Anal Fingering and Spanking

I am curious about how fingering fits into the eroticism.of spanking.

I have read about how fingering the spankees bottom is a sign of domination.. Of showing who's the boss ...who's in charge..particularly if done before a spanking.

Although I have never done so..the thought of exploring the anal cavity before or during a spanking has crossed my mind.

I have opened the buttocks to expose the bottom hole but that's fairly common if I consider what I see in spanking videos.

PS I do remember one cutie who reached back and stimulated her bottom hole at the end of a spanking..maybe it was a hint.

Your question reminds me of the treatment given to my brother and I when we were about 7 years old.

See if this fits:

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=779478

and my experience here:

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=723760

And take #9 & #10

http://urlait.narod.ru/german/index.html

While anal play is something I am nervous about it is often one of my fantasies as it is usually on display when over someone's lap for a spanking. The idea of being fingered during or after a punishment reinforces the control the spanker has and exacerbates the humiliation of being punished.

I like imagining this being done to me.

I gotta confess that one of my favorite fantasies is administering a hard bare bottom spanking to the subject--male or female--until they are crying. They are over my lap. A large jar of Vaseline is handy. When the spanking has been concluded I lubricate my finger and insert it into their anus until the crying stops. Letting them know at each step what is happening of course. Long time fantasy. Would love to try it sometime.

Light fingering and having the area between my rectum and testicles rubbed brings about a more intense ejaculation for me.

I am often fingered or even plugged during a spanking. For me it increases the humiliation factor and yes does show who us in charge

Fingering is good it adds to the feelings of vulnerability and exposure..

I have administered both anal and vaginal fingering during spanking. I think, certainly with some ladies, it is the swapping of sensations

I have had my bottom fingered throughout a spanking, as well as having a plug inserted. I've also had partners finger my pussy to see how wet the spanking makes me.

I haven't spanked many women, but each of them had their cheeks spread by me at some point during the spanking or caning. On former girlfriend always got the tip of the cane in her anus as well. I cannot resist opening a woman's bottom when it's right there in front of me.

Yesterday I was given a very hard,spanking, strapping, paddling, tawsing, hair brushing and bath brushing. This session lasted over an hour.

At each break int the spanking he teased my butt hole, doing it more vigorously as the spankings went on. He also smacked my balls and fondled my frontal area at each break.

After my ass was black and blue and I thought I take not another lick he stopped. picked up a couple of paddles and led in to the bath room. He then bent me over at the waist and layed 15 or twenty more hard swats to my bent bottom. He then filled his left hand with hand cream and proceed to massage my penis and scrotum. As he did this put a large dab of the cream between my cheeks stated teasing my anus again. The next thing I knew a large finger was up inside me giving a very deep massage. Of course within a moment i shot all over the bathroom floor. He continued the inter rectal massage and polishing my glans until it became slightly uncomfortable. He pulled out and stopped the penile stimulation and handed me a towel.

After I had cleaned up I rejoined him in the other room where he bent me over and applied at least 15 hard swats with the paddle, he told me that was cumming on the bathroom floor.

Boy! What a hiding and what an ending. I defiantly will meet up with him the next time he in town.

Being fingered or plugged anally as part of a "punishment" spanking is incredibly hot for me.

For a girl to take a man bare bottomed across her knee, then push her finger up his anus is total female domination. He may plead with her to take it out but she will push it further up and wiggle it around until he understands exactly who is boss. Then she will take it out and give him a red hot bottom, with her bare hand!

Have done this many, many times and had it done to me on occasion. It seems a natural extension of spanking... it's both loving and domineering, and a very natural thing to do. I highly recommend it!

Anal and or vaginal fingering adds so much to the spanking,both for the giver and reciever. Either truly let you know how the pinishment is effecting the recipient. And adds more embarassment to subsequent spankings. The fact that you know it turns her on makes her more compliant and submissive.

I have not had fingers usually inserted during spanking time but after often as most spankers had wanted to use my hole after... i could honestly see it as part of a spanking scene a rough fingering to add extra pain but would assume a more logical thing would be strapping my bum hole. But I would happily have some vicks vapo pr other menthol gel applied to my hole to cause me extra discomfort during my punishment.

