I have never been married. I have lived with a woman (Holly) for almost 9yrs, but never married, it just seemed like it. I now have good relations with most all of my ex-girlfriends, including the woman I lost my virginity to, so long ago, the Rolling Stones still had top hits. Kathy, my first, called me up a few years ago and said, "I just got divorced, I got a ton of money, I am in a hotel in San Diego, come over and lets party!" Kathy and I still have great sex, better now that when we did when were high school. What married couple can say that?
I love all of my ex's.. And still have relations with many of them... I answer to no-one... I also give my loves the freedom to do as they wish, which I think has been my secret over the years.. I feel blessed, more so than my Parents who have been married since the 50's and can't stand each other.
A few of my ex's have given me complements recently, after having experiences with other lovers over 3 decades. This has really made me more confident at 53, than I ever have been in my life. I have maintained myself over the years, I can still perform as much as when I was 18, but the sex is much better. I do not eat processed foods, other than the occasional pasta or potato chip, which then I choose the natural ones.. I have had en enema fetish since I was 10, which I believe has contributed to my youthfulness at 53.
A few of my ex-lovers thought my enema fetish was weird, I got rid of those ones, but now, my enema fetish does not seem so weird to them, and some have adopted the practice..
The most sexually compatible of my lovers is my step-sister. I gave her her first orgasm with an enema when she was 19. Now in her late 40's, she and I still give each other enemas and anal sex when I see her. To this day, it is still the only way she can climax. She lives in another state and I do keep this relationship rather secret from my family for obvious reasons..
The only time I ever considered marriage, It turned out to be a heart breaking experience, full of unreasonable expectations...
Today, I am very happily single. I have experienced new lovers recently, and I practice clean, safe enema fetish sex.. I have discovered new fetish clubs in San Francisco which have been eye openers, even in my 50's. Surprising, I meet many divorced women in these San Francisco clubs, most do not want long term relationships, just fun with out drama. I have found that many of these divorced women were married to doctors and airline pilots. They often complain that their ex's were never there for them...
Even in my 50's, I have no problem meeting women, even girls young enough to be my daughter, which sometimes turns out to be really kinky in a whole new way for me. I do not have any children, but I find the whole Father/daughter role playing thing to be totally stimulating for me... This started when i took some art classes several years ago. I met a young artist, Natalie, 20 at the time. We were on a camping trip and SHE started to fondle me as we were sleeping in the same tent. Since I was so much older, I let her make the first move. After a while, she started calling me "Daddy" as she starts to orgasm. Having my experience, I never claimed her, or became possessive of her and we had relations on and off now for several years.
This weekend, I am headed to San Francisco for the weekend, (I live in Northern Cal) the former member of the Grateful Dead are playing Shorline Amphitheater. I admit, I am having a great middle age crisis...
I hope that others can learn to relax, and take it casually. I may not have sex every night, but neither do married couples.
I am also open to meeting other like minded women on this site who are into enemas. I am not totally stuck on the age thing, you can be younger, or even older than me. If you are into enemas and are liberated, we should link up.
Despite my experience, I am STD free. I enjoy mostly enema fetish sex, which has proven to be a very clean and happy for me. I only have condom-less sex when I am in a relationship that involves having been tested for std's. So have fun! I wish all of you the best, and if you are interested in role-play/enemas etc with a really fun, drama free and experienced lover, feel free to contact me...
Like I said, I will be at Shoreline this weekend.. I will be the one with the wolf dog, and yes, I get her into the shows....