I watched what was going on in Lora’s and Tom’s marriage and feared they would one day part. She had returned to work where she once again found Cedar and all that found them become friends. Although, Cedar was a gentleman. Not a term of endearment according to Lora, and to be sure, his being a gentleman was a pain in the ass.

Lora’s mood had been ‘going dark’ as her marriage deteriorated and then, it began to improve. It greatly improved and yet Tom didn’t seem to be much a part of that. She and Cedar had taken separate paths and yet, I found out by stalking her here, she had initiated contact with him again. Her attitude, mood, and outlook on life began to improve more and more. Was I happy for her? No! She must have been having an affair and I didn’t want something to happen to her marriage with a terrific man named Tom.

Time went on and I was certain she was having an affair, she didn’t know how to cover her tracks when it came to the internet. Still, she was my friend and all I could do was watch and hope she didn’t do something stupid. Then she and Tom began to reconnect with each other more and more and more.

What the bloody hell was going on with this woman? But at the same time her marriage with Tom began to really click again and in major new ways. And who was this sodding home wrecker she had an affair with and was it now over because she and her husband were now doing famously with each other.

I did what any friend would do, and offered her office space in my shop so that we could better coordinate our businesses with each other. She believed that! 😈 I even let her use a computer that had internet connection. I am so nice that way.

She wasn’t very savvy in the ways of security and here I am. 😈 😁 😁

And my Steve and I learned about things from what we had been doing and also from things I learned of from here.

I found out it was Cedar. 🌹

And because of his and Lora’s love, though they denied it to themselves, my Steve and I knew we were not alone in wanting to make our marriage better and we made a promise to each other that we would communicate. We did.

Tonight, we communicated with each other in this room and he is a bit annoyed with the glow of this computer screen keeping him from his deep sleep and the tapping of these keys. This SIP has given us pause to take stock in where we are and if this is the right time to make our marriage exclusive to one another.

Right now we have to because of circumstances, but we both spoke what was in our hearts and minds and we both are not the sort to have sex with another person and not have some feelings for them. But we still are very much in love with the other and I know I am his Queen as much as he knows he is my King. And for now, and if and when this world gets back to ‘normal’ we will each enjoy those relationships we have outside of our marriage until we both decide that we’ve had our fill of sexploration with others and become exclusive to the other.

I will copy and paste this into Zity.Biz and listen to my husband’s heart beat as I lay my head on his chest. Undoubtedly this will cause him to wonder why there is this weight on his chest and what does that have to do with the feeling that someone is fondling his cock. 😈

If that doesn’t work I will have to take matters into my own hand and suck him awake. 😈

SIP everyone and stay well. 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹

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And dear Cedar 🌹

PS, please forgive any mistakes and if there are, I will correct them later.

With my husband and myself, it's a bit of a strange mood in that we are together more than we ever have been even at the outset of our marriage. Or more precisely we are alone together much more that we are accustomed and yet there is a sense of freedom to further our sexploration with one another. I've totally embraced the 'total access' bit and we've been feeling our way about regarding 'boundaries'. More out of caution that we do not invade the others personal needs for privacy to sort out our feelings about this closeness and trying to find that balance.

I am finding myself fascinated with this man I married and am no longer assured that I know of all of his proclivities by some of the ways he has touched me, physically and emotionally. I'm only really coming to realize this about him and me and I have to say that I like this very much. As do I, my Steve has another woman in his life that he has regular sexual relations with and as is his nature, she is not just another sexual encounter for him to fuck while we are apart. She's the woman, the friend, and I feel, the confidant he can speak to regarding our own marriage.

We both have remarked to the other at how our 'friends with benefits' allow us to sort things out about how my Steve and I feel about the other and we bring that back home to our marital bed. I feel that I am appreciated more by my husband and that he feels freer to seek out my thoughts on different things because he has 'rehearsed' what it is he wants to say or ask or do with her. I know he appreciates my times with EB and how I feel more at ease with exploring with him in our marriage. This pandemic has made it so we can 'bring it all home' to each other what we have learned while apart.

