"Accidentally - On purpose" getting caught naked as an adult by someone of the opposite sex

I am a married man in my mid-forties, and for many years have fantasized about being caught naked by pretty ladies - some that I know very well (wife's and my friends) and some that I may have never met before (hotel maid, women at the beach or pool etc..). Has anyone ever been caught naked as an adult? Was it a thrilling experience? Did you ever stage it so you would get caught naked by someone? or have you ever caught another adult naked? do you think they let you catch them naked accidentally?

To kick the topic off, I'll share one episode that happened a few years back. There have been many others which I'll describe in other postings, but also some near misses where I was going to let myself 'get caught', but chickened out at the last minute. So wish I would have gone through with a few of those!!

So one day I came home from work and knew that my wife had hired someone to help organize the closets in our house. I went into the kitchen where my wife was talking to another woman who was introduced to me as Shannon. Wow was Shannon ever a knock out!!! My guess is she was in her mid 30's, with long brunette hair, tall and slim with sparkling eyes and a killer smile. She was in jeans and a tight t-shirt that showed off a set of nice perky boobs. After some chit-chat I told my wife I was going to the gym and left the room. I went upstairs to our bedroom and saw the house was littered with piles of clothes and boxes everywhere. But before getting ready for the gym, I hung out at our desk in the bedroom reading some mail for about 10-15 minutes. In hindsight I realize my wife and Shannon probably thought I had left the house. Shannon had clearly been working in our bedroom closet too as things were laid out all on the floor. Finally when I went into the closet to change, I heard Shannon and my wife speaking downstairs. I remembered how hot and sexy Shannon looked and hearing her voice while I was undressing made me start fantasizing about what if she happened to walk into our room and catch me totally naked. Exciting and sexy thought!! I stripped down fully naked, fluffed my penis up a bit and was enjoying the naughty sensation of being naked while hearing Shannon's sexy voice. I was enjoying this thrill but knew I couldn't stand around like that forever and had to get going.

And then it happened! As if perfectly on cue, the phone rang in our bedroom, It startled me, and took me a ring or two to realize that it wasn't the house phone, nor any of our cellphones - it was Shannon's cellphone!!! I wondered if she could hear it downstairs and would she come running upstairs to get it? Would I have the courage to just stand there in all my naked glory and allow this pretty lady to 'accidentally - yet SO on purpose' catch me so totally exposed and fully naked? I only had a second or two to think of answers since I heard Shannon say "oh that's my phone" and start running up the stairs. I felt the knotting and rolling of butterflies in my stomach and my heart start racing. I didn't plan any of this, but the beauty of the situation was that in order to get from the doorway to her phone, Shannon had to run past our walk-in closet and I quickly realized I could 'hide' in there, and just so happen to step out right as she was entering the room. It didnt take long to play out, but I remember I had one final gut check of "am I really going to do this?" the answer back in my head was a resounding "yes... go for it!!"

The sound of Shannon's footsteps on the hardwood floor outside our bedroom made it clear she was just about to enter the room. And so with my heart pounding wildly and like a male peacock proud to display his wares, I stepped out of the closet and directly into Shannon's view. She was about 10 feet in front of me and closing the distance fast and her eyes went wide as saucers and her mouth fell agape when she was suddenly confronted with my total frontal nudity. I focused on how her pretty hair was bouncing around and how her perfect breasts encased in that t-shirt were just jutting out. She had a clear look of shock (was it a tinge of excitement too or was that my imagination?) in her eyes and we both kind of froze with that deer in the headlights kind of moment while we each took in the fact that we were there staring at each other not 5 or 6 feet apart. Me with a semi erect penis in all my naked glory, and she this very surprised and very attractive, nicely dressed lady. The moment didn't last long but it was priceless. Her mouth quickly went from expressing shock to one that burst out a little giggle and a "oops I'm sorry". The giggle went to a little smile and then to a slight smirk as she raised her hand to her mouth in that classic way women do trying to suppress another giggle or two. She didn't look away but kept moving to shuffle past me to get to her phone, while I turned to give her a full view of my bare ass mooning away at her (and hey why not?), as I dashed back into the closet and closed the door. She got to her phone, and left the room chatting away. I finished getting dressed for the gym and went downstairs. On my way out, I didn't see my wife but passed by Shannon who was crouched down by some boxes. She did a little hair toss (oh so sexy) to clear the hair from her face as she looked up at me, and I sheepishly let out a "ahhh sorry about that... I didn't realize you were coming in"....and she smiled and came back with something like "oh no I'm sorry that was my fault...I shouldn't have barged in like that...I didn't know you were in there" ..... "its ok" I said, "no harm done" and gave her back a little embarrassed smile ..she too smiled and I'm SURE I saw a little delighted twinkle in her eye... when I got back from the gym, she was gone and I didn't see her after that but its fun to relive that memory and hear that giggle and see that smile !!!

