Enemas and humiliation

What's the most humiliating part of an enema for you? Personally it's between having my bottom spread open, my anus fingered and my arousal being pointed out.

Same here Jane.

I've only had one enema, at the doctor's office, and it was unexpected. Doc said he wanted a "look inside", made a quick phone call, and suddenly a nurse came in and said "come with me, I'll give you the enema in the other room." I followed her with sweaty palms and soon I was on my side, gown open, and her fingers spread my cheeks open to my great embarrassment. She quickly lubricated me and gave me the enema. After it was all over and I had to describe what came out, she told me she would need to give me another.

Having someone expose my bottom in this way is both humiliating and also very arousing.

For me the most embarrassing part would be missing a security hole and letting someone outside my immediate family see me actually GETTING a enema.

I consider enemas a completely private ad personal matter.

I suppose that the most embarrassing part of an enema is the fact that a person outside your immediate family may see your bottom. This may be prevented by dividing the taking of an enema in two parts:

1. Baring a long nightgown you will insert a well lubed butt plug nozzle or a double balloon enema nozzle with an attached enema hose in your anus.

2. Later you will lie with your well covered bottom on one side and the enema hose from the enema bag will be attached at the other hose and so the flow of the enema liquid may begin.

Well the whole thing is humiliating. That's a big turn on for me. When I play I like to take a reluctant, but submissive role. Having my pants forcibly pulled down and removed, then spanked to get me to cooperate, and finally having my cheeks spread and hose inserted. Well, there's nothing about it that ISN'T humiliating.

So many reasons to make humiliating enema. Even temporary situations can influence: only do enema mom is less humiliating enema with relatives or family friends who know or look. Still, it's humbling to know that others decide for you.

I guess it's the fact that I'll be having a bowel movement "on command", perhaps in front of the enema giver (my spouse).

There must be something wrong with me. I've never found any part of an enema embarrassing.

I hope one day to have it be an outdoor expulsion by my sub. I want to give him an enema outside. When the water is in I pull out the enema nozzle and then wait for him to beg to be able to expel it on the ground (a small trench would be dug so it could be buried). Then he has to just lay there bent over and expel his enema. I would think he'd be a bit messy when all is said and done. I would be a nice Miss and wash him off with the hose. I wouldn't want his poopy body in my house.

I personally like the fact that the enema is going in weather I like it or not. A small lose of control. To me it's just another way to be a little bit of a bottom. Someone else is choosing when the nozzle will be inserted and when the flow will start. Also not being in complete control of the bowels turns me on. Happy filling!

I think the most embarrassing part is your very first time with a stranger that you just barely met. You are on the bed or floor on your back they have you bend your knees. They insert the nozzle. By this time you are hard( at least I am). Than after the water has stopped. Pinching you butt cheeks together to make it to the toilet. Than expelling gas and the enema with no control on it. Makes me pretty embarrassed

I like it talk dirty to me make me wear your pumps and write bad checks!Huba HUBA

I agree - the combination of exposure of your most private parts to a stranger and the loss of bowel control is powerful! We are conditioned from a young age that having control over our bowels and bladder is a major progression - from a baby wearing diapers to a big kid. Having that control taken away is humiliating on many levels.

Since Sis and I were raised getting enemas together nude, and Mom and Grandma were frequently nude around the house when taking/giving enemas, nothing about them became embarrassing. Our aunts were frequent attendees when we got our enemas; and when we visited them, it was understood that they were to give us enemas.

Gram's across the street neighbor frequently came over for coffee, and almost always joined Gram and Mom for some soapy water. She gave to Sis and I on several occasions, and was very good at it. When I was 15 or 16, she invited me over several times and pumped me full. I'm sure it was sexual, because she never invited Sis, as far as I know. I suspect she enjoyed seeing me get hard, although she never put my erection to use. I would have loved to: she was an attractive lady.

~ INeedasudsE

Being given one by a total stranger when it was unexpected.

One of the most humiliating things about enemas is actually needing one

Lisa is right! Needing one and having to ask is very very humiliating!

This morning I am in the midst of an enema session from my roommate and my neighbour.....It is only 8:17 a.m. on a Wednesday morning and it is early for a lot of you but my enema session was a continuation from yesterday afternoon and into this morning.....I was given 2 enema buckets full of coffee solution and on my way there, with the clear plastic hose left deeply inserted in me and my roommate and neighbour both following directly behind me, I was given so much solution that I found myself not being able to quite retain all of it and actually leaked a bit on my way there !!!!!