And I think I will stop here, copy what I've written, and paste it to my site for follow up.

I posted this on another thread and wanted to add to it here on my own thread.

As I have said before, my husband Steve, and I have been 'sexploring' and have a somewhat open marriage, though it is limited to some extent. The woman my husband is fucking, I'll call her Charlotte, lives in another state where he has his headquarters and I've met her a few times, her husband too. However her husband and I haven't shared a bed because there hasn't been the opportunity and I don't know that we will seek each other out in that way. I have to say that I would not be opposed to it but it just isn't all that practical and more like as not, it has everything to do with proximity.

But my husband is the sort that feels that he has to care about the one he fucks and forms some bit of emotional attachment. Whereas I could really see myself with multiple sexual partners, or encounters, that would not necessarily need an emotional attachment or pretense for my fucking them. I could really be a whore, at least until I felt that I didn't want that any more for myself. But I'm all too aware of the diseases out there and I'm just not willing to bring that back home to my Steve. This Charlotte, the woman he is fucking, is a woman I trust and her husband is a decent sort and I could see having him if things were different.

As it is, I too have an emotional attachment to the men that I bed. And I have sought out and studied his 'manhood' and 'manliness' in hopes of bringing more of a woman home to my Steve. 🌹 I feel freer to ask 'those' questions of one in particular, EB 🌹 and not fear that I will jeopardize my marriage by saying something wrong and be misunderstood. EB calls himself as my Beta Tester that I can 'rehearse' what I want to say or ask or impart to my beloved husband.

And as it stands now with this quarantine fuckery, my husband asked me if I wanted him to once again become exclusive to me and I to him. He brought this up the other morning and then again that night when we were done with our day and we had released with each other. Clearing our heads so to speak.

I honestly confided in this man whose penis was still inside of my vagina that I very much enjoyed the feel of all of him and how there was an element to himself that I no longer assumed that I knew all there was to know about him. It was a conversation that we needed to have but only as we were having it, him atop of me and in each others arms. I do adore this man more than any other person I have ever known in my life and I told him so as I openly and honestly explained to him that I do not take him for granted as I may have considered prior to our opening our marriage and especially since the death of a beautiful man named Tom.

The deaths of @Lora_C and her Tom were profoundly felt by the two of us as we both loved them as friends in every sense of the word. I told my Steve that I can never take what we have for granted any more and that his having a lover, a confidant, that he shares a part of himself with has made me appreciate us more than ever.

But because he had brought up the subject of making ourselves exclusive to the other, I had to ask him if this was on his mind and in his heart. He was silent for ages and ages and ages it seemed and he told me that 'I am yours.' 🌹 And I was at once elated but at the same time that flash of no longer having EB as such was heartbreaking.

I lay beneath my husband, his penis inside of me, his arms around me as it should be and I was happy to have this, to have him, in my life, and always have felt this way about him. 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹

I was going to have to have 'that talk' with EB and had I not been looking into my Steve's eyes and saw what I was feeling in his own face, I simply remarked to him what I was seeing, 'You don't want to say goodbye to Charlotte,' and added 'either.' And I told my Steve that I truthfully adored what she brought out in him and that I loved that he brought that back home to us. I asked him if this would cease if we were to once again become exclusive to the other?

Neither of us wants to find that out.

And I felt my Steve's penis once again making its presence known inside of me and he set me on the waves, one after the other and the next one higher than the last. We had made our decision for who we are at this point in our lives, in our marriage, and for now, Charlotte will be in his life, our lives, as will EB. 🌹 🌹 🌹

We both know that someday this will come up again and it may be differently answered, but we won't be afraid to say what is in our hearts to the other. 🌹

I love what my husband has brought to our bed and I am falling in love with him, the man he is becoming now, and I cannot take him for granted. 🌹 🌹 🌹

Nothing is for sure or forever.

@Ms_Lila said, "I was going to have to have 'that talk' with EB and ..."

