Is pooping your diaper really worth the cleanup? I'm torn

I've been wondering about this for many years. Before I even got back into diapers, I would as a child try to push a bit of poop into my undies - enough so that there would be a bit of it in my pants, but not so much that I would have problem with my parents. 8 year Olds are not supposed to wear poopy pants. As I got into proper, though somewhat makeshift diapers, I would get so excited by it all that I would end up letting loose, and voilà, a dirty bottom. I even let that happen once or twice around my brother, but since I was also dressed, he could not see the diaper, and when he began to try and figure out why I smeled, I hightailed into the bathroom and cleaned up.

As an adult, I really enjoy the feeling of dirtying my diaper, but am finding the aftermath to be so much work, I really try to avoid the whole event.

I'm torn --- do I do what I like and try to cope with the mess, or do I avoid what I really dislike, but miss out on a key diaper wearing activity?

You're going to do whatever you decide and I doubt any of us will influence your choice, but I cannot fathom how the cleanup of a urine soaked feces filled diaper is worth the effort of cleaning your body and doing the laundry. I also don't see how that can be better than using a toilet in almost any bathroom. It certainly will NOT save you any time during the day, as diaper cleanup is much more time consuming than urinating or defecating and doing a quick wipe to clean up on the toilet. Even changing a little hairless baby takes more time than an adullt using a toilet to excrete. A big and/or hairy adult takes much more time to clean the urine and feces off the skin. As you described, you diaper guys love to sit in your urine soaked, feces filled diapers. You are going to do what you are going to do.

You asked for opinions, so I gave you mine.

No one else's opinion really matters, as this is entirely your preference. The good thing is that there is really no negative consequence either way. Clean-up is a pain. That helpless moment when there is no holding back can be a kick. Only you can know if it's worth it or not. My own experience is that I have answered the question both ways on different occasions, without regret. Most of the time, the "adult" way of dealing with bodily functions is far preferable, I would hate to be dependent on diapers. But there are those moments where a bit of regression can be so satisfying. I am more likely to indulge when I am assured of total privacy as I am at my cabin, where clean-up can also be done outside at the edge of the woods, with the sun-warmed water from the hose. As much as I prefer cloth, the ease of a disposable is often worth it. No matter what, as long as you take the precautions to avoid injury (rash and infection etc. are certainly included), there is no way to lose by doing whatever you wish in this regard, and letting your experience guide you in the future.

FB

Is pooping your diapers worth the trouble of cleaning up the mess?

Well, I think it is. But let me explain why I think so, and ways to enjoy the fun and minimize the clean-up.

First, let me point out that, pooping your pants / diapers is a very "niche" kind of fetish (even among us ABDLs) and an acquired taste. I didn't begin to enjoy it until I was about 35. Prior to that, I'd been--to some degree--into wearing diapers as far back as I can remember. But I drew the line at pooping them. Yes, there were a couple of times when I was intrigued with it and tried it and enjoyed the fact that I was doing it--but I didn't like the smell or the cleanup AT ALL.

This all began to change when I was becoming middle-aged, more comfortable with my diaper fetish, and I was going through a very stressful period in life and wanted to take my diaper fun to the next level. What happened then was a "spur of the moment" decision I made one night when wearing thick cloth diapers (soaked!), plastic pants, and a t-shirt while sitting outside on my front porch one warm September night. (I lived on a busy road but it was dark and almost impossible for anybody to see me where I was sitting). While enjoying being the naughty toddler that I am, I suddenly felt the urge to poop and thought "Why not?" and just did it.

This time I enjoyed it way more than the few times I'd tried it in the past, and led to a series of "experiments" where I'd load my diapers and, each time, I became more comfortable with it, then, after a while, I actually began to crave it. It was just like drinking coffee or eating sushi. For years I didn't like it and thought it was gross. Then I tried it a few times. Then, one day, out of nowhere, I had an uncontrollable urge to do it. That's when I realized that I loved it.

