Finding an enema partner

Any ideas?

Lots of ideas but none have worked so far. Haha. Tried craigslist, personal ads, etc. Even have an ad on here. What I have found with most fellow medical/enema enthusiasts is that they are afraid to meet for whatever reason. It seems people mostly want to just email back and forth talking about what they want to do but never follow through.

Maybe we need a Zity-based app that works like Tinder, Bumble etc. Could call it "Baggr"...

Most chatters are curious, but too lazy or unsure how to create relationships and unwilling to expend the time to be successful.

Try posting on some topics. There are a lot of like minded people here. I know several who met at zity and are now married. The magic can happen.

Ive found a partner on here, but from my experience anyone into enemas or whatever you are looking for, all seem to live in the other side of the country, as if anyone local might be afraid or embarrassed to admit their kink, and to have someone they may even know , find out about it………….just my thoughts.

I think that with man/woman ratio of 1000 to 1 it's almost ''forbidden by Nature'' to find like minded opposite sex partner ( for us, men), on the other hand , any woman here have 1000 servants, ready to serve in desired way. It's magic how our mothers in childhood were so eager to penetrate our intimate hole with an enema, but, now , being grown-up I should consider paying a ''sex specialist'' for doing the same and , a real pity, in my city of 1 million people, here are 3 advertised ''professionals'' but of extremely low quality, so I even can't buy nothing serious for my money. Something's wrong with it............... " Many ideas, but nothing seems to work " - best overall description !

I've actually found two Zity members to play with in the past just by being on here and “getting your story out there” by communicating your thoughts and desires. Sometimes YOU have to make the first move-nothing ventured, nothing gained as the saying goes.

I've just very recently found a close-by enemate via my account on the Silverdaddies website, so things are definitely looking up for me lately. Put yourself out there and see what develops….

I've found a few partners over the years.

Seem to be fewer and fewer people into enemas anymore. Maybe it's just the baby boomers who grew up getting enemas are now dying off.

The big problem is when you have the partner already and just need to add the enemas. Not talking about forcing them or anything, just the best way to move so they retain an open mind and don't shut things down.

Year was 2001 , Wife was away cross country , Kids all grown and moved out . I was not having a good day , Neighbor lady saw me asked what was wrong , told her nothing a couple enemas wouldn't fix , I have IBS . There she stood a few minutes later enema bag in hand , took careful aim , did deed ! has endured still gives em to me , wife in favor , also lets me give em to her . Currently She is 92 I am 80 , both enjoy the time together .

Extremely difficult to find,especially the younger generations that didn’t grow up with enemas!

Can someone tell me if there are other sites on the web where you can find an enema partner? I’m not having any luck on this website.

I used to put ads on Backpage seeking women to take enemas for pay. Hooked up with 9 or 10 before that site was shut down.

I find people here as well as fetlife. They are out there.

I DON'T pay anyone to get or give. That is BS !! This HAS to be a mutual thing.

Like that job search commercial you hear on the radio.

“ It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack ”.

I kind of think of it like fishing, if you try long enough even a stupid person can catch a fish.

I'm happy to have several dear and near (in different senses including SM and enemas) now. And they all are amazing people too.

And I'm not nearly as attractive as most of the people around me. An overweight nerdy scientist with baldness.

The secret is...Hm...there are no secrets. There is an issue. Not ordinary people can't be met via an ordinary way.

Just as example...

One lady i knew for 14 years as online pen-pal-dude from the scientific community. We didn't know each others real names or genders all that time.

Another lady i met in a overfilled cafe. There was rainy evening and a lot of people waiting for traffic jams to weaken. All electrical sockets were busy with notebooks or tablets. And I was the one and only person to have electrical tee.

Other strange case was when i was hired to audit one MILF's work to make her quit. She turned out to be a great specialist. While her boss was silly weak brained, petty tyrant. So we united against him.

And based on that friendship the kinky stuff sometimes begins as a joke and blooms.

A few years back, I found massage therapists who grew up receiving enemas, were interested in trading - both giving and receiving. They usually aren’t too concerned about nudity, and I’ve had several partners, each into into massage and natural healing. Sadly as the years go by, those who grew up in the 50’s and 60’s are passing on- and it’s more difficult to find a partner who is familiar with and interested in a nice, unhurried enema trade session.

I kind of think of it like fishing, if you try long enough even a stupid person can catch a fish

True, but snagging a fish isn’t much of an accomplishment or that satisfying. Communication, establishing a rapport with someone, like any relationship takes effort. Even for sharing enemas. And it is so much more worthwhile when you do it that way.

I guess I've been fortunate. I've found several here and a couple other sites. I think the secret is to be a “real person,” and not just a real fetish attached something that might BE a person. I'm also not desperate or pushy. I figure if someone wants to meet, we will, and I will be honest and forthright with them. Besides. I actually LIKE the people I meet. They are (pun incoming..) not just meat to me, something to use and discard. Post, be a real person, have a sense of humor, accept others & BE NICE!!

Is it possible to find an enema partner in Europe? In the forum fetlife? It is very hard to find a female for me. Even I know there are many ( hidden).