Nervous as to what to expect from a belt?

Hi,

I'm happily married for 7 years, with spanking being on and off since the beginning because of my uncertainty of the "normality" of wanting to be spanked by my husband. We've been through play-spanking, erotical, and punishment. The latter has been gone for a long time. A few nights ago though, I only went to bed at 5am, after several nights of going to bed late. I suspected that I might receive a playful spanking, but he surprised me and got very strict. After the spanking was done with he told me that he expects me to get to bed earlier, and specified some time frames. He told me that if I am up too late again he'll use his belt.

Mostly I am spanked with his hands, but I have also been spanked with a wooden hair brush, a round plastic bath brush, a sort of "whip" from braided curtain holders, but never the belt. I kind of dread it, but I think it will be effective. On a scale of 1-10, how bad is the belt compared to the other tools?

. . . . On a scale of 1-10, how bad is the belt compared to the other tools?

Plain and simple, it depends on how hard you swing.

NO ONE can give you a concrete answer.

I can swing a belt that will hurt less than a spanking or swing it so you bleed.

Mein Gott, Susie, you are always so, so, so direct and to the point. No time wasted with you. ?

Goodness, that sounds ominous. Thanks for being frank.

Is it only me but that's part of the fun the little feeling of dread (but knowing can stop it my time) and not knowing how it will feel.

I'll echo susie it depends how the belt is used but yeah can be very intense and painful. Start slow and build up if it's worrying you.

Have fun 😃

Charlotte, it's definitely part of the fun ? I think he's noticed that I haven't mentioned the belt before, and wanted to see my reaction to it as well. Hehe, I think he enjoyed it. I think he'll be pretty slow at first, I'm not worried like that in any way. I guess everyone has a tool or two they might be more concerned about before experiencing them though. For me it's the belt at least :-P Happily dreading the first encounter ?

For what it's worth, my father's favorite punishment device was the belt. It was always much more painful than anything else that I ever received. But that may have been due to the fact that it was usually my father swinging it, rather than my mother.

Depends on a couple of factors, a thin belt acts more like a whip and is more focused, where a wide belt distributes the "feeling" over a bigger area. Hard leather vs soft leather also can change the feeling. I grew up learning to fear an old Army woven web belt and that would leave a mark or three...

Elaine (who just added an older leather covered riding crop to her toy pile...)

Expect a good sting... in general a belt is less damaging than something like a hair brush... That said as it has been pointed out it really depends on how hard it is swung it also depends on the belt itself... a thin leather belt will bite deeper than a wide leather belt. If your husband has a western belt with raw leather on the back and used that you might felt it was gentler than his hand... I hope it is wide belt with a relatively smooth surface... It has been said Dad's belt is a boys best friend, and may well turn out to be your best friend too... best of all your husband just needs to touch the buckle area of his belt to remind you to behave... or a subtle reminder to indicate what is going to happen later on.

Over the years with Doc I have discovered that I LOVE being spanked with his leather belt. I have been spanked with various items and as far as pain goes a leather belt is in my opinion about the middle of the road. I am not sure what it is about his belt but it is by far as spanking implements are concerned, what turns me on the most. It's just so hot to me. So yummy!

Mashie

You're nervous about what to expect from a belt???

You have a belt??? Hit yourself with it.

Start easy and build up to some good hard cracks with it.

I recommend NOT using the buckle.

Oh God... It hurts so bad if they don't exercise control.

It's going to sting a lot and will heat up your tush pretty quick. You will feel it even more in your sit spots.

Having been spanked both as a child and adult with a variety of implements, I much prefer leather / belts. It stings, but does not bring the intensity of pain one would get from wood / paddle. You can be spanked longer with a belt - with a paddle, you get sore too quickly.