Will what EB wants have any part of the decision you may make regarding him? Will Charlotte have any say or part of the decision with your husband, Steve if you both decide to close off your marriage?

You've said somewhere that if either you or your husband want to close the marriage, then that will be it for any sex outside of your marriage. Just like that?

I don't have a clue as to what kind of woman, what kind of person Charlotte is, but is she some whore your husband is fucking that can just "turn it off" if you decide to tell your husband that you want to close your marriage back up to just you two? If your husband has to have or feels better about fucking her if they have some other connection than his cock in her pussy, that emotional attachment, wouldn't she be the same, too? Is your husband just another guy she fucks and it would be no big deal if you decided to shut it all down? As I have said, Beth Anne, I don't know her or what her marriage is like.

Who I do know, sort of through here, is EB. So you could just call him up and say, "Remember that last time we fucked? Well that was it. Nice knowing you." Click! The thing is, what you wrote on his thread totally tells me that it wouldn't be the way you would want to leave it. I don't think you would want to leave it. And your husband, he isn't a cold blooded asshole that would just up and say, "Nice fucking you Charlotte! Hope you don't mind if I just keep it with my wife from now on."

Why in the hell would you even have that "condition" in your marriage still? Why even bring it up anymore? Why or what kind of person would ask the other one to give up someone they really "enjoy" just because they want to go back to the old arrangement? Yes I know! It's a marriage. The fucking sacred vows.

Your husband might be able to let his fucking Charlotte end because he was transferred or something and wouldn't be going back there. She would understand that and be able to accept it better than say, Cedar who works only a couple of blocks from your shop and has to go by there. Could you be that matter of fact, "hey babe, we can't fuck anymore because we want to go back to the old marriage vows." 😕

It was one thing when @Lora_C died and your husband couldn't fuck her anymore. And it was another thing when Tom died and you couldn't fuck him anymore. Neither one of you, your husband or yourself, said, you can't fuck the surviving spouse because I can't fuck the other one who died. They were your friends!

You haven't asked your husband to stop fucking Charlotte because you recognize that he has an emotional attachment and she isn't some gold digging cunt who can be a whore and turn it on and off at will. Otherwise your husband wouldn't even be interested in her as a friend, let alone someone he fucks and who has made you see something good in her by what he does with you when he gets home. Am I wrong? What kind of woman would ask her husband to do that after agreeing in the first place to open up their marriage so they could "sexplore" and bring something home to make each other happy?

I know you wrote that beautiful and erotic post over at @Cedar's, but did you READ it?! And from what I read here, you were damned glad that your husband didn't want to shut things down again so you would have to "have that talk" with Cedar. And how was that fuck you two had after you both agreed that things would continue as they were and no one would have to "have that talk"? It sounded like a really good fuck if you ask me! 😜

BECAUSE BOTH OF YOU WERE GLAD THAT YOU COULD STILL FUCK YOUR FRIENDS!

Be honest, why even have that "option" to close or keep open your marriage? If you both aren't at the same place at the same time, and don't give a fuck about the "other woman" or the "other man" and their feelings, then why even worry about it? Why bring it up?

I just don't see you as this kind of person, this kind of woman, this kind of friend. I don't see your husband as being that way either because you both love each other.

Let it the fuck go. Or listen to that damned song from "FROZEN" my six year old daughter plays every single day, "LET IT GO". 😧 😮

You're not built that way and neither is your husband.

That would be something called NO SHIT & NO SUGAR.

WTF? You've got it good. Don't fuck it up.

I think we are coming to realize this about ourselves @Dahiana. ? ?

Bitch. ? ? ? ? ? ? ?

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BECAUSE BOTH OF YOU WERE GLAD THAT YOU COULD STILL FUCK YOUR FRIENDS!

Be honest, why even have that "option" to close or keep open your marriage? If you both aren't at the same place at the same time, and don't give a fuck about the "other woman" or the "other man" and their feelings, then why even worry about it? Why bring it up?

