My answer is no. But then I'm a top.
I play consensually with a negotiated scene. This means that everything thats going to happen will at least be touched on. Consent can be withdrawn any time for any reason by either partner. There are safe words. Both the top and the bottom can safe word.
I have tied, in my inexpert fashion, women our first time together. In general, however, the rule is not to let someone tie you the first time. I will do what I can to get what I want. So will every other top.
Be direct if you don't want something. Consent doesn't mean ‘oh…all right, I guess…’ Nothing less then enthusiastic consent is acceptable. Most people know about SSC, but there are RACK, PRICK, and CCCC as well. Make your choice and use it!
@Switchablesuzie makes the very good point that you are trusting someone who ties you up with your life.
@demure makes the good point that you can do much more with unfamiliar people in a dungeon.
@ccm93 makes very crucial points about what can go wrong. It can happen to YOU not just someone else.
@Moppys_jalopy Makes a strong argument about the need for negotiations and safe words and explores personal responsibility issues.
@Nurse_Phillips outlines the safest course. Perhaps not as exciting but safe and smart.
@Breaze writes a knowledgeable counter argument to Nurse Phillips.
People vary however if I ask for something and you decline even if I ask several times it doesn't mean I lose interest in you if I had genuine interest to begin with. Tops, in general, respect their partners and value them greatly. Without subs all a top is is a person with some toys and a huge hole inside them.
In the end you need to live with the person looking at you in the mirror for a long time, you should try to take good care of them!