And why do I love it? Because I love acting like a naughty three-year-old who knows I'm supposed to use the toilet but continues instead to do it in my diapers because I'm a bad baby--and intentionally pooping yourself is the most flagrantly naughty baby thing you can do. Others on this thread have noted the joy of just letting loose and doing it, and that's certainly part of the fun. But, I enjoy sitting there in the huge mess that I made and--as necessary--continuing to make it even worse. The feeling and the smells are part of what makes it real, and I've grown to love the experience.

As our beloved Susie said, yes, some of us diaper guys love sitting there in our urine soaked, feces filled diapers, and we're going to do what we are going to do. Wink wink.

Now, this absolutely grosses out lots of people--even many who otherwise enjoy wearing diapers--and that's OK. As I said, this is an acquired taste and it's not for everybody.

And it's not something that I do often, either, because it requires being alone in the house for several hours and that's a pleasure that I almost NEVER get because I still have kids who live at home. Pooping your diapers and staying in them for a few hours absolutely smells up a large area of your home and when you're done, it takes a few hours for the smell to clear out. So I never do this when my kids are in the house or likely to show up at any time. They must be out of town or at some location where I know they will not be back for hours. And work doesn't even meet this requirement as, one of my kids does work, but often gets off early or is told to go home if the work slows down, so, you just never know.

I can poop my diapers around my wife, she knows and understands, but she doesn't like being around me when my diapers are loaded so I stay in a complete different part of the house. And I think if she could see how much fun I have in them--bouncing up and down and squishing the poop as I get myself off in them, getting poop all over me in the process, I think that--even though she knows, she'd still be a bit shocked.

So, it is what it is. Something that most ABDL's don't enjoy, but, on the rare occasion when it's possible and I'm in the mood, I do.

So that being said, there are three things you can do when you have messy fun that helps minimize the clean-up. One of them is to wear disposable instead of cloth diapers. When done, wipe yourself off with the un-pooped front of the diaper, then go take a shower. Then all you have to do is get rid of the diaper. Best to take it directly outside and toss it into the garbage can so it doesn't smell up your home. It's even better if you can throw it away somewhere else, like a dumpster somewhere.

Me? Well I'm a cloth diaper lover, I don't much like disposables, so when I want to be totally naughty and do this I instead wear a pair of white, wide-crotched "granny panties" that I bought on Ebay under a pair of plastic pants. I have one particular pair of plastic pants that I use for this so that my other ones don't smell like poop (and even if you wash them, once that smell gets into them it's hard to get it out). Sometimes I will wear the granny panties inside of my regular diapers as "containment" panties, or stuff a diaper down the front to soak up the pee while I load the rear. It's much much easier to merely have to wash a pair of panties than do a big load of poopy cloth diapers. And if the panties somehow are found by one of my kids, they will just think that they belong to my wife.

That being said, you have to rinse off the panties in the shower before you toss them into the washer. And that brings up the third thing: If possible, when you get yourself off in your loaded panties / diapers, do it in the shower. This really only works if you have a shower stall and a shower head with a hose that you can take down and use for a sprayer. When it's time for my fun to be over, I go in the bathroom, lock the door, turn on the fan, then go into the shower stall and close the door. I sit on the floor up against one of the walls. Sometimes I take a mirror in there and put it opposite me on the floor so I can see by looking at what I did just how bad I've been. Then I have my fun.

When done, it's all contained in the shower. Turn on the water, get it warm, then clean up. I always clean it off of me, first. The reasoning is, if the fire alarm goes off or some other emergency, I'll at least be clean and better able to deal with it. Then I rinse it all off of my diapers (if I wore them) or the panties. Then I rinse it all down the drain. Then I take a regular shower. Then I clean the shower stall using Tilex. By the time I'm done I'm clean, my baby clothes are rinsed and ready for the wash, the shower is spotless, and the smell is gone--all you can smell is the chlorine in the Tilex.

Works like a charm, it's not that big of a deal to do, and one you get used to after a while. So, if you want to try loading your diapers but don't because of dreading the clean-up, well, here are a few tips to make that better. Give it a try. If you're like me you'll learn to love it. I can even sometimes get away with this (in the panties) when my wife / kids ARE in the house, though I always do it early in the morning before they wake up. No need to take any unnecessary chances! Good luck.