I just don't see you as this kind of person, this kind of woman, this kind of friend. I don't see your husband as being that way either because you both love each other.

Let it the fuck go. Or listen to that damned song from "FROZEN" my six year old daughter plays every single day, "LET IT GO". 😧 😮

You're not built that way and neither is your husband.

That would be something called NO SHIT & NO SUGAR.

WTF? You've got it good. Don't fuck it up.

Wow, that was intense. Remind me never to get on your bad side!

Wow, that was intense. Remind me never to get on your bad side!

Whose bad side? I have none.

RIGHT? ?

Whose bad side? I have none.

RIGHT? ?

Dahaina's bad side. She really lit you up.

@Dahiana ... you need a nice warm enema and a ass burning spanking. ?

Or a filter ... a filter would be nice. ?

@Dahiana ... you need a nice warm enema and a ass burning spanking. ?

Or a filter ... a filter would be nice. ?

Sounds like you both do. Unfortunately I am unavailable for that as traveling is impossible as long as Cyrus the Virus is loose.

Sounds like you both do. Unfortunately I am unavailable for that as traveling is impossible as long as Cyrus the Virus is loose.

Says the dead man walking. ? ?

But @Dahiana is also right. Blunt. No filter. Right for the jugular.

Heaven help me, but I do like her. ❤️

Side note:

Has it occurred to anyone else that someone (the only name I could come up with is Ryan Seacrest, but he’s way too PG-13) with connections could turn this all into a smash hit on-going TV series which might prove very lucrative to the screenplay writers - um, that’s you guys and gals who play a role here? I for one would tune in daily as I adore all the characters.❤️?

Not that you had anything whatsoever to do with a conversation my husband and I have started this morning @Dahiana ? but he and I are having another look at a agreement we made at the outset of our sexploration. That of our agreeing to abide by the others wishes to close our marriage and become exclusive to only ourselves. The agreement where either one of us could unilaterally decide that we no longer wanted to engage in sex outside of our marriage and that the other would agree to do the same.

With the loss of our two closest friends and fellow sexplorers in Lora and Tom, and with our other friends, Ruthie and Dave, traveling in different circles these days, we've found that we don't really have other couples we both can share with each other. @gibby and her husband Pete, are the only other real couple that we can be with and share each other with in a give and take fashion and enjoy their company at the same time. The distance of our sexual friends doesn't make it very handy to pop in on each other and share some quality time.

It was always a 'protocol' or 'etiquette' with our three couples that if I was having sex with her husband, that she was entirely free to have sex with mine. It was this way so that a person outside of our 'little circle' couldn't just come in and lay one of us without bringing something of value with them, such as their wife or husband, so that we all could share. That was one of the things that put me off of Ruthie's Dave in that he would drop by and have me or have Lora but Ruthie either discontinued or avoided 'returning the favour' of giving herself to one of our husbands. It felt as though Dave was 'dipping his pen' in the ink well of another couple without there being a chance to share in his inkwell. And thinking of this as I write, those were some complicated times.

We had always made and exception for @Lora_C and her @Cedar because, in so many ways, she was the leader of the 'little circle' and the glue that held us together. And indeed she was ? and EB was 'unofficially' inducted into our little circle when Gibby failed to observe proper etiquette and seek permission or at the very least give notice that she wanted to fuck EB. ? ? ? I had the distinct feeling that Lora would have loved to have kicked her ass but was all to aware that the short one was a bad ass little ninja who wasn't going let Lora forget that if Lora was fucking her, then Gibby should be allowed to fuck Cedar. At least that is my understanding. Still and all, that did 'chap' Lora's ass for a while. ? As to my being able to fuck EB, I was around her more and we were far more sexually available to the other and I did let them use the upstairs, and well. ? ? I knew when to bring up the subject of 'rent' and that it was best done in the heat of the moment. I was also aware that the heat of the moment was the best time to overcum a certain person's penchant for being a gentleman. Wait for that moment when he doesn't have enough blood to run TWO heads and the divided attention of a woman being fucked and more or less invite myself. ? ? ? ? So I did. ?

