Question to the ladies on the exam table or those who have witnessed...do you or your significant others outer labia naturally spread when you are in the stirrups or remain together? I've seen both in videos and in person. One I witnessed, her labia barely moved, couldn't really tell her legs were spread by the stirrups. When the doctor inserted the speculum it was more of a challenge to slide it in. On the other hand, another that I witnessed had quite a bit of separation in the stirrups. What are your experiences?