Wow!! I was just reading through this thread and I saw a post that rayme wrote on 9/4/16. I guess your dream came true!! Who knew that a couple of weeks after that post we would be able to do that. There is nothing better or more sensual or erotic than being over his lap... I got my first punishment spanking from him. We had and "issue" that we both needed to work through and that was the way that we did it. I was over his lap. I didn't know what was going to happen, and it turns out neither did he. As he was spanking, we "discussed" our issue and that we were going to leave it behind us right there. We worked through it, and in amongst the spanking, he wound up spreading me wide and sliding his well lubed finger into my tight hole. Not only did he make me cum from doing that, but he also made me cum from just being spanked after that too. Experiences and sensations that I will always remember and feel and smile about. That experience brought us closer than we ever thought we could be. It was one of the most intimate and life changing moments for both of us.

@curious1313 @rayme

Wow, that is one of the most erotic things I've ever read on Zity! Happy for you both to have experienced something so intense and intimate together.

Good for you curious1313 I'm not into spanking don't care for pain. But if you 2 are better for you. 😃

I have yet to be fingered anally yet. I really want to try and have recently been trying to talk my husband into it next time he spanks me. Hope that's soon!

I have had my anus fingered before,during and after a spanking and it definately gives the person doing it a great feel of dominance over me... it definitely lets me know exactly who is in charge or control.

Two of the women I used to spank (usually with a wooden stick or dowel) both loved having their bottoms played with and fucked. So I would incorporate my finger in the anus at some point.

While still clothed, I would make her "show me" her bare ass, pants down, bent over, my hands caressing her cheeks which had been spanked the night before. Sometimes I would tell her spread herself for me to check her bottom hole, which often met with resistence and embarrassment. Of course this lack of compliance became another stated reason to punish her. Eventually she would expose herself to me as I commented on her hygiene (again, depending on her cleanliness, sometimes led to a redder bottom later). Often I would take this opportunity to tell her to "hold still" as my finger worked its way into her anus, always up to the last knuckle, and then I'd hold it there. This was usually the point where she stopped any arguing. Standing but bent over, in the brightly lit living room, pants around her ankles, panties at her knees, holding her own cheeks wide open, anticipating the spanking, my finger deep in her rectum, and me not saying anything. This is when I would ask if she knew that she deserved a spanking. The answer was always "yes".

Count me in on this. Will be adding fingering to ritual.

Great idea.

No way. I’ve been in the adult spanking scene for years on both sides with both genders and never would I want a finger included in a spanking session. That changes the whole scene into something sexual...and sex and spanking are best kept separate.

...and sex and spanking are best kept separate.

Really? You wouldn't come to that conclusion if you attend one of the male-only spanking events that I've attended.

Really? You wouldn't come to that conclusion if you attend one of the male-only spanking events that I've attended.

Thanks for the warning. I’ll be sure NOT to attend them, in that case.

No way. I’ve been in the adult spanking scene for years on both sides with both genders and never would I want a finger included in a spanking session. That changes the whole scene into something sexual...and sex and spanking are best kept separate.

I'm not an old fuddy-duddy or prudish at all, but even for me, spanking is just another form of sex play. Even if spanking is all that is done, even when still partially clothed, when done for fun, it is a variation on sex.

You can probably try and convince people to join in some spanking play by telling them it's not really sex. It may be a good spiel to get them to agree. But it is sex by another name.

I'm not an old fuddy-duddy or prudish at all, but even for me, spanking is just another form of sex play. Even if spanking is all that is done, even when still partially clothed, when done for fun, it is a variation on sex.

You can probably try and convince people to join in some spanking play by telling them it's not really sex. It may be a good spiel to get them to agree. But it is sex by another name.

Ok... so is medicine, going to the gym, wrestling, or anything else that involves the partially exposed human body.

If spanking was another form of sex, you wouldn’t have people like me (and I’m not alone) who would be put off or disgusted by sexual play entering in to a spanking scene. I would be equally put off by a trainer at the gym putting their finger in me.

You seem to think your opinions are factual and universal. They are not. For YOU spanking is a form of sex...for others spanking might be something different.

If spanking was another form of sex, you wouldn’t have people like me (and I’m not alone) who would be put off or disgusted by sexual play entering in to a spanking scene.

I don't mean to argue the point. For some people (like you), spanking is obviously not a form of sexual play. But what exactly constitutes sexual play anyway?

If your butt is bare and you're bent over someone's knee getting a spanking, are they allowed to touch your bare ass with their bare hand? Or is that off limits for you and you only wish to be spanked with a paddle or some other device? If they touch you with their bare hand, does it feel good to you? Do they run their fingers up and down your exposed crack? Do they part your cheeks at all? Do they reach between your parted legs and make contact with your cock or balls (just to get them out of the way of the spanking, of course)? I would say if ANY of those things occur during a spanking, it's sexual play. If it walks like a duck...