Interesting topic, I am a nudist and my mother hates it! I learned to be somewhat discreet with my nudity. There was, however one occasion where it was a purposeful thing. I wanted mom to see me. She is a good looking woman. The fact she's my mother doesn't subtract from her looks. I suppose we have decent genetics. I was actually putting make up on, rare occasion for me as I have a natural glow, naturally red cheeks, and beautiful high cheekbones. I put make up on and shower upstairs off her bedroom. There's a bathroom she seldom uses. I was nude and I heard her door open and her going through her closet. I opened the bathroom door wide and continued putting on make up. Mom saw me, asked me if I'm that proud of my body that I opened the door. I made a lame excuse that I was airing out the bathroom from my shower. She had a trace of a smile. I know I didn't imagine it. I am not ashamed of my nudity. That is our natural form and more people should embrace it.

Never done the on purpose thing but have had several people stop in unannounced while I was nude. The dogs never even noticed they pulled in. Love how they bark at every other random noise but not when someone pulls in.

While staying in an hotel, the nurse once came to my suite to give me an injection and the maid walked in just as I was bending over with pants down to get it.

Posting this may be a little redundant for me by now, but for all intents and purposes, on at least 4 instances within the last few months, i purposefully timed myself to be out by the curb with my trash in my jockstrap at the moment the older lady who lives 3 houses up drove by in either direction. The way i positioned myself each of the 1st 3 times, she was able to have a good view of my strap framed exposed buttocks.

The last go round, i provided her with a good view of my jockstrap pouch. Each time, it's played as an innocent coincidence, as if i didn't think anyone was around and could get away with not putting clothes on.

I've also allowed my jockstrap framed ass be seen from my neighbors' kitchen window, whether i'm in my kitchen or on my back porch. The neighbors include a wife and 2 grown daughters. The wife did come out of her front door once when i was doing my trash shenanigans.

I am, by no means, done with these shenanigans. They will continue and progress. I've reached an off the deep end point where i "can't not" do it. no matter how scared, nervous i get & how much i want to chicken out, the fetish is too strong to let me back out.

You take somebody who has written 2 blogs so far on "The Need To Be Seen", and naturally, an "Accidentally - On Purpose" incident is bound to be part of it.

While staying in an hotel, the nurse once came to my suite to give me an injection and the maid walked in just as I was bending over with pants down to get it.

One of these days, i'm gonna be in a m/hotel room waiting for the maid to walk in. It's either gonna be "I didn't hear you, i was in the shower", as I wait in the shower, or I may pretend to be asleep with no blankets, or i may be at the farthest point in the room with no clothes near me, and the maid will walk in & get minimally a brief glimpse.

And i may very well set a cam up under a pile of clothes to capture the moment

This is sort of on my bucket list.

Healthy 44, I wish I was one of your neighbors . I might " accidently" bump into you while running a forgotten recycleable to the bin ,in only my skimpy robe of course.

Quite some time ago in Florida one of my friends I worked with & i partied a lot & just hung out.

You know how all the bull goes on, caring on goofing off joking & so on

I knew my friends wife wanted to see me naked yet I'm modest & reserved at the time.

It just so happened one day after many beers i was in nead of a shower, the shower stall was in their bed room while im sitting on floor she proceeds to say "well what are you waiting for" ok so naked i was as she thanks me very much for seeing all of me, some big cock stories are true & she got a eye full.

It's called CFNM and I have posted my experiences being "accidentally" nude in front of our housekeeper and a hotel maid in prior posts. It is a tremendous rush for me.

Healthy 44, I wish I was one of your neighbors . I might " accidently" bump into you while running a forgotten recycleable to the bin ,in only my skimpy robe of course.