As a fan of spanking, I'd love to try a belt on her. If she's that worried about it matbe, just maybe I'd let her try it out on me first. My to do list just keeps growing on here lol

My sisters and I are still spanked with a belt by our step mother. I started to find it erotic when I was 15. I was told that I would get a strapping before bed and that I should report to her room at 8 sharp. The more I thought about it the more sexually excited I found myself getting. I had been wearing my sister's panties secretly since I was 13. I showed up at my mother's bedroom and forgot to change the panties. She was sitting in her chair and my sisters were there also which was the way she did it. If one was spanked the others watched. She told me to get ready and I knew what to do. I took my jeans off and went over and bent over the desk. She then asked me if I had been wearing panties since the first time when I was 13 and had to wear them because I wet the bed at my cousin's I admitted that I had and she asked whose they were. I told her. "We'll deal with the panties later. Right now let's get on with it. You know how this goes." I have to ask to be spanked. "Please may I be punished for being naughty." She then asked how many lashes and I said twenty. I then had to bend over the desk again and hold on. as soon as I bent over the desk I started to get a boner. She then pulled back and laid the first one on my butt. I had to count them out. "Two ma'am" etc. After ten she stopped and I had to say "please may I have ten more." She came over and pulled the panties down and then to my surprise gave the strap to my older sister. "You give him the next ten because I suspect those are our panties." My step-sister than laid the next ten on my bare butt. They stung and when she was done my butt was sore. I pulled the panties up and before I could pull my jeans on my step mother said, "turn around." She saw my boner and so did the girls. "If you like this so much we'll do it more often." "Now, thank your sister for the strapping and go get a fresh diaper and plastic panties." Now that my panty secret was out I felt less stressed about wearing them. My sister told me though that I'd have to buy buy own and she'd help me. A few days later we went shopping and she asked if the strapping had hurt. I told that hers were harder than our mother's. 'But it gave you a boner. I bet you jerked off later didn't you." I admitted that getting whipped by her in particular is what turned me on and yes, I had jerked off before I went to bed. She then admitted that by the time she was done with the strap that her panties were soaked. "Do you want me tone the one to spank you when you to get one." I thought about it and told her yes. That's when spanking with the strap or belt not only hurt but it also turned me on,

I've been spanked with a belt and a strap at home. I go to a private school and the assistant head mistress does the punishing and she uses a switch or a cane and sometimes a wooden paddle. The cane and paddle the most painful. The rumor going around is that they are going to start using a strap also. I hope so because I'd rather get it with a strap.

If dad said, 'I'm going to use the belt,' back between ages nine through twelve (got some belt treatment two separate discipline times) it didn't sound fun. I came to realize that a swift strike with a leather belt even if wearing clothes, can still smarten/sting if struck hard enough. Knew what to expect and didn't care for it. I wear a belt daily but have no desire to receive or whip someone with it.

I was never spanked with a belt as a child, so don’t have some of the bad connotations that others do.

It’s not my favourite thing in the world, but it happens occasionally. Usually as part of a strip search. I’m topless, or nearly topless and my belt had been undone and my trousers are unzipped so they’re starting to fall down my legs, which I’m standing with side apart.

He then bends me over and exposes quite a bit of my bum, enough to aim at. He starts off quite lightly but I can feel it by the end.

I’ve had the belt before and it sure does sting. Not a fan of the belt.

I’ve had the belt before and it sure does sting. Not a fan of the belt.

THAT is why it's a punishment.

This past year, my husband developed an interest in being spanked with a belt. Now just the jangle of the buckle (we have it hanging on our bedroom door) or the sound of me wrapping it around my hand a bit is enough to get a delicious reaction out of him.

I’ve only been spanked once by my dad and it was with a belt. It was planned and my mom and sisters left the house. Leaned over the bed and after some number of strokes I lost it and peed all over the floor. It was a ranger belt with a metal tip on the end and left some pretty nasty bruises, especially on my right hip where the metal tip hit me. Next week in gym class my gym couch saw me in the locker room through the window from the gym office and I knew he knew what caused the bruises. He never said anything. The spanking Pissed me off and had no effect on my behavior.

Well I can tell you about the belt. I'm a cuckold submissve male. I married a dominant very pretty women. There was a lot of roleplay when we first married . I received many playfull spankigs, some stung, some hurt . But they were playfull never more then I could handel.

