Which came first the incontinence or being DL?

For me I guess if I'm honest I enjoyed my wetting from a young age. I constantly wet the bed right up til my early 20's and it never bothered me in fact by my teens I actually enjoyed it. If I wet my pants as a kid which happened often that didn't bother me either and I never rushed to change. So when my wetting came back in my late 40's becoming DL was a natural progression. Now I couldn't imagine life any other way. I love being dependant on nappies and thoroughly enjoy being incontinent. True it brings challenges but half the fun is working out how I can carry on doing everything I love in a nappy. As yet I haven't had a problem and still enjoy life to the full.

Well, I'm not incontinent so for me, it's just DL. Though after I've been in my diapers for a little while I manage to relax so much that I start peeing without really thinking about it. But, as soon as they're off, back to normal.

Being DL. I chose to untrain and now I'm stuck here. It's not so bad.

Incontinence followed by a true love for the diapers I have to wear.

Incontinent first then a diaper lover.

I was never against diapers but when my incontinence came after a while of fighting it just gave in when my wife put her foot down and forced me into them and became a dl.

The "quick step" to the toilet came first from a very young age, things really just went downhill from about 8 years of age.

I coped by not drinking a lot but was always thirsty and just went from toilet to toilet for about 20 years.

So yes the incontinence came first and inner peace has been achieved by just accepting and loving my nappies.

For me it was a diaper lover 1st I found out at the age of 10I liked diapers when I stole the 1st diaper from the babysitter when into her garage proceeded to put it on him urinate at from there I got aroused and masturbated and I was hooked from there

I was a ab/dl first. I got very interested in wearing nappies again when i was 16 and seen my 10 year old cousin being put into nappies and plastic pants for his bed wetting problems, He asked his mother to put a nappy on me and she did and i was from then on. I am now nappy defendant 24/7 and have no problems wearing them

DL first by age three, then incontinence at age 54 with the pleasurable realization that no further explanations were needed and to hell with anyone knowing.

For me, the incontinence came first. However, over the years, I’ve learned to like some of the characteristics of the diapers that I need.

I never had a thing for diapers but when I became incontinent adjusted to them so have no problem.

Learning to enjoy the diapers that I need to wear has been part of my adjustment to experiencing urinary incontinence. I doubt that I would have developed an interest in diapers if I weren’t incontinent. But since I am and will be incontinent for the rest of my life, I figure why suffer from incontinence when you can enjoy it.

Well i lost my continence in my 20's , until then diapers not something on my radar,I saw them at work or changed my patient but i never saw them as for me , diapers choose me ,but as with anything that becomes part of your life ,they are on my terms now ,if its just a matter of containing and controlling anything could do the job like duct tape ,but i would much prefer to wear something that i enjoy and have confidence in .

Hard to say as I've had urgency issues almost since I was out of diapers and an interest since I can remember.

Incon- never became reliably dry at night- have always wet my bed. DL later, when I thought might as well make the best of it.

I think I started out being DL first mainly because I was uncomfortable in using the gendered bathroom and I didn't like using the mens bathroom. I started wearing diapers and then progressed to diaper dependent and incontinence. Since then, I am completely diaper dependent and I don't wear any adult underwear anymore. Since being diaper dependent, have been more relaxed, comfortable with myself and less stressed out. On top of that I didn't have to worry alot and I get to have more fun without the toilet.