I haven't pooped while wearing diapers on a regular basis, but, many years ago and, after the first three times (for a more balanced assessment) was hooked on the resultant pleasurable sensation of enjoying "total freedom" in a stress-filled life in those earlier times. I've occasionally repeated over the intervening years, whenever wishing to recreate the feeling of total and complete relaxation and freedom in my adult world (and in the comfort and privacy of my own home).

As for cleanup, this has never been a real issue. I simply remove my disposable diaper while in the bathroom shower, fold it over, and place it aside to discard later, then scrub up as I normally would. Simple! . . . and it doesn't take even an extra minute. Previously, when wearing cloth diapers, I would do the same, except to lay them aside to later empty the solid material into the toilet and place in an appropriate receptacle for adding to a special laundry load. Not dependent on a laundromat, I used my own heavy-duty commercial-size front-load washer and dryer with a first washer setting for soaking and rinsing before the final wash setting. Furthermore, I am shaved and don't have a hairy butt that's "difficult to scrub clean." (For me, hair other than on our heads belongs on our supposed ape ancestors, and if I wanted to view hair, I'd visit the monkey exhibit at a zoo.)

Is pooping your diapers worth the trouble of cleaning up the mess?

Well, I think it is. But let me explain why I think so, and ways to enjoy the fun and minimize the clean-up.As our beloved Susie said, yes, some of us diaper guys love sitting there in our urine soaked, feces filled diapers, and we're going to do what we are going to do. Wink wink.

Now, this absolutely grosses out lots of people--even many who otherwise enjoy wearing diapers--and that's OK. As I said, this is an acquired taste and it's not for everybody.

Pooping your diapers and staying in them for a few hours absolutely smells up a large area of your home and when you're done, it takes a few hours for the smell to clear out.

Thank you for your well written post. Most fetishes are an acquired taste and aren't for everybody.

I hope other ABDL's who THINK nobody notices they wear diapers that are "loaded", especially when to the point of leaking in schools, movies or other public places will take heed to what you said. We all know when there is a poopy diaper around.

The world doesn't stop when actual babies poop in their diapers in public and neither should it when adults do the same for whatever reason. Judging from the well-stocked store shelves of adult incontinence products these days, are we to believe all the people who use these items don't really exist? People should be more understanding. I once had a neighbor who, when her MS condition deteriorated and she became fully diaper-dependent, became paranoid about going out past the end of her driveway in her motorized whatchacallit and ceased to enjoy life because of it until the day she died. If some people are so judgmental about what the public does, maybe they are the ones who should just stay home. This world is for everyone to enjoy.

How's this for a corollary: The worst possible odor is dogshit* on our public streets and sidewalks and in our lawns and parks. The world would definitely smell more pleasantly if all dogs were outlawed!

*An exception: I once aided the police in identifying a man who'd been lying dead in his NYC apartment for two months. It was winter and his apartment had been sealed. The police were all wearing breathing masks; I wasn't.

The world doesn't stop when actual babies poop in their diapers in public and neither should it when adults do the same for whatever reason. Judging from the well-stocked store shelves of adult incontinence products these days, are we to believe all the people who use these items don't really exist? People should be more understanding.

Well, that's easy to say, but in reality, it can be difficult to do. A couple of years ago I was on a train, coming home from a vacation--about a five hour trip. This lady across the aisle from me had a two-year-old who pooped his diapers. It was HORRIBLE. Even though she changed him as soon as he did it, she put his poopy diaper in the trash box at the front of the train car and you could still smell it. The entire front half of the car smelled horrible. Even I--DiaperPailPat--who loves sitting around for hours enjoying the feeling and smell of my own loaded diapers--was about to get sick smelling this. Finally the conductor emptied the trash box, put the bag inside of another bag and took it off to the baggage car and started spraying air freshener around.

And it's bound to be worse if the loaded diaper belongs to an adult because our diets often contain lots of rich, spicy foods that kids don't eat. And it's kind of like your body odor--when it's your own it's not so bad, but when it's somebody else's, that's a completely different thing and can be offensive to others.