Sweetiepie, Not only do i wish you were one of my neighbors, but i wish all the other ladies i converse with on this site would share the same sentiment you have.

I have posted my experiences being "accidentally" nude in front of our housekeeper and a hotel maid in prior posts.

Dominique Strauss-Kahn also had sort of the same experiences and then a bit more ... must have been a rush for him too, but it didn't work out all that well ... ha ha ha

Another site 'cfnm village' dedicated to that discussion, regards cfnm to be consensual on the part of the female. Else the situation is flashing, or indecent exposure. I think the difference is boundaries: it's not 'decent' to expose genitals, female breasts in normal situations. If one exposes him/herself for the purposes of eliciting shock, alarm, disgust, or sexual titillation it violates the viewers boundaries. Such behavior is defined as indecent exposure in many jurisdictions. Lying in wait naked for the hotel maid to open the door and see one naked, as fantasized above, seems to me to be a situation that is non-consensual on the part of the maid.

http://www.motherjones.com/kevin-drum/2011/05/why-do-hotels-tolerate-sexual-predators

In contrast the cfmn situations on this site are generally where the female is in charge of the situation: a female doctor, nurse, technician, etc doing things 'legally' to a male, or it's consensual sexual play, nudism, bdsm,

Oh yes I was "accidentally" caught by my sister in law while I was sleeping naked...

I often walk around naked in my ground floor apartment while people are sitting outside in the communal area.I figure if they are looking in and they catch a glimpse of me in my birthday suit they can't really complain.

This is a very interesting topic for me. I have never been "caught" fully nude by others but I have been partially exposed. Usually without fully realizing it. But this type of situation is a big turn on for me. However, bratwurst is right. You have to be very careful about these situations. Just because we get a thrill out of being exposed in front of others doesn't mean others want to see us naked. I have had fantasies about being caught naked or pantsless by visiting females, but I've never actually experienced it. Which is probably for the best.

I have a friend who runs a business that entails field interviewers visiting homes to conduct surveys. The interviews are always by appointment. She told me that at least once a month a female interviewer encounters a man who comes to the door with either an open robe, a pair of pajama pants with his member hanging out, or in some state of undress. They're almost always old men. That the interviews are pre-scheduled shows that the men acted deliberately.

Hearing this made me happy that none of my planned naked encounters actually occurred. The closest I came was while I was in the hospital. Wearing one of those hospital gowns that are open in the back, I was frequently exposed from behind and sometimes in the front. It was hard to avoid because the gowns were so flimsy. I was recently in the hospital again and noticed that gown technology has come a long way. Even if it wasn't tied in the back, the "new" gowns, at least the ones given to me, were very substantial. It was basically impossible to really be exposed with these. Not at all like the ones I had to wear back in the 1980s.

My only experiences being "accidentally - on-purpose" caught naked were only partial exposure. This always stemmed from my habit of going "commando" and wearing shorts that were too loose, too tight, too short, too thin, too full of holes, or some combination of all of the above.

The closest was once when I was in my twenties. I went to the beach with a group of friends. I brought a pair of light tan gym shorts to wear as a bathing suit. Without anything underneath, I went into the water. I probably should have known that this was not enough coverage. I expected they might fall down if I got out of the water too fast but was prepared to hang on to them. I was not expecting that the shorts would become fully transparent when wet. I was wading around in the water for a fairly long time before my friend came in after me and told me that I looked naked in my wet shorts. I looked down and realized that he was right. Evidently he noticed some other beachgoers were staring at me. My smart-ass friends let me sit in the water for a long time before eventually "rescuing" me with a towel. I had to sit in the sand with a towel wrapped around my waist for a long time before my shorts dried and regained their opacity.

Later on, I was kneeling down and saw my friend's girlfriend staring at my crotch area. When I looked down I noticed my penis was hanging out of my shorts. I quickly tucked myself in and readjusted my legs. It was a genuine moment and, as far as I know, she never said anything to anybody. This is the first time I have ever talked about that incident. But for years that group of friends had a good laugh about the day I was caught "nekkid" at the beach.

a female interviewer encounters a man who comes to the door with either an open robe, a pair of pajama pants with his member hanging out, or in some state of undress. They're almost always old men. That the interviews are pre-scheduled shows that the men acted deliberately.