And as I said before about my Steve and his intimate friend up state, we both are friends with the couple and if I were to be able to travel more with my husband, I could see becoming sexually involved with him. And her too for that matter, my husband has good taste in women. ? And this still isn't out of the realm of possibility if Steve would one day want to fly them back to our home for a visit. And this is being considered because his Charlotte and her husband are personal friends and colleagues of my Steve. And this is something Steve has brought up more recently and to be honest, I rather like the idea.

Yes I do like the idea and told him as much this morning when he gave me my favourite wake up enema followed by the feel of him inside of me as I took it. And we talked about our agreement and I wasn't the only one wondering what impact either of our unilateral decisions to make us an exclusive couple once again on our 'partners'. AND no @Dahiana yours wasn't one of the guiding thoughts because I rarely think of a brat when I am having and enema and my vagina is filled with the penis of a man I love. So there!

I have known this of my husband for quite some time, that if I were the one to decide to 'exercise the exclusivity clause' in our marriage that it would be very difficult for him to turn off his feelings for the one, or ones, he was having sexual relations with. Possibly one of his strengths that I love and admire is that he isn't out just to fuck or run up the score, he actually and honestly cares about those or the one that he is fucking at the time. ? ? ? ?

And if it were anyone else but EB, I probably could be detached enough to consider it fucking only and not feel too badly about ending the sex and moving on. Although I am told by my Steve that enemas are not part of his relationship with Charlotte, he does feel close to her and her husband as friends. And that it may be all but necessary and welcome by me, to 'return the favour' to Charlotte's husband if he were so inclined. I made this known to my Steve as we embraced this morning and I believe this will be something we will make happen and Charlotte's husband is a very nice man and we shall see. I know this is a very real possibility and if it is to be, then this is what I want too.

As I understand, Charlotte's husband is about the same age as Tom was and also has health issues that, in Charlotte's husband's words, make it challenging. There is more to this conversation and it will be discussed further by my husband and I but I needed him to know that I am very much open to discussing this with him as a priority and dependent upon this fuckery of the COVID-19.

The uptake of this lengthy post is that, and it boils down to, neither my husband nor I, really want to unilaterally make the decision to end any outside relationships at this time. And to be very honest to a brutally honest @Dahiana I love and adore my husband and want to make him happy. And NO, I am not contemplating fucking Charlotte's husband just so my Steve can continue to bed her. They are a nice couple and interesting to know.

And I won't lie to anyone here and say that my EB remaining in my life and bed isn't something I am thankful for. ? ? ? ? I want him to continue to be my very intimate friend.

So, you're not mad anymore? 😁

So, you're not mad anymore? 😁

You're a right pain in the ass. ?

At least you didn't post the finger emoji.

At least you didn't post the finger emoji.

This one? ?

Never crossed my mind. ?

You two should really kiss and make up ... and let us watch. 😉 😈

You two should really kiss and make up ... and let us watch. 😉 😈

In this case three might not be a crowd. Go for it!

My husband just left the shop about an hour ago and he and I are wondering if maybe we've turned another corner in our sexploration or just realized we are developing another attitude about our sex. I've always believed that my husband had 'total access' to me at his pleasure and me to him, but we may have lacked a bit in the spontaneity department in that we oft times got ourselves 'in sync' with the other.

This post is more just me jotting down some thoughts for later, but my Steve dropped in and for some reason I was just in the mood for a very quick encounter 'just because' and I acted on it. He did remark that this was out of the blue but 'let's do it' and so we did. It was not long or involved and neither of us really had to get undressed and to be precise, he was the only one exposed for only so long as it took me to go down on him and take his ejaculate and it was done. 😈 🌹 I don't even think it counted as a quickie to be honest and it was truly, 'just because.'