Ohhhhhhhh God it was so humiliating and embarrassing !!!! For this I was soundly spanked and I do mean spanked quite hard and now I find myself being forced to take additional enemas for the failure to hold and retain it......I just could not help it, my anal muscles were really struggling with the effort to hold it all in, and I did try hard to clench my bottom together as tightly as I could but it has been a while since I was forced to take and hold this much, I just could not keep all the hot solution inside

I can't write too much more as they are preparing my next enemas and I am told I will be getting as much if not more than what my last enemas were.....Ohhhhh God, my bottom is honestly trembling at the mere thought of this, but I guess it is all a part of me pushing and testing my own limits

My neighbour has also informed me just a few minutes ago that she has a close friend stopping by to see her and she told her that she would be at my place helping me with a series of enemas-- even more humiliation to add to all of this.....I can only imagine what more I am in store for as the morning progresses.......My roommate will also be getting enemas today, and I fully intend on putting her through the same thing I am now currently enduring....I will readily admit to you all, and do this sort of secretly, but as much as I moan and complain and sometimes do not like getting filled so full and completely, I secretly love this kind of an enema, because I know I am getting the good clean out my body needs

So I guess it is worth the suffering and humiliation.....Ok everyone, the have the bucket filled and ready and want me on the bed , so it is time for my next enemas.....Wish me luck, my clit is throbbing wildly riht now, I have to admit....I will do my best to write more in a little while, now I have to begin these next enemas ...Be safe everyone and enjoy !!!!

Good luck But I understand your need. Enjoy. Strangely satisfying right

I do not find being given an Enema to be humiliating at all although I do not like it when someone can hear me expel.

Mom tried to make enemas an after of fact experience, and she succeeded, sort of. But I've never forgotten the early ones _on back with legs pulled up and enema can held up high.

Whenever I read your postings about your enema sessions.....I need to take my red rubbersheet under me and start to give myself a 2 quart soapy enema on this sometimes wet rubbersheet in my bed,thanks...

I guess I am lucky... I have never felt humiliated as a result of being given an enema. My Mother and Grandma were always loving with the exception of one time when Mother was rather upset at me. But, it was not a humiliating experience.. It was a learning experience, teaching me never to do that again. A girl friend in college was great and always loving like Mom and today, my wife, well, she is not kinky or anything, will and does give me my enemas. She never has tried to humiliate me because of my enjoyment of the whole process...but, with the exception of three times, has never actually participated in trying to make it a sexual experience. She always helps, but I don't think she understands what enemas do for me. She, often, gets constipated when traveling. I have tried buying her small enemas, but she never uses them... she sticks to glycerin suppositories. Both go up the rear, but she has nothing t do with enemas. Even, so, again she does not humiliate me for my need.

Humiliation is what I most crave about giving and getting enemas. Total exposure, loss of control and the vulnerability. There is also a nurturing side to it as well which makes me think of the expression "this is for your own good".

To me the most humiliating part of an enema is when it is witnessed by someone else. I am a humiliation sub into enemas. When solo, I do not feel humiliation at all. Maybe a little embarrassment at what I am doing, but not humiliation. When someone is watching, I feel humiliated. The apex humiliation point is when the flow is going and the person knows I am receiving the flow. I think it’s because I am being violated in maybe the most intimate part of my body and there is a witness to it. I also feel very vulnerable while receiving. Other parts, insertion/withdrawal/retention/expulsion are all very exciting for me, but not really humiliating. But knowing someone is watching me being violated by a tube and some liquid, that is humiliation to me.

Not even having to ask. Just telling anyone why you have cleared your whole schedule for all those hours.

There must be something wrong with me. I've never found any part of an enema embarrassing.

You're just doing it wrong... 😉 .... That's the whole point isn't it?

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You're just doing it wrong... 😉 .... That's the whole point isn't it? :0

Seriously, not necessarily. It can be for humiliation, inducing stress or pain in the person, giving the pleasure the pressure an enema gives, cleaning out for anal play, teaching obedience, "forcing" them to make a mess so you can berate and flog them, so many fun reasons for an enema,

The 'humility' of a visit with a good friend and trying to think up a way to get an enema from her. --the 'humility and courage enuff to say, "...do you have anything for gut pain?" ( --and wince a couple of times. It worked a couple of times.)

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For me humiliation from an enema occurs only when I need it and when a stranger has to give it to me. I was in a spica cast once when I broke my hip. I asked for the bed pan but was only able to have a partial bowel movement and the rest was stuck halfway out. I had to call the nurse who looked at the problem, called the doctor and then gave me a large soapsuds enema through the impacted stool. Yuck. And since I was stuck on my back I had to look her in the eye while getting it. Utterly humiliating.