Wives Spanked by their Husbands

Hi :-) New to this site, but I am just wondering if there are any wives here who are part of a taken in hand - relationship?

My wife takes me in hand whenever she thinks I need it.

What a beautiful phrase. And it explains a spanking relationship beautifully wanting a relationship like this is for many of us deeply loving thing. Corrective guidance is often a goal. For me it is effective not necessarily because of the pain although I don't try to act out usually. And I hate the idea that I have dispointed someone I care about.

My apologies for the ignorance to this relationship, being posted under spanking I assumed it was a phrase I had heard in childhood referring to mentoring. I did discover this very brief description that I thought I would share to clarify things for others as uninformed as me. I could have shared the link but coping seemed as easy.

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Taken In Hand relationships are wholehearted sexually-exclusive marriages in which the husband wears the trousers and is firmly in charge (to his wife's delight!)—and he always puts his wife and their relationship first. Putting her and the relationship first is the key to creating a marriage in which the man is in control in a good, healthy and sustainable way.

Taken In Hand is neither all about the man, as in some D/s relationships in which the man has control, nor is it all about the woman, as in some DD relationships—it is for both. Neither spouse is a self-absorbed narcissist.

The wives in Taken In Hand relationships tend not to claim to be submissive (though their husbands may well consider them to be so) but they do strongly prefer not to be the one in charge in their relationship, and they do respect, honour and appreciate their husbands and strive to please them.

The husbands in Taken In Hand relationships tend not to claim to be dominant (though their wives may well consider them to be so) but they do strongly prefer to be the one wearing the trousers in their marriage, and they do enjoy dominating and submitting their wife when necessary to maintain their position—and indeed for the pure fun of it.

Taken In Hand is about using the power of a white-hot sexual connection to create a rock-solid permanent bond between husband and wife. It is intended to be fun and sexy, not a duty or a burden. If you don't find the idea of Taken In Hand exciting or at least strangely attractive, it is not for you. Taken In Hand is not compulsory!

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Still sounds beautiful to me and placement seems to indicate some of these TH relationships include discipline.

Hi All,

How many of you are wives that are spanked by your husbands, or even I guess girls\ladies spanked by their boyfriends?

I get spanked by my hubby, but its not sexual or a turn on, more that hubby is ridiculously old fashioned and thinks were still in the 15th century. Luckily I don't get them often these days but they do still happen, and when they do, its never a good day for me, and leaves me feeling like a 12yo again, instead of the older wife and mum I am.

Donna

My husband and I practice a CDD marriage and yes it includes corporal punishment with his belt when I'm disobedient. Usually about once a month I'm sent to our bedroom and required to disrobe and get on all fours sometimes and get my butt whipped with my husband's belt.

My husband and I practice a CDD marriage

Could you explain the abbreviation CDD? I am assuming it contains the words 'correction' and 'discipline' but that may be wrong on my part.

Agracier, I believe it stands for Christian Domestic Discipline

Agracier, I believe it stands for Christian Domestic Discipline

Ahhh ... thanks. I got 1 out of 3 correct. I guess that's a failing grade. Just don't expect me to submit to any discipline, Christian or otherwise ... I am not the kind to turn other cheeks - of any kind ... 😃

I picked up our kids from school today and had to wait an extra 30 minutes while my son served his second detention in less than two weeks..I was pretty upset and called my husband to tell him..I was forced to admit that I didn't tell him about the other detention which upset him greatly because I'm supposed to tell him everything especially when one of the kids misbehave. When we got home I told our son to wait in our bedroom for his father to get home. I knew I was gonna have a session with the belt also but focused on my son who received 15 licks and was sent to his room and then it wads my turn and I received 15 also followed by anal sex which is very common in our marriage especially after a whipping. Needless to say I will tell my husband everything from now on.

I am- please read my profile! -Gabrielle

News to this site as well. Not sure why but it seems like out of nowhere that I want to see my partner getting spanked by others. Just a fantasy right now as I am exploring more about it myself

How i wish i was taken in hand! My poor bare behind gets blistered with a Laser Stinger paddle.