He didn't ask why and made the necessary erection available and I took care of that in short order. It wasn't that I was particularly aroused per se and I just felt like it. 😉 He did too. 😉 Monumental and earth moving? No. Fun and worth it? Definitely. 🌹 We both felt a difference with this little quick encounter and I chalk it up to that, 'just felt like it so I did it.' It wasn't one of those, 'wait until I get home to do something about it' and hope he's in the mood. And he wasn't this, 'can't I say what I'm here for and then ___ ?' 🙄 When you live with someone I think you begin to adjust your impulses around or considering timing in the moment and or the mood.

Not today. 😈

It's a lot like when EB drops by and I find my skirt hiked up and making most of the moment because it may not happen again or be there later. Feel it. Do it. And he does or I do or we both do, but the point is, WE DO IT! I think my husband and I are going to adopt this for ourselves. The only thing is that will we need to pace ourselves so that even spontaneity doesn't become predictable and routine and thus not spontaneous.

By the way, my husband forgot why he dropped by the shop. 😁 😁 😁

By the way, my husband forgot why he dropped by the shop. 😁 😁 😁

Well, yeah. 😕 You sucked his memory right out of him.

I liked this one, "The proper reply is, 'Not a needle dicked bug fucker like you!' But that's just me. 😉 " It came from this #21.

@Night_Pilot said, "I liked this one, "The proper reply is, 'Not a needle dicked bug fucker like you!' But that's just me. 😉 " It came from this #21."

There is an easier way to make a quote from an older post;

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=822221

It turns into a link when you post it and people can go back to read it from there. I loved that one, too.

You can make a link and quote from the post by the "chain links" by the number of the post. When you mouse over it you will see "permalink". Click that and it will take you to the post. ?

I liked this one, "The proper reply is, 'Not a needle dicked bug fucker like you!' But that's just me. 😉 " It came from this #21.

Sometimes I do have 'potty mouth'. 😁 😁 😁

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1081171

I think I have this right as far as the link goes.

My take on that post above, if I did it right, is that you, Ms Lila, have a friend outside of your marriage that you can talk to about anything and them be somewhat objective? Is this the way you view your relationship with Cedar and how Charlotte fits in, too?

I think I have this right as far as the link goes.

@Night_Pilot It is a good idea to quote the post you are answering, you can use Insert Quote to do it. Just keep the bits of the post you are talking about though.

I think I have this right as far as the link goes.

My take on that post above, if I did it right, is that you, Ms Lila, have a friend outside of your marriage that you can talk to about anything and them be somewhat objective? Is this the way you view your relationship with Cedar and how Charlotte fits in, too?

@Night_Pilot (if you put an @ sign in front of the name, it turns it into a link).

In our 'sexploration' and our 'little circle' of the past, having lovers outside of our sexual circle gives each of us the ability to better explore our feelings about something so very intimate. Charlotte is more than 'just a fuck' and there is an emotional attachment there very much like my friendship with @Cedar. Knowing that there is and emotional attachment or that Charlotte isn't just someone my husband fucks to be fucking, confirms that he is all the man I know him to be, and maybe a little bit more. 🌹

Our 'sexploration' is now at the point where we are very much naked to each other. Questions I would ask and like to know about Charlotte would include knowing if she fits the or is entitled to be called a true friend. Would she be worthy to share my husband? And why?

@Night_Pilot It is a good idea to quote the post you are answering, you can use Insert Quote to do it. Just keep the bits of the post you are talking about though.

Like this?

Our 'sexploration' is now at the point where we are very much naked to each other. Questions I would ask and like to know about Charlotte would include knowing if she fits the or is entitled to be called a true friend. Would she be worthy to share my husband? And why?

@Ms_Lila that could take awhile if what you write, and some of the others write, is any indication.

@Night_Pilot '@Ms_Lila that could take awhile if what you write, and some of the others write, is any indication.'

Indeed. And I might suggest that when you do begin to tell of your story, that you start your own 'thread' or 'topic' to keep your posts. It was suggested to me some time ago and I think it was a good idea to have a thread of your own.

You'd best get cracking. 😁 😉