Now, that being said, I do occasionally go out in public and poop my diapers. I only get a chance to do this every year or two, when I'm all alone in the house for a few days and can come home, enjoy it, and clean up with no chance of anyone noticing. But when I do I go to some big open place and try not to get too close to anyone. A good place for this is the grocery store because there are so many different smells in there that it's confusing to people's noses and if they happen to get one whiff of me, they probably won't realize what it is--and I'm usually not around them long enough for them to figure it out. Also I wear two pairs of plastic pants--one fairly snug inner pair and then a baggy outer pair--mostly to further contain the smell.

I have gotten into suppositories and diaper wearing. I love the feelings of the suppositories working and the security a diaper gives. It allows me to fully enjoy the enire suppository experience, the initial urges, the more forceful retention effort, cramping and finally the best part. You lose all control and it just flows. Often I have to lean on a support because it literally makes my knees weak. Clean up is easy, I have a plastic bag on the bathroom floor, I step in the shower and remove the disposable diaper and into the bag. A quick shower makes rest of clean up easy. The little bit of mess is just part of the whole lovely experience.

I think it has a lot to do with how acclimatised you are to diapers and how much pressure you're under to stay in them.

I used to wear casually and at that time I would have said it's not worth the cleanup. At the time though I knew a lot less about diapers than I do now.

I now wear full-time. I have a very solid changing hygiene routine, know my way around blocking smells and know how much my diapers can take (pull factors). In addition, my wetting control is gone, meaning proper toileting is very difficult for me anyway (push factor). My messing control is noticeably impaired so messing accidents are also something I have to deal with - not every day but a lot more regularly than a continent person. As a result my visceral bodily waste aversion is weakened - after this much time it's just a thing, like anything else.

Also influencing my decision - I have recently given up attempting to toilet train, so I've abandoned the sort of obligation to at least try properly toileting that I had during that time. Part of the fallout of this is that, when it comes to messing, I've gone from probably 40-60 in favour of toileting to about 90-10 in favour of diapers. I'm no longer trying to keep toileting as part of my life, and I'm used to messy diapers now, so I no longer have any reason to toilet. I basically only do it if it would be more convenient for some reason, which is very rare - so yes, messy diapers are the better deal for me now.

Is it really worth the clean up? For me Yes. I have had that (want to) my whole life even when I was a little kid I can't escape it. I would rather mess myself than have sex, well almost anyway. So I just except it as part of who I am and play when appropriate. The clean up is no big deal after I figured out how to make it easy. I can do that in less than 5 minutes. A box of wet wipes and a wet wash cloth and a roll of paper towels to get the heavy stuff off. Or just a simple shower. What stops me is the lack of privacy because I don't want to expose any one else to my fetish.

Yes it is that warm feeling with a thick coat of Dustin diaper rash cream

I lost control of my bladder many years ago so I wear diaoers 24/7 and I wouldn't have it any other way. There is something so comforting and enjoyable about diapers and a wet diaper is no problem to change. Not so the poopy sort! From the early days I have had the very occasional accident which required a fairly urgent change. More recently I have found that there are times when I know I am just going to defecate and there is nothing I am going to do about it. In one way it is liberating. You just go as the bowel move, so to speak. It is a pleasure for which there is a fairly heavy price: a clean up can take time. Sometimes you are away from home or the office and away from a rest room so you have to just live with it. Plastic pants help to keep the odors in a bit. But it can be embarrassing nontheless. A messy diaper not speedily changed is also a cause of diaper rash which is no joke. Is it worth it? I think yes.

I love pooping in my diaper, I feel free and I love the feel of my warm pee trickle down my diaper and my poo hanging, I sit in my wet and stinky diaper to remind myself I'm a bad baby.

As I've stated elsewhere in these pages, I absolutely love to make a squishy poo in my thick diaper. The sexuality of this act is unmatched by anything else. But the intensity with which I love it, is more than matched by how much I abhor cleaning up. Emptying the diaper, showering to wash off the mess, cursory rinsing of the diaper in the shower, and finally down to the basement to the washing machine and dryer. And then waiting for the diaper to get dry and hiding it... all before my wife gets home. I hate it. I swear never to do this disgusting thing again. Until, of course, the urge takes control of me once more...