There seems to be an effect of aging, where you reach the point where you could care less about what others think, that you just go ahead and do what you want. This is a fine example of that. And guys i chat with in their 70's or so have a similar sentiment. They'll stand in their window or go out in their yard. They could care less about what the reaction will be, but they just want to be seen. There's a liberating thing about it that i've grown to understand.

There seems to be an effect of aging, where you reach the point where you could care less about what others think, that you just go ahead and do what you want. This is a fine example of that. And guys i chat with in their 70's or so have a similar sentiment. They'll stand in their window or go out in their yard. They could care less about what the reaction will be, but they just want to be seen. There's a liberating thing about it that i've grown to understand.

Well, I'm 71 and I'm not going to walk outside naked or with my penis hanging out. However, I am often times sitting in my recliner in the living room without the benefit of any clothing. I like being nude. I've always kept a shirt and shorts, or pants, on the couch in case someone were to come to the door. Well, I've decided I am going to modify my behavior somewhat. Most people that would come to our front door I would be able to see thru the front picture window. If it's someone I know; or, I didn't see them so don't know who it is, then on go the clothes. But, if it is someone that appears to be soliciting in the neighborhood, the heck with putting on clothes. If they give me a shocked look or say anything, I'll simply reply when they ring my doorbell, they get what they get. I'd love for that to happen tomorrow. lol!!

Anoldguy, this is just what JTMac doesn't get. Let me point out first that I have no interest in getting into an argument.

But there is a difference between "getting caught" and deliberately flashing. When an unannounced solicitor comes knocking at the door and sees a naked person inside or catches an unwanted glimpse of a penis, that solicitor has to understand that they are interrupting and disrupting someone's privacy. But when someone makes an appointment and arrives to see an exposed penis or naked person, they have a right to be offended. That was my point. As bratwurst states, when someone exposes himself with the intent to shock, it is not acceptable because the recipient has the right not to see unwanted body parts. So if the interviewee knows the questioner is coming and dresses inappropriately, it's not a matter of being "too old to care." It's a matter of being a flasher.

I guess the point is that, while some of us may get a thrill out of being exposed, if we have an exhibitionist element to our personalities, there are proper circumstances in which to express that. Deliberately tricking women into seeing your dick is not one of them.

When I was in college , I worked summers as a life guard. One of the female pool attendants had made a habit of coming into the guards dressing room about shift change. It was a unisex room but the everyone let the opposite sex guards change in privacy. The only lock on the door was a padlock and hasp on the outside of the door. It was the honor system but it worked just fine. This one gal always seemed to show up and would say something like, "Don't mind me." And she would come in and fiddle with something in her locker and leave. She almost caught some of us but we caught on to the game quickly. Finally one day, I decided I had had enough of it. I undressed and waited until she came in. Her "Don't mind me" died in her throat. I made sure she got a good show before stepping into the shower. She lingered for a couple of minutes and left. On my way out she appologized for walking in on me and I just told her "Don't mind me." She didn't come into the guard room at shift change again.

But there is a difference between "getting caught" and deliberately flashing. When an unannounced solicitor comes knocking at the door and sees a naked person inside or catches an unwanted glimpse of a penis, that solicitor has to understand that they are interrupting and disrupting someone's privacy. But when someone makes an appointment and arrives to see an exposed penis or naked person, they have a right to be offended.

Deliberately tricking women into seeing your dick is not one of them.

I agree 100%.

I knew a woman who, in her mid-30's, would go to a large clothing store, take a dress off the rack and go into a changing room. Then she would take off everything, except maybe stockings, and she would unlock the door, and stand there waiting for someone to open the door. She said it wasn't so much she wanted to shock people, in fact she felt a little guilty about possibly traumatizing any of her "victims," but she got such a thrill from being seen naked by surprised strangers. It didn't matter to her if it was men or women. Although it only lasted a moment, when the door was opened and then closed by the unsuspecting person, she really got off on it. She also loved the anticipation while she stood there totally bared, waiting for someone to open the door.

She was always careful to not do this in the same store, again. She traveled for work, so she mostly did this while visiting other cities.

I think this is something women can get away with much more easily than men, as evidenced by many cases in the news, of late, involving famous and powerful guys being brought down by such behavior.