That was untill one night when my wife and I went out to dinner . The waitress was youg and pretty. Her breast bounced under her clothes as she walked . Her behind wiggeled and her hips swayed as she walked. She was put togeher in a very sexual way . I could not keep my eyes off her. My wife noticed , and commented that she was not a sexual object and that I should not stare at her. But I continued through dinner . My wife warned me a few more times. She got angry and commented that I was out with her not the waitress .

When we git in the car to go home, my wife now very angry said you will pay for that when we get home. As soon as we got home she took me into her art studio . She had a butcher block , the front legs were cut off 6 inches shorter then the back legs so it was tilted . There were straps attached to each leg to secure ones arms and kegs as they wete bent over the block. I was made to strip naked for her and was secured to the block. We used the block for rolepay and playfull spankings . But she told me this was not for fun and she would spank me hard with the strap.

She got behind me and swang the strap . I could not see her or the strap, but heard it sing through the air. I heard the crack as it hit my bare behind felt it wrap around my ceeks and hip and hold on for a seconded before falking away . I felt the sting as it fell away which turned into a burning pain. As I was feeling the pain ,I heard the strap sing through the aur again , and heard the C R A C K felt it wrap around the ceeks and hip. The pain was worst then the first one the sting and the burning. Then sssswwwisssh , C R A C K again . By the 3 strike tears were in my eyes, by the 5 strike tears were running down my face . I knew I did wrong and accepted the punishment. By the 7 th strike I was crying like a baby. I received 12 in all . I could not sit comfortably for 2 days.

This was the first of many since we married , yes it hurt, it was humiliating, but I accept it and live it

We have a belt hanging up on a nail in the bathroom for the purpose of spanking.

You only know by trying, start lightly and build up until you can barely take it where that level is.

Dead thread, but like... Oh god, it's such exquisite pain.

So I cut my slave collar out of an old men's dress belt from my ex-boyfriend. The end that goes through the buckle, I cut to a point with big kitchen scissors. I'd already cut it a couple of times while I was trying to figure out the length, so cutting the last bit left a strip about two feet long with a big "V" shape on the end of it where the point of the collar was cut out. I kept that strip for some reason and I've both spanked and been spanked with it. It's not the most painful thing I've been spanked with, since I get the cane about once a month (including later tonight, pray for me, ladies), but that odd little strip of leather is up there in my book. I think it's the shape of it, honestly. It hurts more than just a belt would if you hold it so that the pointed ends are what strikes the victim.

Honestly, though, if you LIKE pain, the belt is the best one. It doesn't cut you up and leave lasting soreness like the cane, but god does it hurt. I've come from both the belt and the cane. If you have dark emotions you need to work out, a belting with figging will get you there.

The belt is one of my favorite implements to use and have used on me. Plus when using it as a top I will wear a spanking belt out to dinner etc knowing she is starting at the belt. It’s in her head the fact that same belt will be across her bottom later that night. Especially during the ride home I might even make her unbuckle it for the car ride

As with anything else, it's not the implement itself that matters, but how it's used. Generally the wider the belt, the less damage it causes, and so it's better for sex play than a cane which can really mark you up. It gives a satisfying sound and a good sensation without going overboard. I like to use my hand and then a hairbrush for my girlfriend's maintenance spanking, a leather belt on her backside for punishment, and a horse crop on the breasts and vulva combined with clothes pegs for training or fun.

I like to have my balls spanked with a belt. I can't take it that hard, but I find the combination of weight and sting very satisfying.

Oh god, it's such exquisite pain... If you have dark emotions you need to work out, a belting with figging will get you there.

We never tried it with figging, but I do remember the first time with Mashie. I almost safe worded out, not because of the pain but because of the dark emotions that really needed to come out after being suppressed for many years.

She stopped when I asked her to, and when I realized what was happening inside my head, and realized I NEEDED this, I had her continue until she thought it was done.

It was a very cathartic evening. I wish we could do it again.

I did the same for her a couple years later. She told me the fact that it was my belt that I wear every day made it special, and the session helped her lady to rest some of her demons as well.

Doc