@Aba, Picture this if you will:
He is naked, hands bound behind his back, tied at the elbows as well, wearing a mouth gag treated with something nasty and inserted deep in his mouth, he is blindfolded, an inflatable enema nozzle is inserted up his butt, pumped up tight and is attached to a two quart or greater enema bag filled with very cold soapy water, his ankles are tied together, there are many large grains of rice or small beans spread out over a solid wood floor (if carpeted floors, use a wooden plank), he is down on his knees on the rice grains, you have applied mint toothpaste to his penis glans, and basically at this point he is already suffering and at your mercy.
Just prior to placing him in this predicament you have invited several of your friends over for a social visit. He can hear but can not see who arrives to visit with you, he is helpless to do anything about the situation. Once your friends have arrived, you explain that your boyfriend's punishment session is about to begin and all for their enjoyment and amusement.
Once everyone is present, seated comfortably, with a drink in their hand, you go over to your boyfriend and say "this will teach you to disobey me and misbehave bitch" as you open the valve on the enema hose allowing the cold soapy water to flood his anal cavity. All the while, you and your friends are making fun of your boyfriend and the predicament he has found himself in.
You leave him in his situation for as long as you deem necessary to remind him that, you are the boss, and he will, in the future behave himself and immediately follow all of your orders and directives without hesitation, or this is only the beginning of what is to come.
I know, this sounds like fantasy, but who knows. Enjoy.
WET