Transgender Converts

Happy2bhere...I am in your camp, there appears to be quite a bit of misinformation, confusion, and prejudice by folks on this thread. I would encourage all here to actually do some unbiased, scientific research into the cause of being Transgender instead of throwing around opinions based on ignorance. To say that you believe in Christianity because it's "true", and therefore you know the truth vs. what is not (being transgender) is ridiculous. Being a "Christian" means whatever you want it to mean, there's not just one definition...the same is true with the word Transgender, it means different things to different people. But for you to say "It is or is Not this or that is basically ignorance on your part. You clearly do not know what you are talking about. To say being "gay" is natural, you are born that way, is what? Is it fact or is it your "opinion"? Where is your proof, the "facts"? Whatever is going on certainly is Not the last word on what is or is not, the same can be said about being Transgender. All anyone knows for certain from the Bible to the world-renowned scientists is that we are "Human". Everything else is conjecture, which is supported or not depending on who you talk with. Being Human means that we are complex creatures and what we do know is that very little about us is iron clad one way or the other. Human life is more of a continuum with any number of possibilities in between two far endpoints be it right or wrong, good or bad, black or white, hot or cold, on and on. We do ourselves great harm believing that life, which has been taking place for a very long time, long before we evolved, is one way or the other way only. If science, scholars, and history have taught us anything it is that there isn't just "one" way, there just isn't for if there was, then life as we know it would not exist. I would encourage you to keep your opinions, they are yours and you are entitled to them, but also take the time to actually investigate what lies below the surface of those opinions. I'll bet you if you are honest with yourself you will find being Transgender is no more cut and dried as being anything else. By opening your mind you will see an entire world of possibilities, and that my friends are what "God" wants for us all.

I am becoming interested in this topic as I explore and open up more. Wondering what the experience would be like. I have only ever been with females, but would consider trying this out in the future.

Please refrain from using the term “tranny”. It's considered disrespectful in the community and can come across as really objectifying and derogatory.

Please say “trans person” or something of the like when referring to trans people as a whole. If individual trans people have allowed you to call them that, what you do with that in private is none of my business. But the word “tranny” in an open context like this can quickly trigger trans people and make them feel unwelcome and dehumanized

Interesting that a lot of straight, bi-curious and bi guys are so attracted to transvestites. I guess the fact that looking like a woman (and some are stunningly gorgeous) legitimizes sex with another male - or in some cases, just a really HOT looking partner. I read somewhere - don't know if it's true or not - that most gay men do not like transvestites/transexuals.

For me, having sex dressed in naughty female clothing does legitimize sex with another male.

My experience with gay men, in general, they find me unatractive when I crossdress, as if I'm not a real man. On the other hand, bi men, esp married men get off on me in naughty lingerie. Just my experience.

For me, having sex dressed in naughty female clothing does legitimize sex with another male.

Sounds like a very good example of what I mentioned in my “Bi When Dressed” thread… https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1112598;mark=bi%2Cwhen%2Cdressed

Before I started my transition from male to female, i was exploring the gay scene, and over the couple of years when I did that i think sbout 40% of the encounters i had with gay man, i was told I acted to much feminine. Which they didn't like.

Before I started my transition from male to female, i was exploring the gay scene, and over the couple of years when I did that i think sbout 40% of the encounters i had with gay man, i was told I acted to much feminine. Which they didn't like.

It sounds like people are influenced to masculine or feminine traits over pure physical attributes from what you're saying.