Although I spank my husband, our marriage of 26+ years has evolved to the point to where i also get punished, once in a while. Mike gets the razor strap, but I get a 3 foot long rattan cane with the crooked handle.

I knew I was gonna have a session with the belt also but focused on my son who received 15 licks and was sent to his room and then it wads my turn and I received 15 also

Interesting; I assume your son understands the relationship between you and your husband. It is good to have a well disciplined household, and a clear Head of Household.

Great wife----very happy marriage----My wife is of a more Christian religious nature--so its automatic--for certain conducts with my male friend of which my religious wife is highly offended----I get my naked butt paddled no argument it odes not occur often but it happens No argument from me I got it coming--I want it to tget it done that night --to which she agrees--I quick shower--go over her lap--most of me is over sofa and beyond as I am a big guy she paddles me and it really hurts on my bare butt! When I am walking naked out of the shower to get the paddle I am thinking "What a damn fool"--When I am having fun with the guys I am thinking "It won't hurt THAT much" It hurts a lot! I never argue as I got it coming I never try to get never t o stop and I hardly move---but verbally I am doing child like apologies like "it hurts too much" "I'm sorry" I will be good" I sound like I am 7! any other guys like me I always felt like we were the only couple in the world???

My wife spanks me fairly frequently as foreplay. We both enjoy it. I have asked her several time if I could spank her. She said that she got enough at home when she was young. One time I was sitting on the toilet and she walked by fully clothed and I smacked her pretty hard on one butt cheek and she turned the other cheek to me so I could smack it to so both felt the same.

Last week I was at a party and ping pong paddles were given out to everyone. There were tables there to play but most everyone had some drinks, talked and then went home with their paddles. I don't know what others did with theirs but here is what we did.

We currently have five spanking instruments. A wooden paint paddle that is about 2 feet long, an inch and a half wide and about 3/8 inch thick. There is also a leather cane, a wooden doll rod about 3 feet long and 1/4 inch thick, another wooden doll rod about 3 feet long and 3/8 inch thick along with a riding crop and now the ping pong paddle. These items are used by my wife on occasion to give me a spanking.

When I presented the ping pong paddle she immediately wanted to use it and as she said, break it in. I was ordered to strip and put on my wrist and ankle cuffs and my neck collar and leash. She put the parachute around my balls, attached a two pound weight and led me downstairs by my leash. I was taken to our spanking table where I bent over it, my wrists were attached to the legs in front and my ankles to the legs in back. She then sprayed my ass with water. Water makes the spanking sting more and after about 15 - 20 swats she always sprays it again. Sometimes she uses baby oil sprayed from another bottle. The baby oil not only makes the sting worse, it hold in the heat.

The first thing she did was give me 100 swats on each ass cheek with the ping pong paddle. I can tell you my ass was sore. Over the years she has learned that when spanking to put everything into it so most swats are well placed and carry a wallop. Following that I received 20 swats with each of the wooden doll rods. They are thin and flexible and really do sting and leave welts as did the 20 swats from the leather cane. She took a picture of my ass and I saw how red my ass was and there were welts. Next she used the riding crop and gave me 40 swats with it and ended the session with 40 swats with the wooden paint paddle. The total I received was 340 swats. She then untied me from the table and led me upstairs to the living room. Using rope she tied my wrists to the collar I was wearing and then made me go stand in a corner where I stood for a half hour with my red and sore ass and the two pounds of weights still hanging from my balls. She took a picture of my ass. The pictures she prints and puts in a photo album that is kept in the living room in a magazine rack. To my knowledge no one has ever looked at the pictures but that does not mean she has not shown them to some of her girlfriends.

She really does like the ping pong paddle. She has told me that by the end of the year I will be taught to take 400 swats to each ass cheek in one spanking session. I have no doubt that will happen.

Before my pregnancy (i'm due in August), I was paddled by my husband on his system. 10 paddle whacks for each demerit! That Laser Stinger paddle was awful and really scorched my bare bottom, especially f I had more than one offence. Every Friday was reckoning time for me, at 8PM sharp, if I had any demerits.