Yes pooping for me is worth the clean up. It brings back memories for me when I was diapered. Being able to go carefree and have warm mushy feeling next to my bottom

I poop once a year or maybe less... The last time was two weeks ago and I hated the cleaning...

I personally hate the cleaning of it! Lately I have been wearing more often and have been getting way to relaxed cuz I've messed a few times. I always clean off in the shower.

I do not often poop in my diapers,but just to let you know.there is now a cloth diaper sprayer that hooks up to your fresh water supply in your bathroom,this is used to rinse poopy diapers over the toilet.there is also a system that comes with a bucket that sits over your toilet for containing the diaper and spray splatters while rinseing them called the potty pail.

The answer to this one is 'why wear a diaper / nappy unless you are intending using it'? If you are not going to cum, poop or pee in your diaper you may just as well wear regular undies, male or female types.

Me? - well from the time I take my medicine (purgative or laxative) I am going to be in a nappy and the toilet is fully out of bounds. So I am going to be a toddler - a naughty toddler - and experience the thrill of being desperate and the climax of loosing control.

Yes the clean up is worth it!

I will never, ever judge, or berate anything that anyone enjoys. Hell, I do things that make the vanilla word gag.

I read this post out of curiosity, and I have to admit, I never thought this existed, or was a 'thing'.

I have learned something.

I don't like pooping in my diaper, the smell and the cleanup are not fun. I am UIC but have control of my poop. When I am having an "extended behavior modification" my wife will take away my bathroom privileges anywhere from a weekend to a week. During that time I must use my diapers for both pee and poop. I only get 4 changes a day, after I shower in the morning, lunchtime, after work and at bedtime. During the times I am not allowed to use the bathroom, I try to hold it until right before one of my changes. Sometimes it works and sometimes I can't hold it and have to wait in my smelly diaper as it spreads everywhere then cleanup is not fun.

It's like many other things. Is having a big Thanksgiving dinner worth having to wash all of the dishes? Is having a dog worth having to walk him and bathe him? If it's something you love, you eventually make peace with the aspects of it that are a pain so that you can enjoy the aspects of it that you love.

I do but only because I shower right after. My schedule works out perfectly so I have an advantage. I hated the smell at first but not look forward to it because i always jerk off right before showering. So, in short, my mind has been trained to look forward to it.

Hi, I'm new ish to dl and wanted to try being an adult baby as well but a young one so I can't walk or talk it even be able to take my nappy off (so using sensory deprivation mittons ect) but I have no one to tell me off, give me an enema, force me to mess as I'm too scared and always take off my nappy before I mess and use the toilet. Really I would be looking for someone who I could meet occasionally who will be my master or parent and force me to eat baby food, mess like a baby and be forced to sleep in a messed diaper to mess it over night and even double/triple padded.

I really love to poop my diaper at least once per week. I love the feeling of being naughty just like a toddler hiding behind a chair and pooping. I enjoy the warm feeling of poop pushing against the back of the diaper. It even gets better sitting in the poppy diaper and the poop spreading all over the butt area and sometimes forward. To me the smell of pooping does not bother me at all. I will poop in public or at home. If I poop in public I will walk around the store especially around the diaper section. The piece that is not always easy in public is complete clean up. I will use baby wipes to clean off then apply thick coat of Desitin and baby powder rediaper and away I go.

I'm wearing my diaper and plastic pants right now. Before putting them on me, my wife gave me 2 squeezes from an 8oz bulb syringe filled with soap, lime juice, and glycerin. I can feel my insides churning away. She told me i would have to fight the enema for 15 minutes or no spanking. That was 20 minutes ago. I know that while i am expelling in my diaper i get a good breastfeeding. Then after my spanking i will get a bath before being rediapered and put to bed.

I do not poop in my diapers, only pee. When I have to poop I have to tell my gf who will take me to the toilet, unpin me, and then I can re-leave myself. The embarrassing part is that she insists that she wipe me with baby wipes afterwards then re-pins my diapers. If I complain about the embarrassment of that, i am spanked.

The reason she wipes you with baby wipes is she DOES want to wipe you but the baby wipes don't tear or disintegrate like cheap toilet paper as you wipe which keeps YOUR shit off HER hands.

Why would you be embarrassed if she use baby wipes?